The prevention of sociopathy is something we all should be concerned about. Last week, we had an excellent discussion about sociopathy and lying. We all agree lying is the cardinal symptom of sociopathy, thanks to all those who posted comments. Your comments truly help those who are new to the site. Lying is part of the poor impulse control that sociopaths have. Poor impulse control or impulsivity and lying are recognized as central to sociopathy by every expert and diagnostic method. To prevent sociopathy we must start by preventing impulsivity. Unfortunately the brain structures responsible for impulse control are very sensitive to damage, especially early in life; although, damage to the frontal lobes can produce sociopathy at any age.
If I were given the option of one intervention that would reduce the prevalence of sociopathy in our society it would be to get all pregnant women to stop smoking both actively and passively (through second hand smoke). Although there are no direct studies of second hand smoke and sociopathy, second hand smoke is associated with an increased incidence of SIDS and other problems also linked to active smoking.
Where is the evidence that links maternal smoking directly to sociopathy? One of the largest studies to explore this link is reported in the Archives of General Psychiatry, arguably the most reputable journal in the profession. In this paper Maternal Smoking During Pregnancy and Adult Male Criminal Outcomes (follow link to read it yourself) Patricia A. Brennan, PhD and colleagues report data obtained from 4169 males born between September 1959 and December 1961 in Copenhagen, Denmark. They conclude, “Maternal smoking during the third trimester predicted nonviolent, violent, and persistent crime even when controlling for parental, psychiatric hospitalization, pregnancy and delivery complications, mother’s use of prescription drugs during pregnancy, father’s criminal arrest, maternal rejection, mother’s age, and SES.”
In a recent review of 7 independent studies of the association between maternal smoking and antisocial behavior, published in the American Journal of Public Health (folow link to read it yourself) Lauren S. Wakschlag, PhD and colleagues discuss the magnitude of the problem. They calculate that more than 500,000 infants a year are exposed in utero to direct smoking. They further estimate that this exposure increases the risk of sociopathy 1.4-4 times. It is estimated that 3% of the general population is sociopathic. This estimate already includes those exposed in utero to tobacco. If we conservatively estimate that 6% rather than 3% of the 500,000 will develop sociopathy, smoking may produce 15,000 additional sociopaths per year!
The problem of maternal smoking may be even worse in other countries. One internet source reports, “In ex-socialist countries about 28% of women are smokers, in developed countries about 23% and in South America about 21% of all women.” If the stats from the US apply here, at least half of these women will continue to smoke when they become pregnant.
In the beginning of this article, I proposed that maternal smoking increases sociopathy by producing impulsivity/impairing impulse control. Although there are many good studies linking sociopathy with maternal smoking, there are even more studies linking maternal smoking with ADHD. ADHD is strongly associated with the development of sociopathy. Reviewing the relevant studies for my book, I estimated that adult sociopathy develops in about 25% of kids with true ADHD.
To see some data for yourself, read Effects of low birth weight, maternal smoking in pregnancy and social class on the phenotypic manifestation of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and associated antisocial behaviour: investigation in a clinical sample by Kate Langley and colleagues. They examined 356 British children who were patients at their clinic diagnosed with ADHD. In their sample, half of the mothers reported smoking during pregnancy! Maternal smoking was associated with impulsivity, conduct disorder and symptoms of oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) even when other risk factors were taken into account.
That symptoms of ODD were related to maternal smoking is of particular interest to me because I have said that these symptoms are a sign of an excessive drive for social dominance in children. In my view it is the dominance drive, or power motive that produces the evil behavior of sociopaths.
The major developmental task of childhood is to learn to love and cooperate. To do so we must be able to exercise restraint over our dominance drive. If a child lacks the capacity to exercise this restraint, s/he is handicapped when it comes to learning to love and cooperate.
As a group of people who know first hand the devastation caused by sociopathy, I propose we all work toward the prevention of this disorder in any way we can. If you smoke, please quit. Stop financially supporting the tobacco companies and stop contributing to the problem of second hand smoke. Please also support anti-smoking legislation and government programs that encourage women and pregnant women not to smoke.
Ps…..I haven’t given up. I don’t actively try and find love and I won’t be Internet dating EVER again.
I’m attracted to dick heads….that’s my problem, lol. I got to retrain my brain. Gimme a boring man any day. No dramarama and takin care of him …..like he’s my third child.
Erm ….No offence to the men here 🙂
Hi still, sorry posted over you. Only you can decide what is best for you ….I’d be the last person to judge…. with my track record. I stayed with my husband and tried to make it work for many reasons. And they were valid reasons.
