By Joyce Alexander, RNP (Retired)
I recently bought a book, Violence Risk and Threat Assessment: A Practical Guide for Mental Health and Criminal Justice Professionals, by J. Reid Meloy, Ph.D. I actually bought it to give some “credence” to the statistics I put into my letter to the parole board protesting the release on parole of the Trojan Horse-Psychopath that attacked our family,
Of course this book is directed, as the title says, to professionals, and to assess risk of violence. But since we are dealing with psychopaths, it is, I think, a good idea for us to be able also to look at the assessment for possible violence in our own psychopaths when we thwart their desires, or kick them to the curb. We need to answer the questions, “Is my psychopath likely to respond with violence? If so, how?”
Most violent individuals are not violent all the time. In the introduction, the author illustrates that “just because an abnormality (in behavior) ”¦ only shows on occasion, does not mean it has gone away.” (My emphasis.)
A “false negative” is when you decide that your individual will not be violent, and you are wrong. You may pay for this decision with your life. A “false positive” is when you think your individual will be prone to violence, and they are not. Being prepared for violence, even if your individual psychopath does not turn out to be physically violent is, of course, the safest way to play it. If you are going to err, erring on the side of caution is the best course. False positives are less damaging to us than false negatives.
There are also different kinds of “violence.” Not all violence that does damage to us is physical. Psychopaths can become financially violent and deprive us of our income, our estate, and a hundred other violations that we can all imagine.
Contributors to violence
Dr. Meloy uses what he calls a bio-psycho-social model for Violence Risk Assessment to assess an individual’s risk for violence. This consists of the biological aspects, the psychological aspects and the social aspects of the individual in question.
The first, the psychological domain, contains such things as gender, age, past history of violence, frequency of violence, how recent have they been violent, and severity of past violence, paranoia, intelligence, anger, fear problems, and the frequency and intensity of them, as well as control of impulses. Of course, the psychopathy and other attachment problems will weigh in heavily on this.
The second, the social or environmental domain, looks at the family of origin violence, economic instability and poverty, WEAPONS HISTORY, weapon skill, interest and approach behavior, as well as alcohol and or psycho-stimulant use.
The third domain is the biological one. Is there a history of head trauma, or major mental disorder (like untreated bi-polar disorder).
Dr. Meloy also emphasizes that the MOST IMPORTANT factor in his judgment is the history of past violence. The best predictor of future violence is a history of past violence.
Questions to ask yourself in doing your own “risk assessment for violence” in your psychopath are: How “provoked” is your psychopath by losing you? Do they have the paranoid personality disorder, in which they feel “that everyone is out to get them,” with a long memory for imagined slights or wounds from those people “out to get them”? Are they chronically angry, fearful and jealous? Some forms of illegal drugs will also contribute to paranoia, and as the use of drugs and the interest and reliance on weapons goes up, so does the risk of violence. Dr. Maloy mentions the killing of Nichole Brown Simpson, where she was not only killed, but after death her body almost beheaded. He says that drugs, along with the rage, could have easily lowered the threshold for the abandonment rage which probably motivated the killer.
Fear and stalking
Dr. Meloy also goes into the lack of difference between biochemical reactions to both fear and anger. Both cause the same reaction within the body. How intense is the anger response in the person you are evaluating? How does the person handle anger?
Dr. Meloy differentiates between two different kinds of violence by illustrating his text with a story about a cat.
We have all seen a cat, cornered by a dog, with its hackles raised, its tail up, hissing and spitting. That cat is emotionally reacting in a violent way to the fear inside it that it is going to be attacked by the dog. (This is called “affective” or emotional violence in reaction to a perceived threat.) Once the perceived threat is gone, the cat will quickly return to a state of calm. The purpose of this kind of violence is “threat reduction.”
The second type of violence illustrated with another story of a cat is the predatory violence, which is planned and purposeful and goal directed.
The planned and purposeful (or predatory) violence has a minimal or absent autonomic arousal, (which is the hair standing on end, the hissing and spitting etc.). As you observe the cat in predatory violence—such as stalking a mouse or bird—the cat is calm, cool and collected. It is focused on a goal as it stalks the prey. It tries to keep its purpose (violence) hidden and it tries to keep the prey from realizing that it is prey.
