Here’s the headline for the cover story in the September/October issue of Scientific American Mind magazine:
Inside the mind of a psychopath
Neuroscientists are discovering that some of the most cold-blooded killers aren’t bad. They suffer from a brain abnormality that sets them adrift in an emotionless world.
The authors of the article are Kent A. Kiehl and Joshua W. Buckholtz. Dr. Kiehl is the researcher who examines the brains of psychopaths in prison using fMRI technology. Lovefraud wrote about him before in Psychopaths, crime and choice.
This latest article, Inside the mind of a psychopath, is an excellent overview of the personality disorder. It summarizes the characteristics of psychopaths, with chilling anecdotes to describe their behavior. It briefly explains the biology of the disorder—describing areas of the brain that are abnormal. It explains research that has shed light on different aspects of how psychopaths differ from the rest of us.
The article is well-written, thorough and understandable. In it, Kiehl and Buckholtz write specifically about the individuals who meet the definition of a psychopath used by researchers in the field: someone scoring at least 30 out of 40 on the Psychopathy Checklist Revised (PCL-R).
I can understand this limitation from a research perspective, but for society as a whole, it’s a problem.
Psychopathy Checklist Revised
The PCL-R was developed by Dr. Robert Hare, and the article includes a summary of how it works. The evaluation covers 20 behaviors and traits. A clinician assigns a score of 0, 1 or 2 for each item, based on how well the description matches the subject.
The scores are based on both an interview with the subject, and a review of the information in his or her file. This is critical, of course, because psychopaths can be extremely charming in an interview, and conveniently forget to talk about their malignant histories.
The PCL-R evaluates the following behaviors and traits:
Antisocial behavior
- Need for stimulation and proneness to boredom
- Parasitic lifestyle
- Poor behavioral control
- Sexual promiscuity
- Lack of realistic long-term goals
- Impulsivity
- Irresponsibility
- Early behavior problems
- Juvenile delinquency
- Parole of probation violations
Emotional/interpersonal traits
- Glibness and superficial charm
- Grandiose sense of self-worth
- Pathological lying
- Conning and manipulativeness
- Lack of remorse or guilt
- Shallow affect
- Callousness and lack of empathy
- Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
Other factors
- Committing a wide variety of crimes
- Having many short-term marital relationships
The maximum score on the PCL-R is 40, which means that the person was rated as 2”—a reasonably good match—”on every item. To be considered a true psychopath, an individual must have a score of 30.
Prevalence of psychopaths
The criteria used by researchers to diagnose psychopaths is stringent, so the total number of people who have this disorder comes out as far lower what we usually talk about here on Lovefraud.
Here’s what the article says about the prevalence of psychopaths in society:
• People with the disorder make up 0.5 to 1 percent of the general population.
• When you discount children, women (for reasons that remain a puzzle, few women are afflicted), and those who are already locked up, that translates to approximately 250,000 psychopaths living freely in the U.S.
• Some researchers have estimated that as many as 500,000 psychopaths inhabit the U.S. prison system.
• Between 15 and 35 percent of U.S. prisoners are psychopaths.
• Psychopaths offend earlier, more frequently and more violently than others, and they are four to eight times more likely to commit new crimes on release.
• Kiehl recently estimated that the expense of prosecuting and incarcerating psychopaths, combined with the costs of the havoc they wreak in others’ lives, totals $250 billion to $400 billion a year.
Psychopathy continuum
What does the article say about people who may not qualify as card-carrying psychopaths, scoring less than 30 out of 40 on the PCL-R? Not much. A box accompanying the article, called Do you know a psychopath?, contains the only reference:
The thing is, everyone falls somewhere on the psychopathy continuum. The average person scores about a 4, but there are plenty who rank in the teens and 20s—not high enough to receive an official diagnosis, yet possessing significant (and often noticeable) psychopathic tendencies—the bullying boss, the drifter, the irresponsible guy who is always milking the generosity of friends and lovers.
