A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
Dear Darwin’s mom,
Yea, they tend to hang together too, and pick up “side kicks” that are like thinking and like bad kids on the play ground form a “bully pack.”
This guy not only pointed the blunder buss at me but was also pointing muzzle loading guns at men in one of the parks our group uses because there is a lot of gay trolling in that park and any man walking in the park is a “queer” and therefore it is okay for him to “jokingly” point the gun at them. Well, I frankly don’t think that a person walking in the park even if they ARE gay should be targeted for “jokes” of this sort. There were some open homophobes in the group at that time and it got pretty ugly. But him pointing the guns at park patrons not only me got me a bunch of witnesses to his “joking” gun pointing. He also said “Well, it wasn’t loaded and I only pointed it at your butt” as well. LOL That was his way of “apology” for doing it. LOL
During my two years on the board of directors I accomplished quite a bit, including some regulations about gun demonstrations and safety that have some teeth in them. It also brought it to the attention of the state parks service, and if there had been any more problems I would have made sure the entire group was banned from the parks with ANY kind of fire arms, even antiques for demonstration purposes. As it is, modern weapons are banned from all state parks, and the parks make a dispensation for our demonstrations of early muzzle loading guns. I’m glad it didn’t come to that, because hunting was a survival technique of our ancestors, not just a “sport.” Demonstrating how the things they did is an important part of our HISTORY PRESENTATIONS. SAFETY though, and good manners, are also important to our group though.
After the public and the kids are gone in the evening, we cut up and act like kids ourselves, but there is no excuse for bad behavior of that kind.
I imagine your tours are “interesting” with some of the people like that that show their arses when they are away from home. I imagine it takes great people skills to keep it all together, so you are to be commended for your efforts! What arses! “local culture” LOL
Doesn’t happen to me much these days – lovebombing. I probably get more flattery here on LF from people I’ve never met. Should I be suspicious of that?
I wouldn’t mind a little love bombing myself, my ego needs a boost..
Problem with love bombing is that it’s false flattery so I don’t know what it really is. I was NEVER any good at brown nosing. My husband is a PRO and it’s so fake yet people lap it up. I WILL tell the truth in as much detail as my limited writing skill can produce.
HENS. You baby, are what I’d jump on in a New York minute if I were male. The way you write makes me hot for you. You are proof to us women that Darn it, all the good ones are taken… or GAY. You are more man than 99.9% of all the men I meet. If you really need your ego boosted, go look in a mirror. Don’t compare yourself to A*’s b/c NONE of us want an A*. Compare yourself to the DESIRABLE men and you will see what we see… mmmmmm. Makes me hungry. 🙂
Stargazer and Hens! You both are such an integral part of LF! Hens, you make me laugh so often! Stargazer, you have such interesting stories to tell and it’s nice to share a passion for Latin America.
Does that stroke your egoes? 😉
Sometimes I feel dirty after a trip that went down like that, Oxy… because I cannot betray my disdain, not even to the sex tourist, and I cannot talk about it with anyone at the time. But it’s always a good intense short-term experience of the good and the bad in people. And then there are the good trips, even if the involve some emergency or disaster like a hurricane, where you feel on top of the world, because everyone goes home with a good memory of lifetime. But I was upset with the negative welcome from my office, when the dragged up the trips that didn’t go group-managing perfect. I’m quite aghast of the attitude of the head of the office, who seems to expect it’s my responsibility to make sure that people who have issues they need therapy for (if it can even be helped with therapy at all) give me an ace evaluation. That’s total bull. I think that our head needs to follow our training program and do some tourleading herself once a year.
🙂
Darwin’smom,
Oh, I agree with you about the head office person doing some REAL work and knowing the ropes, but unfortunately, sometimes those people who are very narcissistic or High in P traits actually become the “manager” and expect you to do something that the Virgin Mary herself couldn’t accomplish! LOL
The last manager I had in the last job I had before I retired was like that….she was more concerned that I think she was “trying” than I was in patients surviving the SERIOUS and massive under staffing that was going on. I suggested that maybe if she didn’t have staff to take care of them that we should NOT TAKE MORE PATIENTS–you would have thought I suggested that she strangle her first born child and sacrifice the body to an idol! LOL
Oh, well…I’ve had some bosses with seriously high P-traits and some employees and some business partners as well. I’ve had customers and clients and patients who were seriously disordered as well, and you can’t make all the people happy all the time…that’s just the facts of life. In fact, I taught a class in a conference for the University of Texas at Arlington nursing program in dealing with unhappy and unreasonable patients and families.
In hospitals families with sick patients seem to think that the more they complain the better treatment their family member will get, in nursing homes you can double that complaining. The family member complains about something that is not true (like “it took you 20 minutes after I rang the bell before you came” when in fact,, it was more 2-3 minutes) and the staff member is more likely to address this mistaken impression than to address the REAL problem which is “I think if I don’t complain that you won’t take care of my loved one” so I taught the staff members to ADDRESS THE REAL PROBLEM, the fear of the family or patient.
So I taught the staff member to NOT argue with the family or patient about HOW LONG (or any thing like that) it was, but to simply say, “I’m sorry I took so long” even if the staff member knew it was 1-2 minutes not 20 (so the staff member was shown how NOT to be defensive) then to say “now that I am here, what can I do for you?” If the family/patient continued to complain the staff member was to repeat the “what can I do for you?” if that failed after the 3rd time, they were to say “I can see that you are really upset Mrs. Smith, let me get the nurse manager for you” and immediately go get the manager….and on up the line until they were at the CEO of the hospital.
ADDRESS what the person really wants. It usually works with the first “what can I do for you” because the person feels that they were HEARD. I have frequently used it to make unhappy patients, clients etc. tell me what they really wanted and then I could give it to them. Just feeling heard will work with normal people, and sometimes even narcissists! LOL Of course NOTHING will placate a psychopath, you can’t appease them no matter what you do.
One/joy step at a time,
Thank you for the name. It’s good to have options.
Darwinsmom, STOP love bombing me!!!!! I can’t go no contact with you because we are both here all the time!!! LOL
But as long as we’re both here, can I get just a little more love bombing? I’m so short on it these days. I am jealous of the other folks here who get love bombed all the time by random folks. 🙂
Star, sweetie, you are so beautiful and smart, what do you mean no one love bombs you! You know we love you! 🙂
BTW, the only people who love bomb me are psychopaths, and then they do the D&D and the smear campaign, so every time someone says something to me that isn’t an insult, I just start running!