The brain chemicals released in each of these states of violence are completely different. The emotionally generated fear induced violence is a defense mechanism. It can still be a threat to anyone who is the perceived enemy, but it quickly subsides once the threat is gone.
With predatory violence, the predator is goal directed to do violence to the prey. They may plot and plan and take quite some time to stalk and corner the prey. The predator may strike without warning. Unlike emotionally (fear) induced violence, predatory violence is not time limited and the stalking may go on for days, weeks, months or years.
Knowing which type of violence your psychopathic adversary is involved with at any given moment can help you assess what your course of action should be. If the Psychopath is showing the “cornered cat” response, for example for being confronted in a lie, your best response is to just “back off” and let them calm down when the perceived threat is removed. If the psychopath is stalking you; emotionally, financially, or physically, they will not be so obvious to spot as the enraged cat. Once you have determined that the person you are dealing with is a psychopath, or likely one, you must assume that the person will engage in predatory violence on some level. The fact that this stalking and predatory violence may be very subtle does not make it any less dangerous.
In the short term, cornering one in a threatening manner (confrontation of any kind) can produce an emotionally violent response or even physical attack, but in the long term, the predatory violence can do more damage to us, body and soul. We need, I think, to assess the state our psychopath is operating in, and learn when to back off with confrontations, and when to prepare ourselves for “out of the blue” attacks when they are in a predatory state.
Here is the link to the text version rather than the pdf version:
http://www.unhchr.ch/udhr/lang/eng.htm
And the fixed pdf version link http://www.un.org/events/humanrights/2007/hrphotos/declaration%20_eng.pdf
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OxDrover,
While I agree that alcoholism is bad news, I’ve noticed that drugs cause at least as much trouble.
Two relationships in my life are profoundly effected by prescription drugs intended for pain management. One of the worst is neurontin, yet there is very little awareness of the hazards.
I find that the S who was getting opiates for pain management was able to manage the worst of his behaviors when he was not on the drugs because he couldn’t afford them. When he could afford them, he felt better but his behavior was atrocious.
We have a nutty member of our family who acts out in all sorts of bizarre ways. One of the things she does is diagnose herself with rare, incurable conditions. Then she shops on line for “webdoctors” and gets prescriptions for dangerous drugs I wouldn’t take on a dare. Neurontin is one of them. When she’s on it you never know what to expect. Paranoia, rages, and odd stupors all seem to go with the territory.
I wish these “pain clinics” and “webdoctors” would act more responsibly. Their patients can be dangerous, yet there doesn’t seem to be any monitoring of who prescribed what when the patient’s family and community is effected.
PS – and when you add prescription drugs to the picture, all bets are off when it comes to predicting behavior. Particularly neurontin. That stuff causes the most bizarre behavior ever, and the patient is totally unpredictable. You can have some clue that a person is under the influence of an opiate, but these new neurological agents like “lyrica” and neurontin cause a degree of unpredictability I’ve never encountered before.
That, and the “off label” prescribing habits of some doctors is totally cuckoo. They hand out dangerous toxins to all comers as if it were Halloween candy.
Dear Elizabeth,
Are you saying that online Dr.s will prescribe drubs to patients they have never even seen?!! There is so much WRONG with that!
Wini: We have changed any and all routines except one. A legal name change. Which would be almost pointless because of legal costs and the fact that it knows too many people in my life. Some of whom do not realize who this person really is. It would be impossible to try and “control” the level of knowledge this one receives daily. It’s like a car wash vacuum sucking anything and everything from anyone in exchange for something. This disease has the capabilities of finding me through many means by the circle of friends the virus has. As you can tell I am getting slightly irritated lately. Innocents are being abused emotionally right at this very moment. The day the world sees it for who it really is will climb the ladder to one of the best days I have yet to see. Watching it use others and do them in to prove a truth to be a lie is horrible. Wini I try and pray for this person. I go from being angry, hurt & upset to complete guilt over feeling the way I feel at times. I’ve asked God to help me with this issue. He obviously wants me to deal with what is going on and make it to home base a little dirty having to get up and dust myself off. There is no other explanation. He only gives us what we can handle right? 🙂 God can be so powerful, he will do what needs to be done all in good time.
~Shattered
Escaped,
Yepindoodles. “Webdoctors” are the legal pushers of our culture. Until they’re shut down or policed in some manner, we’ve got a scary problem that could pop up any where.