Now, I don’t know who wrote the paragraph above—the authors of the main article, Kiehl and Buckholtz, or some editor at Scientific American Mind magazine. But the overall effect is that scope and danger of the psychopathy problem is significantly underplayed. The question is, why?
Low-ball estimates
What is to be gained by low-balling the prevalence of this personality disorder in society?
I don’t know how many of us were involved with someone who would score 30 or more on the PCL-R. But I am willing to say that most of us have experienced something significantly more damaging than, “the bullying boss, the drifter, the irresponsible guy who is always milking the generosity of friends and lovers.”
Maybe we were with people who would have scored between 10 and 29. Dr. Liane Leedom recently reported that another psychopathy researcher, Dr. Reid Meloy, says people who score between 10 and 19 have a “mild psychopathic disturbance” and people who score between 20 and 29 have a “moderate psychopathic disturbance.” Why does Kiehl ignore them?
And how about all the women who exhibit these traits? Why did Kiehl and Buckholtz give them a blanket exemption? And children? Dr. Robert Hare acknowledges that psychopathic traits can be seen in children. He’s even developed a version of the PCL-R that can be used to evaluate children as young as age 12.
The bottom line is that many psychopathy researchers work with prisoners. It’s easy to understand why—prisoners are literally a captive audience. Plus, I imagine that funding is available.
But this focus on the worst of the worst, those locked up for truly heinous crimes, vastly underestimates the danger of people with psychopathic traits, even if they don’t cross the 30-point threshold. And this is really bad for society.
Read Inside the mind of a psychopath on TheMindInstitute.org.
Link supplied by a Lovefraud reader.
Skylar,
Okay, I will keep that one someday that I feel the need to draw on some legal recourse. It is hard to keep quiet, but gray rock is best.
I did read your story and OMG, it was raining spaths in your neighborhood! It’s like one of those zombie movies where you turn into a zombie if they touch you. yikes! How have you kept your sanity? I think you must have an angel watching out for you and an inner strength to survive that has carried you through.
What you said about fear of abandonment, it is so true. My spath has been begging for me to not throw him away. Something really screwed up inside of them, I do think they recognize that they aren’t normal and desperately want to be like us. Too bad, so sad, it will never happen.
Keeping my cool with the spath has been a full time job. Don’t know what will set him off.
Dear Hope4,
Whatever you do do NOT threaten him or tell him what you plan to do. Just DO IT. Sue him for slander? Cost an arm and a leg if you could get someone to represent you (a land shark) and you would have to 1) prove that he said these things , i.e. get the people he said them to to testify against him (fat chance) and 2) PROVE IT DAMAGED YOUR REPUTATION and hurt you financially.
Okay, so he says “she’s a b1atch” to his friends…sooooo farking what? He farts at both ends, hot air that stinks, so what is new with that? Sky is right, PICK YOUR BATTLES.
First battle…get the papers filed and get a court order for him to LEAVE AND THE SHERIFF TO PUT HIM OUT….it is the ONLY way he will leave is when you make him. If he tries to hug you again, go FILE assault charges against him for touching you without your consent. Make a scene if necessary at that point. STAND YOUR GROUND. He still thinks he is in control and is going to get you to do what he wants to and he has no intention of leaving. You can mark my words and take them to the bank on that!
Yea, I think we all have had a ROYAL FLUSH—but I no longer have a full house—I FLUSHED those down the toilet! I am P-FREE now thank you!!!
well, if you really want to ‘run’ with that metaphor oxy, i think it better be ‘pee free’.
peace out.
Oxy,
The currier is delivering the papers tomorrow and he has 30 days to respond.
He has been staying away from me today, thankfully. I let him know that he needs to stay away and so far so good. He hasn’t tried to come into my room at night either.
The slander thing is just plain damaging, like when his friend called up and after 5 minutes of talking said “You don’t sound crazy”. I know I can’t do anything but it feels like the abuse keeps happening because of the devaluing of me.
He stood up behind daughter and I at the hockey game and she said she was uncomfortable with that. He has no boundaries.
I second that!
You’ll never ‘head’ him off……and the more you give him ‘notice’ that you’re bugged by the actions and his words….the more he’ll ‘up’ the ante. Don’t show him your cards, you’ll never change him.
