A case is now percolating through the Illinois courts that may have implications on whether perpetrators of online deception can be sued for damages.
The case is Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James. Bonhomme lives in Los Angeles. She is a fan of the TV show Deadwood, and back in 2005, joined a chat room about the show. There she met St. James.
St. James eventually introduced Bonhomme, online, to a man by the name of Jesse. Bonhomme and Jesse exchanged emails, phone calls and handwritten notes, and their relationship blossomed into a romance. Jesse introduced Bonhomme to his family and friends via email. Bonhomme sent gifts to Jesse and his family. They planned a future together, and decided that Bonhomme should move from Los Angeles to Jesse’s home in Colorado.
Then suddenly, Jesse died of liver cancer. In Jesse’s memory, Bonhomme went to Colorado to visit some of his favorite places, accompanied by the woman who had introduced her to Jesse—Janna St. James.
But there was a problem: None of it was real.
Janna St. James made up the Jesse character, along with all 20 of his friends and family. She created an entire web of deceit, and snared Paula Bonhomme. She actually used voice-altering technology, so when they spoke on the phone, St. James sounded like a man.
Bonhomme spent money on gifts. She bought Jesse airline tickets and made changes to her home in preparation for his visits, which never materialized. In all, the charade cost Bonhomme about $10,000, including $5,000 for therapy after the emotional devastation of Jesse’s “death.”
Finally, Bonhomme’s friends, worried about the amount of time she was spending online, confronted St. James and exposed the fraud. They captured it on video, which is posted on YouTube.
Read ”˜Fake’ online love affair becomes legal battle on ABCNews.go.com.
Watch the YouTube video, St. James exposed.
Taking it to court
Bonhomme filed a complaint against Janna St. James in Illinois court in February 2008. The court dismissed her case. She filed a motion to reconsider in 2009, which was also dismissed. Then her attorneys filed an appeal.
Bonhomme’s complaint stated that St. James St. James committed fraudulent misrepresentation. The elements of this claim are:
- A false statement of material fact
- Knowledge or belief of the falsity by the party making it
- Intention to induce the plaintiff to act
- Action by the plaintiff in justifiable reliance on the truth of the statement
- Damage to the plaintiff resulting from that reliance
The problem with the original case apparently was that a claim of fraudulent misrepresentation was historically recognized only in business or financial transactions. The court had previously declined to consider fraudulent misrepresentation in noncommercial or nonfinancial dealings between parties.
Also, the defendant’s attorneys argued that St. James engaged in fiction, not a misrepresentation of facts, and that “the concepts of falsity and material fact do not apply in the context of fiction, because fiction does not purport to represent reality.”
The original trial court apparently bought that argument, but the appeals court did not. The appeals court ruled that the trial court erred in dismissing the case, and sent it back for further proceedings.
The actual court opinion is interesting and mostly easy to read. Check it out: Appellate Court of Illinois— Paula Bonhomme v. Janna St. James.
Blame the victim
The appellate court decision wasn’t, however, unanimous. One of the justices dissented, writing:
The reality of the Internet age is that an online individual may not always be—and indeed frequently is not—who or what he or she purports to be. The plaintiff’s reliance on the defendant’s alleged misrepresentations, in deciding to spend $10,000 on Christmas gifts for people who allegedly lived in another state and whom she had never met, was not justifiable. The plaintiff also cannot be said to have justifiably relied on the alleged misrepresentations in incurring expenses to move to another state to live with someone she had never met in person and who had cancelled a previous face-to-face meeting after she had purchased nonrefundable airline tickets.
In other words, the dissenting justice blamed the victim for being dumb enough to fall for the scam.
Kirk Sigmon, a blogger for the Cornell Law School, also thought the appellate court decision was a bad idea. He argued that “the world is full of misleading statements and ”˜puffery,’” and Bonhomme v. St. James could set a precedent that made Internet users responsible for telling the truth. This, Sigmon seemed to imply, was an imposition.
This holding has the potential to cause serious problems for Internet users. At least according to the Bonhomme court’s logic, many individuals may be liable for expenses incurred as a result of someone’s reliance upon their virtual representations. Mindless banter in chatrooms could now create legal liabilities. If courts apply a similar logic to negligent misrepresentation cases, even careless statements made on websites could give rise to litigation so long as plaintiffs can prove intent and harm. In theory, every user of the Internet is now subjected to an implied duty of truthfulness or due care in the representations they make when interacting with others online.