Law abiding citizens can get their dangerous fixes in the privacy of their own homes. Thanks “Webdoctors”.
Dear Elizabeth,
I agree that drugs (of several kinds) are just as addicting as alcohol and cause as many or more problems. “Self medicating” for any problem with drugs incorrectly prescribed/used or alcohol can definitely cause unpredictable behavior, as well as combinations of these things.
I have seen neurotin used very successfully without the side effects you mentioned, but not in personality disordered people. Soemtimes with poly-pharmacy including street drugs, Rx drugs, and alcohol in combination with severe mental illness or dual diagnosis you can get some bizzare behavior and very violent.
The availability of “drugs” (sometimes COUNTERFIT DRUGS) over the internet is scary. I can’t tell you how scary it is to me.
Though I can barely afford my antidepressant, I will not order them over the internet for 10% of what I am paying here out of pocket because I am afraid of getting counterfit pills. You just don’t know who you are dealing with.
Learning about violence from a rational standpoint is something I think we should all do. Oh, just as an aside, Dr. Meloy was involved in a case I saw on 48 Hours Mystery the other day where a boy was put in prison for 10 years for a murder he DID NOT COMMIT on Dr. Meloy’s testimony looking at the violent drawings the kid made as a 15 year old, that was the ONLY EVIDENCE USED TO CONVICT THE KID. It turned out that the detective who persued this young man for years and with held evidence that the kid was not the murderer (who is now being sued) was proven wrong 20 years after the murder by DNA evidence of the real killer (who has yet to be prosecuted but is known) It was an ex boyfriend whose DNA was found on her mutilated body and inside her underware. Also two sets of foot prints proved she was carried, not dragged, by two people from the place she was murdered to where her body was left mutilated. Those foot prints and types of shoe did NOT match the boy’s. The boy is now out of prison, a man 37 years old whose life has been ruined by a probable psychopathic detective who to this day still states the boy had to be the one who did it (in spite of the DNA evidence). Ya ever know a P to admit they were wrong? LOL I’m sorry that Dr. Meloy was caught up in that case, it was a big black eye for him.
His book, though, is a really good book, I think, because it gives some very good examples on predicting behavior and violence. Though he is not always right (none of us can be) never the less we have to PLAY THE ODDS and err on the side of CAUTION.
Too many people have been hurt or killed because they could not “see” that “s/he would do something that horrible.”
Dear Shattered_sapphire, God won’t give us more than we can take, but He will give us from tiem to time ALL we can take I think, but just as in lifting weights to grow your muscles you have to attempt to do something you can barely do, it stretches our capabilities, just as exercise to the limit stretches the capabilities of the muscles.
I remember when I was a little kid in day school (age 4 I guess) thinking I could NEVER REMEMBER ALL THOSE LETTERS IN THE ALPHABET. It was just too much to expect me to memorize those things—-but I did. I remember in chemistery feeling that I could never remember all that stuff, it was just too much, but I did. Pushing ourselves past what WE think we can do but God knows we can helps us grow, just like the teacher pushing us to learn ALL THE ALPHABET. LOL Or my Chem prof making me memorize all the sugars and all the other formulas.
Just as I can look back and see my intellectual growth from memorizing the alphabet and the sugars, I can look back and see my SPIRITUAL growth through this time I have spent in trials and chaos and confusion. So even though this has been a painful learning process, just as learning the alphabet and the sugars were painful learning processes, I think in the end, it has been worth it.
I still “backslide” from time to time, and if something surprises me I “freak” out for a minute, but it isn’t “freaking out” for a month or a season like it was before. I am getting habituated to living a “normal” and “healthy” life, and thinking in a better manner, and behaving in a better manner—and having a better relationship spiritually and emotionally.
“It’s an ill wind that blows no one good.”
Oxy, Thanks for the chemistry reference. I’m studying for my Final Exam on Tuesday right now and having a very difficult time. Perhaps changing my mindset to the “I Can” mindset will help!
In reference to the P detective you spoke of, that is one of the things I find most amazing in my malignant N ex. The ability to lie, deny in the face of undeniable evidence. I’d like to delve deaper in that one and how it relates to False Connsensus Bias and Cognitive dissonance as I read earlier today (via a link from someone on lovefraud). This is one of my x’s big tools. Unfortunately I gotta get back to the chemistry and then study for my other 2 finals this week. Blah! Means to an end…right?!