The prevention of sociopathy is something we all should be concerned about. Last week, we had an excellent discussion about sociopathy and lying. We all agree lying is the cardinal symptom of sociopathy, thanks to all those who posted comments. Your comments truly help those who are new to the site. Lying is part of the poor impulse control that sociopaths have. Poor impulse control or impulsivity and lying are recognized as central to sociopathy by every expert and diagnostic method. To prevent sociopathy we must start by preventing impulsivity. Unfortunately the brain structures responsible for impulse control are very sensitive to damage, especially early in life; although, damage to the frontal lobes can produce sociopathy at any age.
If I were given the option of one intervention that would reduce the prevalence of sociopathy in our society it would be to get all pregnant women to stop smoking both actively and passively (through second hand smoke). Although there are no direct studies of second hand smoke and sociopathy, second hand smoke is associated with an increased incidence of SIDS and other problems also linked to active smoking.
Where is the evidence that links maternal smoking directly to sociopathy? One of the largest studies to explore this link is reported in the Archives of General Psychiatry, arguably the most reputable journal in the profession. In this paper Maternal Smoking During Pregnancy and Adult Male Criminal Outcomes (follow link to read it yourself) Patricia A. Brennan, PhD and colleagues report data obtained from 4169 males born between September 1959 and December 1961 in Copenhagen, Denmark. They conclude, “Maternal smoking during the third trimester predicted nonviolent, violent, and persistent crime even when controlling for parental, psychiatric hospitalization, pregnancy and delivery complications, mother’s use of prescription drugs during pregnancy, father’s criminal arrest, maternal rejection, mother’s age, and SES.”
In a recent review of 7 independent studies of the association between maternal smoking and antisocial behavior, published in the American Journal of Public Health (folow link to read it yourself) Lauren S. Wakschlag, PhD and colleagues discuss the magnitude of the problem. They calculate that more than 500,000 infants a year are exposed in utero to direct smoking. They further estimate that this exposure increases the risk of sociopathy 1.4-4 times. It is estimated that 3% of the general population is sociopathic. This estimate already includes those exposed in utero to tobacco. If we conservatively estimate that 6% rather than 3% of the 500,000 will develop sociopathy, smoking may produce 15,000 additional sociopaths per year!
The problem of maternal smoking may be even worse in other countries. One internet source reports, “In ex-socialist countries about 28% of women are smokers, in developed countries about 23% and in South America about 21% of all women.” If the stats from the US apply here, at least half of these women will continue to smoke when they become pregnant.
In the beginning of this article, I proposed that maternal smoking increases sociopathy by producing impulsivity/impairing impulse control. Although there are many good studies linking sociopathy with maternal smoking, there are even more studies linking maternal smoking with ADHD. ADHD is strongly associated with the development of sociopathy. Reviewing the relevant studies for my book, I estimated that adult sociopathy develops in about 25% of kids with true ADHD.
To see some data for yourself, read Effects of low birth weight, maternal smoking in pregnancy and social class on the phenotypic manifestation of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and associated antisocial behaviour: investigation in a clinical sample by Kate Langley and colleagues. They examined 356 British children who were patients at their clinic diagnosed with ADHD. In their sample, half of the mothers reported smoking during pregnancy! Maternal smoking was associated with impulsivity, conduct disorder and symptoms of oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) even when other risk factors were taken into account.
That symptoms of ODD were related to maternal smoking is of particular interest to me because I have said that these symptoms are a sign of an excessive drive for social dominance in children. In my view it is the dominance drive, or power motive that produces the evil behavior of sociopaths.
The major developmental task of childhood is to learn to love and cooperate. To do so we must be able to exercise restraint over our dominance drive. If a child lacks the capacity to exercise this restraint, s/he is handicapped when it comes to learning to love and cooperate.
As a group of people who know first hand the devastation caused by sociopathy, I propose we all work toward the prevention of this disorder in any way we can. If you smoke, please quit. Stop financially supporting the tobacco companies and stop contributing to the problem of second hand smoke. Please also support anti-smoking legislation and government programs that encourage women and pregnant women not to smoke.
Thanks Truth. I didn’t post out here about the car. It was too upsetting to think about at the time.
There is just too much negativity right now. Trying to read The Power of Now…I just wish I could skip right to the part where you are enlightened and happy and find your being. I hope if I find it, it’s nothing like the anxious, freaked-out zombie I’ve become this past year.
Love and thanks.
Still Reeling,
If you can, also get the power of now on AUDIO.
It took several weeks of listening – even as I fell asleep, I later woke up and turned my ipod off – but repeated listening is very powerful. I can’t attest to reading the book.
By the way, by nature I am a reader. I’ve never listened to a book in my life. But I think this is a sort of hypnosis technique, so it seemed to me that audio was right.
Hugs to you.
Athena
Tinker Tailor Sailor Spy.
Thx Athena. I am having a very hard time getting into the book. It just seems so pie-in-the-sky to me, so maybe I’ll try the audio version as you suggested…I can see where the hypnotic quality could work for me as well with this kind of material.