The blogger argued that allowing a complaint of fraudulent misrepresentation arising from personal dealings, rather than just commercial dealings, “threatens the very freedom that makes the Internet so attractive.”
Read The wild, wild web and alter egos, on CornellFedSoc.org.
Wrong but not illegal
I am troubled by the judge’s dissent, which blames the victim, and the Cornell blogger’s apparent opinion that the freedom of the Internet must include the freedom to lie, no matter how destructive it is to another individual.
The actions of Janna St. James were clearly reprehensible. They were morally wrong. This woman did not engage in “social puffery.” She set out to purposely deceive Paula Bonhomme, apparently just to amuse herself. Unfortunately, she succeeded, and Bonhomme was damaged.
Not only that, but St. James had a history of pulling this scam. Since this case became public, Bonhomme was contacted by at least five other women who were similarly victimized by St. James, in fake letters going back to the 1980s.
So why is it so difficult for Paula Bonhomme to get justice? I think the problem is the very structure of our legal system. Even when an action is clearly wrong, if it doesn’t violate a law, nothing can be done. The law hasn’t kept up with the technology, and the law, like most of society, doesn’t understand the maliciousness of sociopaths.
I hope Bonhomme makes out better in her next court go-round. In any event, I applaud her for even pursuing the case. If we want to make changes, and hold sociopaths accountable, we have to start somewhere.
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Constantine….I think it’s just me and you tonight baby!
I wanted to tell you how pleased I am to read above……that you and Ms. Oxy will never have an affair or engage in illicit behaviors! WHEW! I was beginning to fret about that! 🙂
I just couldn’t picture the two of you together…..at least long term!?!?!! 🙂
Okay…..my smart ass is going to finish up my work and get to beddie byes…….have a good night Constantine!
thanks for the good wishes about my mom Constantine. I have been collecting information, to try to figure out the extent of my dad’s neglect of my mom. I found out that her wonderful caregiver called the police the day she left, and that my dad’s report of this was, ‘she just went crazy, she was menopausal.’ ahem. I will call the Alzheimer’s Society later this week and ask about process and who i should report concerns to. A mutual friend is going in to see mom in about 10 days – she’s going to give me a call afterwards. she’ll check mom’s meds (in bubble packs) to see if she is taking them, and check on her hydration levels. Slow, but sure.
i am going to see if i can find the caregiver. I was told she is still in the country. If i can, i want to find out what happened.
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First Oxy gets Hens to father some ducks with her and now she has Constantine waiting in the wings to have an affair with her.
Why does Oxy get all the guys?
Could it be the power of her magic skillet?
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Constantine – because the caregiver was so wonderful I felt that mom was getting good care. She isn’t now. I hear there is another caregiver in residence – if this is true (will find out soon) she is doing a horrible job.
Until my father is dead I will not know that my mom is with someone I can trust.
Yea, that’s me, Sky, skimming all the good guys off the blog, well except for Matt, and he’s got a squeeze, so I can’t get him as well. Oh, well…I’ll just have to settle for Connie and Hens…and Hens still hasn’t sent me any more duck support moneys and I can’t get the feed store to accept the THREE DOLLAR BILLS he sent last time! LOL ROTFLMAO….
I’m packed and am waiting for son D to get his sheet together to head out. Still over cast, but no rain and maybe some sun tomorrow and then supposed to storm and rain Friday and Saturday! But I’ll come home to sleep in my bed at night, the young folks can sleep in the tent, I wants my comforts! LOL
Yea, Constantine, I don’t think we will be willingly part of cheating on a spouse or going with a person we know is married, or even going out with someone we knew was a serial cheat in the past. I think that the PATTERN OF CHEATING is something that is the BIG RED FLAG….a pattern of ANY kind of dishonesty, or lack of a moral compass, either in business or in a personal way or both is the BIG TIP OFF that the person has HIGH PSYCHOPATHIC TRAITS. They may not qualify for 30 on the PCL-R but the AVERAGE score of convicts is 22, so that’s pretty high when you consider that the average score of most people is 4-5. I sure as heck don’t want someone who would score 22 on the PCL-R in my life.
