A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
Hens
It’s a great feeling isn’t it? Did the same thing with my car.
yahoo! outta here!
Athena
Athena – It only took me a year to replace my pick up – i have priorities ya know 🙂
LOL! Its because we were SLIMED.
WOW! Hens, good deal! That is a wonderful feeling I am sure!
I didn’t go to the mountain today, it was raining like a cow peeing on a flat rock, so I left the wet weather camping to the boys! Stayed home and made come COMFORT FOOD….pinto beans and corn bread! WOW, did I pig out! The best food in the world on a cold rainy day in November….think we’re gonna have a frost tomorrow night, and they said maybe even a few snow flakes.
Couldn’t get any better. Hound dogs in the house, warm comfort food, and piggies in the barn snuggled down in the saw dust with their little bellies full! Thanksgiving weekend, and a Psychopath free time with good friends and good times. I couldn’t be any richer if I had all of Bill Gate’s fortune! Good night folks! I hope your holidays were happy and peaceful!
When I watched the tv episodes of fradulent marriages (the ones where Donna had an episode, too), I realized what a good idea it is to sue a psycho for fraud and rape.
It dawned on me the other day that I would really appreciate some sort of legal recourse to the fact that my ex-socio falsely misrepresented himself online in order to dip into my life…
This whole experience with a sociopath is like a “rape” and a “violation” and if this kind of case opens new avenues for prosecution of these crooks, then I will be one really, really happy lady.
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Oxy
You mean it was raining like a cow on a flat stall barn??!! Beans and cornbread. MMMmmmgood. I LOVE good ol’ comfort food like that, LOVE it even more than chocolate! It’s gonna get close to freezing tomorrow night here. Think I’ll copy your evening meal for myself. Make the house smell good and I will make sure to have leftovers… just in case I need a snack!
Constantine,
I’m going to tell you something that may sound strange to you and everyone else here, but bear with me.
Since learning about spaths, I’ve encountered several other toxic people with spath traits. I became friends with them and grew to care for them immensely, even while observing the spath traits. In other words, I went in to a relationship with people who waved red flags, with my eyes wide open.
While I like to observe spaths, another very interesting thing to do is to observe myself in relation to these people. Remember, they aren’t mean. These people treat me with kindness and all kinds of love-bombing. Sure, love bombing has a negative connotation when we speak of it here on LF, but when it’s happening, it feels sooooo real!
The most interesting thing is that, even knowing the red flags and being certain that the person is disordered, my own emotional response to their phony emotions, is real. I really, really like them, even while I see their lies and disorders.
I’m sure that you would be able to see my ex-spath for what he is. Especially if you were forewarned. But i wonder if you wouldn’t still think he is the most interesting and awesome guy you ever met. My BF and his brother (who both knew him for years), both responded with a sad, “that’s too bad, I REALLY liked him.” when I explained what spath REALLY was.
What that means is that we MAY never be immune. The book, “Political Ponerolgy” talks about psychological hygiene being necessary for studying spaths. I’ve yet to achieve this. I still get slimed even when I know what I’m dealing with.
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Constantine,
Short of burning down the house or moving we can’t replace everything they touched. But there were some big trigger’s that needed replaced, maybe I just used that as an excuse but I replaced my couch (because he slept on it so often because we were arguing ) I replaced my pick up because he would use it to drive to work, a 18 mile round trip but there would be an xtra 150 miles on the odometer that he couldnt explain. I have painted the walls a different color and the outside of the house. Replaced some of my art because he had made negative remarks about it and prefered his walmart treasures instead. I even dug up the lillies he helped me plant. The bed needed replaced, to many strangers did to many things when I was not here.
Not that he would even notice, because he never noticed anything I did unless it was to make some smart ass remark. He was homeless and and could put his life belongings in a few cardboard boxes when I met him, when he left he had a pickup and a trailor load of furnishing’s I had given him. Not to mention new teeth ~! I bet nothing I gave him ( alot of things we bought as a couple ) has any sentimental value or give’s him thoughts of me. It will be four years this next spring that he has been gone, I really dont give him alot of thought now adays, but much more than I should at this point..he was just such an imposter on my soul and took a piece of my heart with him when I forced him to leave..life goes on.