Editor’s note: Resource Perspectives features articles written by members of Lovefraud’s Professional Resources Guide.
Rebecca Potter works as a licensed mental health counselor in West Palm Beach, Florida. She can be reached at: tlc211@gmail.com.
Judge William Adams shown beating his daughter with a belt on YouTube
By Rebecca Potter
Rebecca Potter profile in the Lovefraud Professional Resources Guide
As I saw the following video and commentary on CNN last night, I could not sleep. It appears that the sheriff in the town of Rockport, Texas has received countless calls of concern about Judge William Adams, who was shown beating his daughter with a belt on YouTube. Judge Adams is a family court judge. People were concerned about this judge being allowed to make decisions about the welfare of children. Judge Adams has three years left to make decisions about the welfare of families in Rockport, Texas.
Here’s the YouTube video: Judge William Adams beats daughter for using the Internet
Judge Adams feels that he was fairly disciplining his daughter for downloading music from the Internet. When I saw this video of his daughter, who has cerebral palsy, she was being beaten with a belt as she begged for him to stop. The daughter had set up her computer web camera as she felt the beating coming. Recent comments from the judge indicate that he sees nothing wrong with how he abused his child. News stories indicate he has left town, and officials are stating that he will not preside over cases that involve children.
Family court ignores the physical and emotion affect of abuse on children
Current research is able to document the effects of child abuse on the brain. As a professional, when I testify in court regarding the damage to children from trauma and abuse, I am not taken seriously. The judges feel that there is no physical damage, and they say permissive parenting by the protective parent is the cause of acting out behaviors of children. Meanwhile, current research shows that 60 percent of children who experience trauma and abuse will develop a substance use disorder.
Unfortunately, many of us have had to appear before judges like the Texas Judge Adams who feels justified to whip (beat and attack) his daughter with a belt, as she had been caught downloading music. These judges discount the scientific research and evidence of physical abuse causing permanent brain damage.
Hanley Center currently researching the effects of substance use and trauma on brain health
Brain scan technology is showing evidence of physical scars that occur in the brain after trauma and abuse. I attended a lecture by Dr. Barbara Krantz, Medical Director of the Hanley Center in West Palm Beach, Florida. Brain imaging is being used in her facility. It is now possible to document what drugs and/or alcohol have been consumed based on the areas of the brain that show injury in brain scans. What also was shared was the difference in the hippocampus of an abused child and the hippocampus of a child who did not suffer abuse. This is the proof of permanent physical damage to the brain of a child who has been abused. Often these children medicate the emotional pain with substance use.
Practicing Mental Health without a license
Family judges are practicing mental health without a license. This practice by family court judges is dangerous to the health of our families, our nation and our financial well-being
- Many of these judges are unaware of current research.
- Judges do not allow children to testify or be a part of the court hearings that determine their well-being
- Children and protective parents are developing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
Additionally, when a judge has a tendency for personal pathology, they relate to the litigant who is also shares the personal pathology traits. These disordered individuals agree in the harsh punishment, punishment that does not fit the crime. This is the philosophy of control and dominance. These judges discriminate against the protective parent because they have not processed very personal feelings, and the protective parent is unbearable to their own personal philosophy. The judges are able to make decisions that affect the mental health of a child without the ability to understand their own personal opinions and processing of their own injuries. Readers will want to read articles on www.highconflictinstitute.com to understand the ignorance of judges who are confronted with the high conflict divorce and custody cases.
I have worked in the mental health field, and have had years of training to separate my own personal views and judgments from the individuals that I treat. This discernment and ability to separate your personal opinions and judgment comes from intensive personal training, supervision and counseling. Judges are exposed to mental health issues of families and children. They have not had this training and they are unable to provide a competent decision in these cases. In my opinion, I feel that Family Court judges are being asked to practice the profession of mental health without the proper training.
Judges use of defense mechanisms to insulate themselves against protective parents
When an individual does not have the training, supervision and experience to understand their use of defense mechanisms (your own dysfunction and personal defects), the individual blames and targets the individual who reminds you of your emotional pain. The use of these defense mechanisms allows an individual to insulate themselves from the pain, guilt, and shame.
Often times, the judges are so angered by the protective parent that to further insulate the judge, the protective parent is thrown in jail, or worse, the children are taken away and given to the parent with whom the judge can relate and identify. There is further emotional and financial pain placed upon the protective parent. The protective parent and children are damaged by the trauma of the court and develop complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
In my opinion, this is use of a defense mechanisms to project blame and repress the protective parent. If the children are removed and the protective parent is placed in jail, the judges do not have to face their own dysfunction. The saying, “out of sight, out of mind” is the attitude of a dysfunctional individual who wants to keep memories, fears, guilt and shame repressed.
Behavioral Research
Typically, all behavior research has demonstrated that punishment does not achieve a reduction in undesirable behavior. Punishment will actually increase the behavior. The individual who is punished will become more rebellious, fearful and sneaky. There are some severe situations in which punishment is used to extinguish a behavior. The use of punishment must be reviewed by other professionals to determine the effectiveness of the punishment and the safety of a plan that is put in place.
Overseeing the Family Court System
The children who are exposed to court and legal trauma are developing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. They have been exposed to a war and punishment. The children are left in a state of hopeless despair, fear and victimhood. There is no committee of professionals who oversee the effect of the Family Court decisions on families and children.
I honor the courage and strength of the judge’s daughter for exposing his abuse to the nation. I feel inspired by this brave young girl’s courage and write about this very controversial topic to inspire our nation to band together to write letters and support each other as we attempt to change this ignorant archaic system used in our courts.