There are those people though who are TOXIC who might not score even 10 or 16 on the PCL-R because their mask is so good. Look at Bernie Madoff, didn’t cheat on his wife as far as we know, etc. but I would say he DEFINITELY HAS THE PATTERNs OF A PSYCHOPATH. Has little or no empathy, and no remorse, is narcissistic and entitled….projects blame to others, etc. They say Ted Bundy was a great friend when he wasn’t killing folks…but of course his SECRET life and attitudes were covered and masked in his every day life pretty much.
My egg donor doesn’t score very high on the PCL-R, but what she does DO and the PATTERN of control and hateful manipulation and her outbreaks of physical abuse and rage at being thwarted in her control is certainly very TOXIC and painful, hurtful and abusive, but she wouldn’t score very “high” on the PCL-R so Bob Hare would not “label” her a psychopath, and because of that I kept trying for so long to put her round peg into a square hole, but no longer….whatever she is, as far as a “diagnosis” doesn’t matter one whit….she is TOXIC, she is not healthy and she is NOT GOING TO CHANGE. She demands that I tell her the truth, but she lies to me at will. She has no compassion for me, no empathy for me, and no love for me because people who love me do not try to hurt me.
Constantine, I’m kind of like you as far as people are concerned, I am just REALLY PICKY about WHO I want in my life and in my home. My home is my SANCTUARY….my safe place. I’ve learned a lot here lately about just how much of a sanctuary it is and that even now I must be on alert about who I let come here. I do like my own company, and I do like the company of certain others, but sure don’t like people who are demanding, narcissistic, controlling, hateful, unappreciative, passive-aggressive, and feel entitled to treat me with disrespect. For those people, I have nothing but “go away” and NO CONTACT after that, and I refuse to feed the SHARKS.
I am not shocked when it comes to this article. Our world today actually breeds this type of Internet behavior, and encourages it. I remember a news report that described how exciting it is to make up another person online. They compared it to the excitement of dating for the first time. These people must be horrible dates.
Although, I will admit to some bad online behavior on my part, but this story I am going to share helps illustrate my point about today’s youth and deception.
I used to play this game online when I was 14. All of the kids were around that age, or so they said, anyway. A huge part of this game involved joining groups called clans. These clans would team up to destroy the other clans. That was the primary objective, to destroy the others. Not too have fun, that was extra. All the clans even went so far as to create their own websites to act as a home base. Well, we began to realize that we could destroy the other clans if we elected a spy to infiltrate the other clans and gain their trust. Then we would destroy their site by gaining their passwords and some groups even used a virus to dismantle the sites.
I was elected as the spy of my group. Mostly because I was the smart member in the group, one who could not play as well as the others, but who knew a lot. So I went around gaining the trust of others players, learning about their lives and playing with them, and then destroying their groups and sites. Of course, it was only a game, and they always came back to rebuild their group, but still. We were all 14! Now even more games do this.
I took games way too seriously. I was elected for that spy job because I could juggle multiple accounts and keep track of lies. I betrayed so many players. I still feel bad about it, but I did not at the time. It took me a few years to realize how serious this all was. This was all a game, though. I knew these kids for a few weeks. I could not imagine using people like this with a real deception for years or any other extended amount of time.
Near,
When I try to understand how spaths think, I just go back to the way I used to think as a little kid. I was a smart little kid and tried to think deeply about things and understand them, but I was still a kid with the limited life experience of a little kid. That’s how spaths think – like little kids. The reason for this is because they actually do have a very limited life experience, since they don’t experience emotions very well, all of their experiences are limited and therefore the capacity to learn and benefit from those experiences is similarily limited.
You and I grew up and we continue to grow, but they never will. It’s hard to imagine, when you look at a seemingly intelligent, normal adult (who happens to be a spath), that you are actually looking at a 5 year old kid.
Skylar: Yeah? I always thought of my dad as being stuck in his early teen years. I think age 5 sounds about right! Do you mind if I use some of your thoughts to help explain my ideas in class? My psychology class is on the subject of personality disorders right now, and we have started to talk about conduct disorder, antisocial, sociopaths and defiant.
I’d like to use some things I have read on here, just verbal. Not in writing, and no names will be used. I think some of these stories can help others understand, though. Everybody in my class was incorrect when it came to sociopaths, except for me. MY WHOLE CLASS! I have already taught them so much, and my professor was impressed. Thanks, everybody! ^_^