G-d, it’s almost impossible to turn off extraneous thoughts….and in today’s world with scroll bars and logos and reminders on TV screens, you can’t even watch a TV show w/out multi-tasking and feeling like you have to plan for future watching. It’s bad.
I’d love to be able to achieve this one-ness with the universe, live in the now and experience inner peace, let go of worries, etc., but this is so not me. We’ll see, it’s always been a quest. I’ll just keep on reading or listening to the CD.
It’s kind of like a path…they live in the here and now…disgusting. I’d like to poke Godzilla’s eyes out, honestly. I so want him OUT of my head. He just agitates all the rest of the crap going on in my life and underlines how old and bad I feel. I’m so disgusted.
Forgot to say, hugs right back at you Athena..sorry…bad day.
Hope you know, I appreciate you and your thoughtfulness.
StillReeling,
My weenydog is doing much better today, not really sure what was wrong but the inflamatory pills seem to help. so maybe I can skip the vet this time…
I am so sorry you have compulsive habits, I think I have a few mild ones, it can be so aggravating…
As far as you finding that one aha moment in reading a book, one paragraph that is going to set you free..well it didnt happen that way for me.. Just bit’s and peices here and there, time and reflection..peace and quite. I dont think I will ever have that one time of enlightment you think some of us have found.. But I have stopped feeding my junking mind of all the juicy pain it seems to revel in and in the process have found some peace….ya know sometimes there just is no answers, so we do the best we can and enjoy what we have the best we can….
callmeathena – Spy is right.
Hens
Yes.
TTSS was a movie that came out earlier this year. For people who are in to DRAMA, they love SPY movies. Me? Not so much.
Athena
Still Reeling
You will get there. It will get better.
I have had sooo many false starts going NO CONTACT with my spath, who entered my life in 2008. By 2009 I arrived on this site. I’ve been trying to kick him ever since. I no longer circle and recircle the dates on my calendar. Every time I get rid of him, it lasts longer and longer, and my life gets better and better.
I think this time it’s been about 3 months if I am not mistaken.
Longest stretch ever. Woot woot!
It gets better the more you work at it – at understanding yourself, at kicking the spath, and finally arriving at gratitude for the growth opportunity.
Athena
“hens says:
StillReeling,
My weenydog is doing much better today, not really sure what was wrong but the inflamatory pills seem to help. so maybe I can skip the vet this time”
I am so sorry you have compulsive habits, I think I have a few mild ones, it can be so aggravating”
As far as you finding that one aha moment in reading a book, one paragraph that is going to set you free..well it didnt happen that way for me.. Just bit’s and peices here and there, time and reflection..peace and quite. I dont think I will ever have that one time of enlightment you think some of us have found.. But I have stopped feeding my junking mind of all the juicy pain it seems to revel in and in the process have found some peace”.ya know sometimes there just is no answers, so we do the best we can and enjoy what we have the best we can”.”
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Dear hens: thank you for writing this at this exact moment.
There are no overwhelming ‘aha’ moments, but just like you said, little bits and pieces. It’s almost like everything we thought had to be dumped out and now we are rebuilding ourselves from the inside out. Oh yes, time, reflection and lots of peace and quiet. LOTS.
Yes, we have to stop feeding our minds and maintain NC and just let this horrid experience slip into the annals of history. For our own sake. Unless we want to keep being tortured. I found that the more I STOP FEEDING it inside me, the less prevalence it has in my life. I have almost forgot what “IT” looks like now.
I am happy to report that the stalking has now completely stopped but I am not sure how long the peace will last THIS TIME. I set down the boundaries pretty harshly the last time, two months ago, and I don’t really think I left too much room for any more question. So, yah, it’s been quiet since Memorial Day weekend. That was one of the last incidences of stalking in my world. Even though I have not said a peep in almost two months now. I have learned to smile and file it away in my stalking log and just ignoring it….it doesn’t upset me now like it used to. I see the whole ‘roadshow’ now for what it really was. After ten years of this you kind of get used to the patterns. The stalking has always been there. THAT was a huge realization for me, that there was no ‘love’ to it, it was stalking. I have been STALKED by a PSYCHOPATH for ten years!!!!!!!
Sorry to hear about your sick puppy. awwww: give it some lovin for me too, hens. So sad to see them hurtin.
Yes, sometimes (like most of the time in this incidence) there are no answers. We just have to accept it as one of those ‘mysteries of life’ and move on the best we can. Find that strength and that courage, deep down inside, to stand for ourselves and not let down our boundaries to people who so don’t deserve it. We have to ACTIVELY allow ourselves to heal. To reprocess things differently inside our own minds and not worry about them. It’s called ‘survival’. They would step on us, and push us down beneath the water, to get our last breath if we let them. We have to stop letting them. “LOVE” is not a good enough reason to tolerate such behavior. There is no good reason to tolerate abuse of any kind, in any form.
We have to look at all we DO have and place all our bets on that because at least with that we KNOW we can rely on and count on OURSELVES.
Love ya hens ~ have a good night.
Dupey