A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
Bluejay,
it’s entirely possible that he’s a spath too and his explanations to Constantine are lies. Or the truth could be somewhere in between.
Your ex-spath sounds very much like the ones in “The Mask of Sanity”. You might consider reading it for insight.
You are probably just sick of the whole thing and want to focus on healing yourself, though. I wouldn’t blame you one bit. How are your kids doing?
Just thoroughly ghastly, both Constantine’s and Sky’s ex… And once you realize what crappy people they are, you can’t fathom why other people still remain involved with them… CRAZY!
Yesternight there was a Flemish series called ‘missing’ where police search for missing persons. In this episode it was the spath woman who went missing. Lied about her qualifications and had lost her job, meanwhile still pretending to work there as a manager, which she never was. Started a pyramid investment deal to get money. Lied all her life to her parents, with the mother being the sole survivor, but she claimed she was dead too. Left her men without a word or warning, while already in an affair with the next who knew nothing of a previous relationship. Two of those weren’t even sure at the end who the real father was of her son, whom she tried to use from hte first boyfriend to get money from because her son needed a heart transplant (another lie). At the end she jumped from the balcony in a dramatic ending.
Was a good episode, but at the most they only used the term ‘pathological liar in need of help and therapy’, never spath. I was shouting at the TV: that’s a classic spath, not just a liar living in lalaland.
BTW, went to check at teh animal shelter on the kitten of 2 weeks ago… he died last Saturday 🙁 He was sick. At least he lived comfortable for the last 10 days and didn’t suffer in the wild and cold. Poor bugger.
skylar,
We’re hanging in there. Today is my day off, so I want to get things done (around the house and beyond). Thankfully, my kids are doing okay, not having totally crumbled over what their dad has recently done. He is still “missing,” but that’s debatable. I question if his side of the family knows his whereabouts, having had a few red flag moments with certain relatives.
Darwinsmom,
that is so disappointing about the kitten. 🙁
Bluejay, you sound good. I’m glad you are taking care of you. Not sure what you can do with the info. The cops are not likely to be able to get a warrant to track BIL’s lost cellphone without more evidence.
Did BIL get a new phone and new phone #? If so, then you could set up a sting, but it would take a lot of thinking. Have someone call and leave a message for BIL at his old number. It would have to be very important and not something that he could resist calling back without negative consequences. It would also have to be something that he would never suspect was fake – even after he calls back.
If spath gets the message and passes it on to BIL, then you’ll know he has the phone. Using that info, the cops could probably get a warrant to track the phone.
Sky, yeah… I was sorry that he didn’t have much of a chance to begin with… I presume they tested him for diseases during the normal 2 week quarantaine. Not sure how much he really suffered from illness, but chances are that the test results showed either cat’s disease or cat aids (leukemia) and that they put him to sleep before he had any real symptoms. He would have died for sure when it would be truly winter.
I still feel I did the best thing: adopting him myself would not have saved him and might have put Darwin in danger; he would have suffered for sure in the wild. Now he had a warm shelter with sure food and no competition for it, people who take care and a death without much or any suffering. Too bad though.
Skylar
REALLY IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR YOU:
Touches on a comment you made in one of your above posts.
Do you really think that spaths can ID each other? That they know each other instantly?
B/c I couldn NOT see my husband as spath with his mask on, I knew something was off but I attributed that to him being a little weirdo, which I was actually okay with b/c I am a little weird myself, with my wee philosophies and focused interests in many subjects.
BUT, I have seen his SIL as FULL on spath from the getgo, She has this maniacal look on her face when talking about putting people in their place and how she shunned her sister for not “getting along with the family”, i.e. submitting to doing the role she was dictated to perform. And I’ve seen a couple of people respond to my husband that I knew were predators, their eyes light up, it’s like they are meeting a long lost soulmate. It’s the closest to connection that I’ve ever seen in an spath. (while their face just PERKS up so happy,- possibly that duping delight look?- both would stab the other in the back in a New York minute.)
Well, empathic and emotional people have facial expressions even when on their own… we don’t mirror.
I think the clue for spaths recognizing spaths lies in their ability to mirror, especially if they can do it automatically. Mirroring someone with emotions and empathy would feel like regular mirroring. But how can a spath mirror another spath? Something will instantly feel off and unreal, because there is nothing to mirror, except of the emptiness, shallowness if not hollowness. It woul be like a vampire looking in a mirror and not seeing any reflection! I would suppose that would be their big hint.
Katy,
I don’t know if it’s instantly. But that’s what I’ve read (People of the Lie) and I know that spath has no trouble finding minions. I think there are different types of masks and the masks can confuse even another spath.
My exspath would NEVER have seen past my mom’s mask. He would be shocked to find out what she is. haha. It might even send him into cog/dis!! And spath bro couldn’t see past my BIL’s policeman facade. He and spath sis like to play the role of upstanding citizens with their ATM upside down homes and living on credit to finance vacations all over the world. Spath bro never figured out that they were evil or that my spath was evil. I, unfortunately, opened his eyes.
So I think they can see each other if the setting is right, and if the test phase works out. I think exspath begins by making a deragatory remark toward a woman, such as a waitress. He’ll call her a c*** for no reason. If his companion joins in, he takes him down the slippery slope…if the companion goes willingly, that’s a spath.
Darwins mom:
good point! it would be like a hall of mirrors within mirrors!
creepy.
Sometimes I think those myths of vampires are very apt to spaths:
– sucking the life out of you and either killing you or turning you into one too
– predatory
– night life
– coming off as a real personality, but not really since mirrors show there’s no person there at all
But yeah, I would think the mirroring of a spath, which wouldn’t work, would be what gives it away.