Do the opposite of your ‘urges’.
The pay off will be huge for you…..after you endure.
The only thing you can do…..is SHINE in public. Take the high road, don’t speak of him…..(again….resist the urge, do the opposite)…..you must do this 100 percent of the time…..resist and SHINE.
He will throw seeds out……and by YOUR actions…..they won’t be fertalized OR grow…..instead, people will look at the ‘manufacturer’ of those seeds as faulty……YOU WIN!
Be stealth and silent. Take notes, continue to document and keep that smile and happy face on your body at ALL the hockey games…….
Hope,
funny you said that about the angel and I was posting about St. Michael on another thread. YES, I DO have angel. I don’t deserve this angel, but by the grace of God, and perhaps because I do pray desperately, some of my prayers have been answered.
Like the song said, “we don’t get what we want, we get what we need.”
If he stands behind you, MOVE TO ANOTHER AREA. If he follows you, stop, face him and say CALMLY, please don’t follow me, I do not want to be near you.
DO NOT get into the car with him, drive yourself in your own car or catch a ride with someone else. You put yourself at his mercy when you get in a car with him.
Don’t do his laundry, don’t feed him. Cook for your kids, but not enough for him. Let him take care of himself. If he tries to discuss the divorce or property division just CALMLY say, “have your attorney contact my attorney, I am not going to discuss that with you.”
I am assuming you have copies of all the necessary bank statements, tax filings, mortgage, car titles and such. AND some money (cash) where he cannot find it and you have it safe. Kids birth certificates, coupon books on any payments. Get his name off any joint bank accounts, or take your name off. Ditto credit cards.
Keep conversation to an absolute minimum! with no visible emotion. “gray rock it” and treat him like a potted plant.
Hang in there it is getting closer! As far as him bad mouthing you, look at it this way, if those people will take his jword for it, you shouldn’t care what they think in the first place, they’re as dumb as he is. (((Hugs))))
Exactly! In fact I’m going to repost a message I just posted a moment ago in another section because it has relevance here. I’m feeling really riled by some horrid messages I’ve had from people on other sites who can’t see the light and I guess it helps to know that I’m among enlightened friends here!
Repost:
“I’m amazed at how many people are still ignorant of sociopaths/psychopaths and the damage they do. This week alone I’ve been in a number of heated online altercations where I was being called all kinds of names by people insisting that psychopaths are not all criminals and that they deserve rights a human beings. Clearly none of these people have ever been on the receiving end of a true S or P or they wouldn’t be saying that. My take has always been that they don’t have to be serial killers to create emotional, psychological and financial damage and they cannot be accorded the same human rights because they are as dangerous to human life as a hungry predator on the rampage.
I’ve been tempted to direct some of these idiots to this site but I thought on about it as I don’t want to pollute the community with trolls who would make life difficult for the rest of us. I’m not going to bother to reply to some of the abusive messages I’ve had from these ’pro-psychopath’ cranks because nothing I say can ever convince them they are blind. Only a bona fide experience with a sociopathic individual will send them running and screaming here for support and cause them to admit that I had a point. The scary thing is that the socio or P won’t have to maim or kill them to make them do that”but I guess they’ll learn that the hard way xx”
Thanks =) xx
Jeannie812 – certainly sounds like somebody thinks that lol! Some families are weird and spawn men who think they’re gods gift to women, even those they haven’t seen in decades. I know a few men like that! I sympathise 😉 xx
Dear Genevieve,
I also encountered these same people on some other sites talking about psychopaths, and it is fairly common I think for “discussions” on the internet to be by people who are themselves DISORDERED and just SPEW venom at other posters from behind a mask and being unable to be easily identified.
Those people sometimes do find their way here and we have the “report abusive comment” button and we also have the “potted plant” treatment (ignoring them and posting around their negative and hateful comments) and giving them attention on line is like giving them attention in real life, it just encourages them to continue to spew their venom and ignorant ranting.
Glad to see you back! Don’t stay away so long!!!