A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
That’s exactly how I felt…..and I wasnt’ going to let her hide behind god! She gave me ‘part’ of the scripture that she thought applied……I gave her back the rest of it…..which applied.
I did give her ‘me’. All of what I felt. She’ll ‘hear’ it, and not be shocked by it. I know she’s been thinking about how to break the ice with me, knowing I have an opinion……inviting us to Thanksgiving just wasn’t the way. But, she opened the door.
She was the one who I took the chance with to trust……during ALL the shit the past 5 years. She was ‘there’. She knows how I feel, I’ve not kept it secret.
It will be her husband that will read it and lose sleep……and be placed on the eggshells……now. How will he handle this with his mother…..he will be obligated to….because he won’t be able to live with the guilt. This is how he operates. I just did a reverse on him…..of what my aunt/mother did to him by placing messenger status on him. He had a voice, he could have declined to be the messenger……his wife did….obviously. I got the call from him 10 minutes after speaking to her for 45 min. (after my Uncle passed)…….I’m sure that went down like……UM Mike, you gotta call her NOW. I won’t tell her she can’t come. He played martyr to his mother, yet vial one to us.
He CHOSE to do that!
Live with it fucker!
She responded to Jr’s blast…….and I know she took note. He was respectful, but to the point.
I don’t care if she responds to me or not…..I’ve said my peace, got it off MY chest….and I”M the important one in this conversation. 🙂
I don’t want to hold their burdons…….so I gave it back to them.
Thanks guys…….for being here.
Oxy, it sounds like a lovely weekend for you.
Skylar……I’m gonna sick you on my family from here on out. Can I pass them your way?
Constantine……Load me up with bible dirt darlen…..In case I need to sling more dirt!
Not really……i’m done, nothing more to be said from my end.
Thanks guys!!!
Constantine,
he would simply mirror you and you would think he’s the greatest guy in the world. So interesting, knowledgable and exciting, yet humble. The best friend a person could want.
If you chose to pretend to be depraved like he is, you would see his depravity only to the extent that you portrayed it yourself. Then he would push your limits to see how much he could get you to slide down the slippery slope. If, at any point, you began to look like you found his behavior or words objectionable, he would quickly move into a story about how he saved an animal, a cat or a dog or a bird, even though it cost him his job, “because THAT’S the kind of guy I am.”
If you spent a lot of time with him, the way I did, where you were co-existing in a home for some periods. You would see and feel nothing. He sits on the couch watching tv and you can’t actually “feel” his presence. You get the feeling that you are all alone, unless he is talking to you. It’s like he is “turned off”. There is nothing there.
When he is turned on, he is on the phone, “networking” constantly. Talking and eating at the same time.
ErinBrock,
I was proud of you for writing the letter to your cousin. Your letter brought tears to my eyes. I am just sorry that your relatives did what they did, bringing more hurt your way, affecting you and your children. Hopefully, the letter will speak to these people, stirring them to change themselves for the better. I’m glad that you spoke your mind. Also, I had the thought (I believe that our relatives can be with us in spirit) that your uncle may very well have been present at your Thanksgiving table.
Sky,
I’ve hauled out some queen records again to listen now with the memorial of Freddie Mercury dying of AIDS 20 years ago. I discovered an angry song on A Night At The Opera titled “Death on Two Legs”, and dedicated to Queen’s manager in their first years. Thought to share it with a youtube link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffiZPD6Quos&feature=related
Here are the lyrics
“You suck my blood like a leech
You break the law and you breach
Screw my brain till it hurts
You’ve taken all my money – and you want more,
Misguided old mule
With your pigheaded rules
With your narrow – minded cronies you are fools of the first division-
Death on two legs –
You’re tearing me apart,
Death on two legs
You never had a heart of your own –
Kill joy, Bad guy,
Big talking, Small fry
You’re just an old barrow – boy
Have you found a new toy to replace me,
Can you face me –
But now you can kiss my ass goodbye
Feel good, are you satisfied
Do you feel like suicide (I think you should)
Is your conscience all right
Does it plague you at night
Do you feel good – Feel good!
Talk like a big business tycoon,
you’re just a hot – air balloon,
So no one gives you a damn,
You’re just an overgrown school – boy
Let me tell you right.
dog with disease,
you’re the King of the ‘sleaze’
Put your money where your mouth is Mr. Know all,
Was your fin on the back part of the deal…(shark!)
Death on two legs
You’re tearing me apart
Death on two legs –
You never had a heart of your own,
(You never did, right from the start)
Insane… should be put inside,
You’re a sewer – rat decaying in a sess pool of pride
Should be made unemployed
make yourself null – and – void,
Make me feel good
I feel good.”
Darwinsmom,
Nice. I liked Freddie.
“You’re a sewer ”“ rat decaying in a sess pool of pride”
what an insightful description of a spath.
When the ex manager (Normal Sheffield) heard the lyrics first time around he started a lawsuit for smear-campaigning, thereby letting the cat out of the bag about whom Freddie had written this song… After he had come out with his lawsuit, Queen dedicated it to him… LOL… They played it live in every tour until the end, with Freddie re-dedicating it to a “a real motherfucker of a gentleman”
Only spaths can cause such a response of disgust.
darwin’s mom,
Great song lyrics! LOL Perfect description of a psychopath! Yea!!!! GREAT!!!!
Constantine
I wasn’t trying to make it hard to find my thread(s) or my story. I just wigged out, and I do so on occasion when I think he’s stalking me. Blah.
This is off topic but I did something I said I was gonna do. I bought me a new mattress and boxsprings today..The last trigger out the door…All the bad memories of him sleeping and cheatin in my bed went out the door with the old bed.. I dont give a ratz ass where or who he is sleepin with. I cleaned my bedroom top to bottom, even washed the walls with lysol…clean sheets..me and the girls will sleep good tonite ~! ( the girls are my wiener dogs )….
It took me four years to replace the bed but it were’nt cheap…..yeehaw ~~~!!!
Hens,
YaY! for you!