A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
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It is so dangerous when judges, police and even psychologists and psychiatrists are fooled by lack of a true understanding of who and what is a sociopath. I have said for a long time now… these people in positions of authority who make decisions that directly influence the safety and well being of victims of sociopaths are greatly in need of education on the topic. Until that happens sociopaths will continue to learn how to fool people in authority and will enjoy practicing and honing this “talent” and “craft” unbeknownst to those in authority who would be insulted if education was suggested by a victim.
Constantine,
I am sorry that the subject of infidelity is so close to your heart. 🙁
With all due respect, and i mean this sincerely, Paula didn’t get ‘burned’ and cry ‘victim’. She was conned by a spath who is a master con, who has be running variations of the same game for decades. You don’t know this spath and what she is capable of. There are parts of this story that I do not know, but I know it very well, having followed it for two years. As far as I can tell this was Paula’s only ‘affair’. Paula has never once failed to take responsibility for her own actions in this whole mess. But she chooses not to share details about her marriage – as being conned by JSJ is the important public issue.
Her friends did a classic ”intervention – and as we are always saying spaths are like a drug…well, it makes sense. At first I thought it was weird that they rode to her rescue – but I bet there are a bunch of us here who wish someone had done the same for us. By the time JSJ had installed herself in Paula’s home, she was sucked right in – her bf was dead, she was grieving, she thought JSJ was her dead bf’s best friend, who she was going to spend some time with.
Paula has been pursuing this through the courts for several years now. She knows how important it is to stop JSJ. And to that end she has put her own life and mistakes on display in a very public way. People have been exceedingly nasty to her – she has taken hit after hit after hit (and that’s only from the ones who AREN’T JSJ). She is not comfortable in the spotlight, not one bit. It has been very hard to air the details of her life and the con, but she is trying to stop a con. And in doing so she has saved the sanity of many people, have given others knowledge to understand what happened to them, has created a forum for sharing knowledge about JSJ, and has given people hope that JSJ can at least be slowed down now, because of her exposure on the internet.
and btW way, one of her friends didn’t think too highly of her at one point either: http://www.laweekly.com/2007-10-11/news/the-life-and-death-of-jesse-james/
Is this One Joy’s spath? Sure sounds exactly like her. I see both sides of the story, but a spath is a spath. If she is conning people on the internet, she will con them in real life, too. All spaths need to be shut down. The thing that makes this so creepy is the voice altering technology. This person makes an entire career out of conning people, and it’s just morally wrong. Just because it’s easy and people are gullible doesn’t make it okay.
I do know several married couples who met on the internet and started out with a long distance relationship. So it can happen. But I think most people have come to learn that they cannot always trust the intentions of a long distance contact. It’s unfortunate that we all have to be so cynical but we do. I belong to a few internet dating sites and routinely get messages from guys out of state. Usually the scams are easy to spot, and I spot them right away. But for the others, I take a non-negotiable stance that I don’t get involved with anyone I cannot meet in person, no matter how sincere they seem. To me, this is a waste of time. You just CAN’T know if a person is what they say they are unless you meet them in person and get to know them. And even THEN….
((((EB sweetest, when you mentioned your T levels being off the other day, I could hear the anxiety underneath. All best wishes for an excellent outcome.)))))
I agree with the dissenting judge. With ANYTHING on the internet it’s caveat emptor. The cardinal rule of internet dating is “never send money to someone you’ve never met in person.”
i dont where to post this.
my girls’ spath daddy is fighting me for custody now. he wants joint custody. they have a law guardian who gets to decide who they live with. do i have any rights in this or is it like a CPS investigation? i dont want the kids to talk to her w/o me there so i can interpret (later even) exactly wat a 4yo and 6yo said about daddy, or mommy for that matter. shes gonna ask do u want to live with daddy and theyre gonna say yes, meaning they want us ALL to live to together again and they just want to SEE him. its been april since they saw him. the girls miss him, esp the 4yo, and im really worried as no way are they going across the country for 6 months of the year. that i let him TALK to them is very generous of me. and i wud let him fly us out there if he wanted but he has no job or car for pete’s sake.
why the court is entertaining his contesting is beyond me.
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Yah well, the women being duped was MARRIED! I have no sympathy for her, because of this. She was not honorable, so too bloody bad!
I am now one month into N.C. and I am FINALLY without all the heartache and drama. No Contact is the ONLY way to go.
well folks this woman has been conning people for decades, both online and off, both married and unmarried – doesn’t change the fact that she is what she is and that she is a disgusting damaging nightmare.