One person will not be able to change this system. It is time to band together and develop a plan to insist that the judges no longer have the only authority to make decisions for families. We must also insist that psychologists who depend on the court for fees are not allowed to diagnose a traumatized parent as a personality disordered parent. It takes a trauma specialist to diagnose this disorder and protective parents are often diagnosed with personality disorders. This has become a major epidemic in the American judicial system, an epidemic that has serious legal, health and financial consequences to our nation. We need to demand committees of independent professionals be involved in Family Court decisions.
I’d be sick if I weren’t so disgusted. Yeah, they really sent him a message.
G1S, jeepers, criminy crissmass!
And, the oddest thing about your situation is that it isn’t out of the “norm” in most big businesses (and, even small ones). It goes back to enabling. The young kid probably strokes the old guy’s ego to such a degree that the old guy doesn’t believe that he can do without this kid. Eugh…
I’ve worked in toxic environments, before, and I always made huge mistakes by allowing myself to be drawn into the drama/trauma. Because I had a flawed system of beliefs, I didn’t know that I had the “option” to just do my farking job and let the child fall where they did.
Spaths in the workplaces cause untold damgages. From embezzlement to other employees calling out sick from stress, they constitute a huge liablity to any business. Being truthful and reasonable can benefit a business FAR more than being cutthroat and underhanded, IMHO.
Brightest blessings
Well, maybe him deciding family law cases will give the attorneys of the women/men he screws a way to appeal his verdicts….
Sky, yea, probably! But I think he is gonna want to start with ME and I ain’t NO VIRGIN! I’ve been around the track with him and I won’t be an easy victim. I won’t walk out into the woods with him. I will be WAITING for him, EXPECTING him and I won’t be an easy victim like Jessica was. He may try to put two bullets in my head but it will be after the fire fight. He was really brave with Jessica, she was unarmed and unafraid…I am neither unarmed and I am forewarned.
This judge reinstatement makes me want to vomit. The GOOD OLD BOY SYSTEM IS ALIVE AND WELL IN TEXAS, and probably the other 49 states as well.
OxyD,
I have the same feeling about this judge and I wouldn’t want this jackhole on my case. I wouldn’t be quiet about it either. They have no SHAME! If he did, he would step down. He wouldn’t put his slime on the courthouse if he were half a man.
I just saw a case on Nancy Grace where parents of a murdered couple of young adults have been dragged through the courts for 7 years. Their kids were killed in the most torturous ways and due to the judge having a prescription medication addiction who sat on the bench when the murderers were tried, they are all having to relive this again and again. The big story last night was the woman involved with the killings who is getting a new trial from the druggie judges actions, was granted a “spa day” by the new judge for her new trial since she dyed her hair kool-aid red and her attorney wants her to have a make over!!! Those parents are so disgusted with the injustice system and have just fought for justice for their loved ones and are livid about the “staging” of the murderer while making her appear as someone she is not by getting her dolled up for trial.
Their nightmare is horrific and they said the perpetrator has the system jumping through hoops to ensure their rights but the victims had/have NONE. It’s is so sad. It’s even worse because it’s the rule not the exception anymore.
Eralyn, I have read about that case…but hadn’t heard about the “spa day” yet. Yea, judges who drink, drug, abuse are still allowed to sit on the bench. There is no moral standard I think any more for lawyers or judges. It makes me sick.
I am actively fighting to keep my P son in prison, and I hope and pray the parole board will keep him there.
OxD….that’s the whole crux of the legal system, IMHO.
Okie dokie. I want to get this straight, so someone explain this to me.
I have a job. If I make a mistake when I’m working, my supervisor either trains me, properly, or I’m reprimanded for violating policy or procedure. If I continue making the same farking mistake, I am suspended or fired.
Now, when a judge makes stupid decisions, who the fark is THEIR supervisor? Who reprimands an errant or corrupt judge? The Bar Association? The Governor? The President? God in Heaven?
These people in their black robes with all of the perks and power are “playing god” with human lives as if each case were a poker chip to either be redeemed or lost in a bad bet.
Who holds these people accountable? How are they held accountable? WHEN are they held accountable?
Pfffffffffffffffffffft…..(waving hand in disgust) They are immune to accountability and the Real Victims pay the cost of their foolish games.
Truthspeak,
I have a little pink brochure with my judges name on it sitting next to me. I have been advised these are dangerous to complete but it is a satisfaction questionaire on judicial performance. I have photocopied it and therapeutically tell off the judge on that form and sometimes (rarely) write nice things on it. (just to pretend my voice matters) But with that said my judges names were on the ballot at the voting booth although I have no idea if anyone counts those votes as they didn’t mention status of the judges locally after the election?? The Bar Association is another scary place you can file a complaint. Looking at my states Bar complaints, it appears NO ACTION is the main action ever taken in the multiple complaints which are filed against judges.
One of the largest complaints is lack of accountability in the judicial system. Our Secretary of State repeatedly referred back to my judges in my case when I spoke with him over lunch even though I was expressing concerns about other judicial officers, he made it clear it was ON THE JUDGE. People are suggesting “psychological evaluations” on judicial officers!! That would be great in my opinion but I doubt it will ever happen.
Eralyn, you are so right! There seems to be no accountability at all. WE THE PEOPLE are not heard if you don’t have the funds and power to reach the supreme courts…anything but small claims courts are just about inaccessible to the ordinary person without funds for $300 per hour attorneys.
Here is an article about a jailer who beat and savaged a woman and it is caught on CCTV and he gets off and gets his job back.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2230580/A-police-officer-sacked-woman-prisoner-dragged-floor-thrown-cell-job-High-Court-judge-ruled.html
I guess someone like the judge in Texas made that decisionn.
Truthspeak, I think your comment to me was meant for the thread about psychopaths at work, correct?