And I like your humility in accepting your contribution. My biggest downfall is I tend to allow men to treat me like shiat. It’s been a steep learning curve!!
Greetings to you from the freeeeezing UK!! X
Strong, Ah, jolly old freezing UK! Is that normal for this time of year. I live on the US East Coast and it’s abnormally cool here as well…so glad actually. It’s normally so freaking humid, you can’t go out of the house.
Well, as you may have read out here, my heart is full, warm and beats hard for England since the British Invasion. And Princess Di. And a few other things!!
No humility in stating the truth. I do admit I used to blame everyone but myself and I’m glad after much therapy, I am able to take full responsibility for my part in many a thing that doesn’t work out. (Not my layoffs though. For that I will never forgive or forget…but that’s another deal.)
I have the same issue you (and many others) have with being attracted to men who treat us like crap. I truly feel it’s all about self-image. Ya like yourself and you won’t let someone treat you shitty. I can’t imagine you not liking, well..you! Perhaps it’s become a habit. I have *always* liked and even chased really crummy men, even as a kid. I am 300% sure for me it’s horrible self-image, immaturity (mom didn’t want me to grow up till she needed me of course…and very confusing because she used to complain about my immaturity but not let me have opinions, be my own person, etc….I know this was all unconscious on her part) and fear.
Strong, will you be attracted to said “boring man?” I wonder. Do you think you’ve figured out why you like losers who treat you crappy? And has that helped..(“steep learning curve”).
I vote for a pill that renders one d.head-proof and allows you attraction to only upstanding, loving, caring men who are *not* boring and of course, look like, hmmm, well for me, (hell it’s the weekend, I’ll be shallow) a 30 yr old Barry Gibb, Timothy Olyphant as he appears in Justified, Christian Bale, oh don’t even get me started. David Beckham, many baseball players, STOP!!!!
…and almost any of the guys on True Blood…
Lmao. 😆
Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Gerard Butler, Colin Farrell, …….need I go on.
Hmm, have I figured it out why I don’t fancy them unless they’re exciting/dangerous or passionate/deranged? Havent had counselling but am from a background of some fairly heavy dysfunction. Been talking to Truthspeak about the shame core. Oh yihah that sounds familiar.
I have been out with, erm, at least one lovely, kind, caring guy. Well
educated and looks to die for. That was 30 years ago. Enough said.
As for the weather and is it normal for it to be like october in June…..? The weather is perfect reflection of me. Erratic an slightly unhinged.
When it comes to men anyway!
And I like being needed. Saving men is my speciality. Sheesh…..it’s hard to admit ain’t it. As skylar says…..don’t throw your pearls before swine. Oh yeh ….I’ve been guilty of that many times. I got some serious bad habits.
seriously ….I do realise my part in this tango. It’s like an addiction. Can’t live with it, can’t live without it. I do have an addictive personality.
And I’m a sucker for bad boys. Lol
strongawoman: My Flower…’saving men is my specialty.’
oh yes, that kindness that is continually walked on and disregarded. ‘bad boys’…oh yes, always end up involved with the ones who have a broken wing, so to speak…sure seems that way; it must be in the process of selection, I would assume.
sometimes they are like a virus. you acquire them and then they never really quite go away…can’t live with them and can’t live without them?
i am finding living without A LOT quieter however the stalking still continues, ever so lightly…
As long as it stays out of my face, I think I shall be fine.
How are you, My Friend? I pray for you always.
Dupey
xxoo
By the way: don’t get me started on that Pretty Boy George Clooney…he seems to just keep getting prettier with age…
What a wonderful, gorgeous man…
I so hate men who are prettier than me.
😛
Hey Dupey, dear friend. How sweet of you to remember me in your prayers. I think of you often also my lovely. Yes I have to admit I’m not good at giving up things that are BAD for me. And don’t get me started on gorgeous men. Again lol.
That was my pet name for the ex…..gorgeous man.
Oh dear….it was oh so only skin deep!! Underneath, evil personified.
I’m ok thank you. Still ploughing through my reports. Don’t worry Ive been enjoying the school holidays as well. How are you Dupey doo. How’s the old ticker? And have you seen George Clooney in “The Descendants”
Hot as!!!!!……..and a fantastic film of course. Lol.
I think that part of the reason we are attracted to the bad boys is explained by, “the compullsion to repeat.” We are already emotionally injured in some way, and we are unconsciously attracted to folks who resembe the ones who injured us. This is (again, unconsciously) in the service of healing. We repeat the old traumas over and over, in an effort to make it come out right….the old, “this time it will be different” logic. Of course, it never is.
We are attempting to re-write our emotional histories, and close a gap where are emotional growth was halted, due to trauma.