A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
How pathetic.
Donna thanks for sending the story.
St. James’ behavior is not understandable to anyone who has not dealt with a psychopath. Most people would say “what is the MOTIVE?” Of course, those of us who have dealt with psychopaths know what the motive is–control, attention, power, just for the fun of it, just the “duping delight” of putting one over on someone else.
Yes, we know the motive, though we can’t “feel” the motive, and such a thing wouldn’t motivate us, but we know what it is.
Just as there are probably many many more victims of Sandusky’s pedophilia who will never come forward, there are probably many many more victims of St. James’ con jobs that will never come forward. My hat is off to Paula Bonhomme, and I wish her well in her law suit. Unfortunately, what is morally reprehensible is not always illegal. There is not always a legal remedy to every nasty thing done by nasty people.
Donna, Thanks for doing such a good job on this. Kirk Sigmon’s response makes it so clear that those who have not experienced spaths are ‘entitled to the luxury’ of hypothetical thought.
Paula Bonhomme will pursue this case as far as it can go. She is tenacious. St. James she defends her actions and claims that she is not accountable for telling lies or that anyone believes her when she tells lies.
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Constantine…..you raise valid points! Thanks for having the balls to speak your mind, close to home.
This is true…..I believe, we allow people to victimize us. Maybe not in a conscious way…..but we do….play along.
Very little was said about the husband, he was just mentioned as an unhappy marriage.
The hook here was her way of choosing an exit from the unhappy marriage…..looking to mow the greener grass.
And she was the one who got mowed.
No she didn’t deserve to get mowed……nobody does….but she DOES hold some responsibility for her fantasy thoughts of how she may be able to escape an unhappy marriage….through the ‘easy’ door.
It didn’t seem to me she was looking for an affair……seemed innocent enough….a chat room about a show. But it also doesn’t mention how many other online ‘affairs’ she has ‘encountered’ in other chat rooms.
The lesson to us all here is……live with high morals and expectations of OURSELVES. Treat others how we wish to be treated, live by the 10 comandments (religious or not)……and be a kind, loving and genuine person. If you have to think twice about it….don’t do it. Take the high road, don’t cheat, lie or steel. Live each day to be able to lay your head on your pillow with a clear conscience! You’ll be surprised at how good life becomes.
If we always look for the easy button…..edge, leg up, better hand etc……..we lose sight of what is really important in life……including HONOR! We will dismiss the red flags for the ‘edge’….for the something for nothing take…….and I will tell ya….there is a price to be paid for EVERYTHING!
There are so many people who play the victim, when they encounter the losing hand in the game they should NOT have been playing in the first place…..there IS such a thing as oil and gasoline…..and once in awhile…they meet and the explosion is great! Someone’s gotta cry.
Thanks for your post…….
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I personally have not experienced an affair in my immediate ‘world’. To my knowledge my parents never cheated….(they were too busy controlling each other 🙂 )……. My brothers not a cheater type…..he couldn’t be bothered…..and I couldn’t have lived with my guilt and it never occured to me. I was so young when I met spath, he was all I knew….he was all I wanted. I remember one guy…ONE GUY my whole life flirted with me…..he was adorable etc….but I was married and HE was married…..it was not an option. This has been one of the hardest things for me to get out of……being the married person. I portrayed married everywhere…..mom everywhere….that was my identity and i guess in a way, it kept men away from me. I would go on cruises with my single gf’s and have a blast! Meet everyone…..hang loose…..dance, drink…..and NEVER EVER get close to a man in that way. Why….because I was the married one…
I told my gf when she asked me…..why is it YOU who meets everyone on the cruise ship…and i told her….because I”M MARRIED…I don’t care how people judge me, I’m not looking for a mate. I get dressed for myself, I do my hair for myself….I act for myself….I am me, and I have fun, I can talk to anyone because I have no agenda’s…that’s it!
Now i’m the single one…..I’d prefer to meet someone….BUT I STILL HAVE THAT DAMN LOYAL PERSONA!!!!!
I personally would never date a man I knew was married…..and I wouldn’t feel right dating someone who my gf had dated either. A man is not worth any hard feelings between gf’s. I have little respect for affairs…..and i’m not afraid to say so! If you got problems in your relationship…..stop walking the fence…..work on it….or walk! People who go from one to be rescued by another are not healthy minded people……THEY are just the ones who need to be alone for awhile and work on themselves to see why they need to be with another, and hide behind another and be compensated by another……
If your looking for lasting….it ain’t there!
I live in a weathy community and when one of the gazillionaires goes on the market…..it’s hillarious to see the women clamper for him. I work with these gazilionaires….and I’ll tell ya…..it takes way more than a house on the lake and all the ‘comforts’, jets, designer duds ……Thank you…I’ll pay my own way!
I want a normal, humble, authentic man who isn’t looking over his shoulder at who is with him and why…is it his money? The imbalance of money power is almost impossible to get through without pain.
I worked for a couple who divorced…..and she hooked up with a ‘commoner’……it was so weird to see her put him on payroll, buy him a fancy car, wardrobe, travel….and ‘retire’ him from his electonic apprentice position at 38 so she could include him in her lifestyle. So far it’s worked…..but she also made it pretty easy for him to make it work. His family all has new homes, college paid for, travel etc……he’d be lost now if he left….so now what? He’s stuck with her lifestyle. It wasn’t his to begin with……but he’s morphed.
I can’t cameleon……I’ve seen the other side. thanks again… I’ll pay my own way…..i’ll make it on my own. The benefit of that mentality is…..If I ever am fortunate to meet Mr. Right, then I won’t have to worry about being left high and dry and rebuilding once again…..only older!
I got off on a tangent there huh?
Thanks for the well wishes on the bloodwork….Cancer recurrance is always in the back of my mind! One of the tests is the ‘marker’ for that…..and I didn’t like the numbers going up! It was 5 years ago the day after Thanksgiving that I had my first stroke….and the shit hit the fan FAST after that….so the holidays are a reminder of how thankful I am to have my health this year.
Thanks for the well wishes Constantine!
Well I seem to be the only one saying this. And I am allowed my opinon same as all of you. As a relationship expert, life coach and therapist of many years I have seen a lot of women and some men who have been lied to and conned. But to decide to have a future with and invest a lot of time and money in a person you hardly know is daft and it is a case of more fool them. To be that quick to “fall in love” is not normal anyway. It reminds me of the people who go into McDonalds a lot and then blame them for putting on weight. Never let your heart rule your head.