A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.
Has anyone here heard of a proxy server? Basically, if you search for it on Google, you will get a list of servers that when you go to a website, it hides your IP address. You can send email, get on FB, etc and it will redirect whoever may be looking at who owns the IP address to someplace in Germany or Indonesia or where ever you choose. My freak has no idea about computers. I designed a forum for him and still have the analytics coming to me. I hid them within the coding, so he has no idea I can see he is the one signing in as others and posting like he’s not the one doing it. He finally changed his passwords on everything, so I can’t technically get on the forum, but I can monitor it if need be. Having all those passwords actually is what really gave me some insight into what he was up to. Otherwise I’d have not thought the situation was a bad as it was. In the spring I plan on quitting my job and moving the South Carolina. I figure that will be the perfect time to do something to make his head explode. All of the threats he was giving me will no longer be valid when I leave my job. He won’t know where I am and proxy servers are really nice to use. I have been accumulating email addresses and home addresses of women he is lying to now, including a whole directory of everyone he works with in the whole state he is from. I will see how pissed I am come spring and decide then whether I want to introduce him to Karma. I do have screen shots of all the Craigs list ads he was placing for men and women and the dumb ass put a full nude pic of himself in the ads. I wouldn’t even have to sign my name to those when I send them to everyone, they are pretty self explanatory. lol. I also have article and a Federal Prison link where he was in prison for threatening to kill someone and blow up a building. Those can pretty much be sent anonymously too. I just think that maybe he should have done to him what he threatened to do to me.
Oh, and having a federal prison record means he is not allowed to own a gun or hold a gun or have anything to do with a gun. He has 18 guns. The ATF is investigating as we speak and I didn’t even have to turn him in. It is a wonderful feeling to get control back of my life. I am thinking of changing my middle name to Karma the Hussy.
(((((((((((((((one-joy))))))))))))) Just read your despair. I think Katydid may be right. If your mother is an empathic person who can love, then she most likely does mean it. Even if that contrasts her choices in the past to choose the creature. Obviously, now she is not in a position to choose anymore. She has become physically dependent. And now, perhaps feeling how weak she is, fearing the end of life, she may finally be able to face her own past decisions. So, it’s possible.
I know that my grandmother, who used to favour my aunt and cousin over my father and myself, became markedly more fair towards the end of her life. In a way, it was almost as if she wanted to make good for the time she had lost on my early childhood years. My cousin lived in Italy anyway, and now I was almost graduating from my master. And I know it was her who had pushed my grandfather to gift money to my aunt and father (so if gifted in time, it wouldn’t be counted as inheritance and thus her children wouldn’t need to pay taxes on it) and pushed it for it being divided equally.
My grandfather was the opposite. After she died, he turned into a dragon in his cave guarding his pile of gold and using it to manipulate. He died without ever wanting to make amends to my father.
Before that, I would have thought my grandfather the victim of my aunt and my grandmother’s favouring, the actual fair person. Towards the end, it turned out to be the other way around.
One joy,
Here is a huge hug being sent your way. ((((hug))))
I know I never was, am, and never will be even in the top 50 most important things in my mom’s life. She might differ with that statement, but actions over one’s lifetime speak louder than words. Like your mom, she always put her narcissistic husbands before me. I guess it should hurt more, but at this point, I don’t take it personally anymore. I’ve cried it all out. I figure it’s up to me to generate the love for myself, and that’s what I have done. I expect nothing from them anymore. When you have no expectations, you can’t be disappointed. She has raised me to the best of her ability and her job is done. Sad we cannot have a relationship, but it is what it is. I am done crying over her.
bunny –
actually i do know a thing or two about proxy servers. web proxies, and even most elite proxies, will log the real ip address of the user and record whatever websites they visit or what they do. only the operator of the proxy can see it, but the police can get that information to. we had an incident awhile back where a kid used a web proxy to make automatic bomb threat calls to a number of buildings. the police found him in no time.
darwinsmom – you put that so nicely – it doesn’t matter, you know? i haven’t been that to her and i am not going to get all charlie brown to her lucy this late in the game. got way too many t-shirts of that ball game. it was just hard, her in such pain, clutching onto me, saying something that has been bs forever.
she can’t face much of anything – she is demented, and in this last while she has been delirious.
is it true that i have been truer to her than he has? yes. but i don’t think she really can formulate that thought. 🙁
let’s move on to another subject, k? (((thanks)))
catching that hug Star!
and eating my double choco mocha pecan cookies.
did you see the choco mice that purewaters found last night? tres cute.
hmmm, if you are hugged by a star, do you immediately incinerate???
After that comment about the cookies, I don’t know whether I want to hug you or kill you! LOLOL
You know, whenever I talk to my mom, she tells me how much she loves me. I take it with a grain of salt. I know she loves me as much as a narcissist is capable. She has done the best she could. It wasn’t great, but it doesn’t matter any more.
Yeah, I had my protein shake, red peppers stuffed with ground turkey (and not much else) and cucumber, tomato, and cilantro salad today. And, oh yeah, I got to have an avocado. Woohoo! Meanwhile, my co-worker brought out the BIG GUNS – the peanut M&M’s. They filled her candy bowl, and I had to walk by them all day. *face palm*