A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
OAG?
peace out all…zzzzzz.
I found some chocolate rats, you guys. Thanks for the advice Ox, Sky and One/Joy. I really appreciate bouncing ideas around with you guys, and the honest feedback. It helps.
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One/Joy,
Office of The Attorney General.
Dear Purewater,
I understand your desire and your emotions for the TRUTH to be told and for your word to be vindicated…problem is, that in order for this to be accomplished your child will have to be associaited with this monster for X period of time, maybe his entire life.
So….let the arsehole “save face” and BARGAIN with what you have in the way of “cards”—I now your attorney wants to beat him up and I am sure you do to….but, look for the BIG PICTURE not just the “instant gratification” of having hm proven a liar in court.
Maybe you can cut a deal with him….he signs over “rights” and you do NOT go for back support and lawyers fees….and you also do NOT pay his attorneys fees, everyone just goes home, AFTER he signs over rights. Plus, you should know too, that if he signs over rights to the child and you sign up for benefits from welfare or insurance (medicaid etc) that the STATE will track down the father and make him pay…so you are giving up some rights, BUT at the same time there is some INSURANCE THERE TOO… if something were to (Godforbid) happen to you, he would be the “legal guardian” of the child, if you give up any right to child support etc. and he doesn’t pay etc. then the kid is not at risk for being in his custody if something happens to you.
There are a lot of angles to consider besides the EMOTIONAL and immediate gratification. The big issue as I see it, is your kid being associated with this piece of carp!
Ox,
What we need on Love Fraud is an online fax machine, that can receive faxes and allows them to be viewed online. That way you could see the papers, and the prior paperwork that the Texas OAG issued last July.
Last July, they named the spath as father by default. What Tx does is if you don’t show for an ordered paternity test, they will name you the father – especially if they’ve made good effort to contact you.
He is the legal father, now. I got served papers to do a paternity test to give him the opportunity to contest the last order.
I think your idea sounds good, though. Entice him to sign over his rights immediately. Allow the adoption immediately.
I DON’T want the ex-socio to be the next in line to take my son if anything ever happens to me. But, my ex-husband and I have talked in great detail about this, and let’s just say the life insurance would allow him to disappear with the kids, and he would do that immediately.
Removing the spaths legal rights is best. I will talk to my lawyer about it, tomorrow.
took hours for me to settle enough to sleep last night. i was pretty effected by my visit to mom. i am really teary and just want to sleep and cry today. i want to see her tonight, but won’t. i just can’t do another night in a row – i have to take care of myself.
i was hatching a plan to have her visit. there a few stairs here though and neither she nor i know if she can make it up the stairs. i have a BIG neighbour – former pro football player, and i am going to talk to him about helping getting her up the stairs. this is the only way i can think of to see her more often, now that it is cold out. unfortunately it would mean seeing the creature – and i don’t know how to get around that yet. there is no one else to bring her here and she cannot come in a cab by herself.
oh, it all seems too desperate.
i don’t know if she was talking about me when she was talking to me last night. she knew who i was and my name – but she said that thing, that thing that she thinks is true and i know damn well isn’t: that i am the most important thing in her life. i never have been, it’s always been the fucking creature. does it discount everything esle she has said to me? does she even have any idea what it means to love someone without trauma bonding? omg, too much drama and trauma over the last few days. i can never truly let my guard down with any of them (my family).
i need a hug and a good cry. man, i feel beat up.
(((One/Joy))): I am sending you a basket full to use as needed. Shalom
thanks Shalom. I am in bits – hard to focus to work, so am just giving my self a bit of space to be less productive. i missed a deadline last night – so be it. i need to make some phone calls, but i am afraid that i am going to burst into tears and be too unfocussed.
OneJoyStep
Am sorry to hear your anguish. But I have a perspective for you to consider.
Your mom says you are the most important thing in her life. I want you to consider that it is likely VERY True but what is obvious is that she doesn’t know HOW to to communicate that to you so you can feel it yourself.
Lemme splain:
I love my daughter. But when living with my spath husband, he did a mindfark on her, working on her behind my back. Telling her that when mom got angry or upset with her, I was mentally unstable and she could go to him and he would comfort her. Well, we all know kids do naughty things and parents are there to redirect them. SO yes, for those times when she didn’t turn in her homework, or she took the car without permisssion, or got normal teenage snotty with me, yes, she got in trouble from me. The consequence of my husband’s mindfark is that he drove a wedge between us that my daughter can’t forgive me for EVER putting boundries on her behavior. (typical spath strategy – divide and conquer to triangulate a relationship).
Do you see how my daughter does not trust or believe me when I tell her she’s all that matters to me? HE taught her that what I did to guide her was ME BEING unstable and that my setting boundries was equal to being controlling. It wasn’t… but to a kid who adored her dad (at the time) and wanted her mom to be wrong, she believed him. That’s now her core belief set in childhood stone and thus extremely hard to change.
Just saying that even if YOU can’t feel how important you are, SHE can. She may not have even been aware before and has come to realize it. And no, she may not understand about trauma bonding. But if she is capable of empathy, she is able to love. And feeling the love you have for someone is different than feeling the love FROM someone.
In short, I believe her. She does love you that much. I think so b/c of how YOU are to her. You wouldn’t do for her if she was LIKE HIM. You can be angry with her and you’re probably right to be, but don’t sell yourself short. YOU MATTER to her just as she says.
Katy, imho looking at what you write and observing from outside in and knowing I know what’s in MY heart even if no one else can feel it… and betting so does your mom.
katy – thanks for your care.
my experience is different than what you are describing. this isn’t about my inability to feel my mom’s love or my importance to her, or her inability to express it.
What stung was the ‘most important thing in her life.’ I am not ‘the most important thing in her life’. She is supply, her n has always been the most important person in her life – like an addict to her drug. She has proven that time and again. He ALWAYS comes first.