If your new romantic interest exhibits all or most of the following behaviors, be careful. He or she might be a sociopath.
1. Charisma and charm. They’re smooth talkers, always have an answer, never miss a beat. They seem to be very exciting.
2. Enormous ego. They act like the smartest, richest or most successful people around. They may actually come out and tell you that.
3. Overly attentive. They call, text and e-mail constantly. They want to be with you every moment. They resent time you spend with your family and friends.
4. Jekyll and Hyde personality. One minute they love you; the next minute they hate you. Their personality changes like flipping a switch.
5. Blame others. Nothing is ever their fault. They always have an excuse. Someone else causes their problems.
6. Lies and gaps in the story. You ask questions, and the answers are vague. They tell stupid lies. They tell outrageous lies. They lie when they’d make out better telling the truth.
7. Intense eye contact. Call it the predatory stare. If you get a chill down your spine when they look at you, pay attention.
8. Move fast. They quickly proclaim that you’re their true love and soul mate. They want to move in together or get married quickly.
9. Pity play. They appeal to your sympathy. They want you to feel sorry for their abusive childhood, psychotic ex, incurable disease or financial setbacks.
10. Sexual magnetism. If you feel intense attraction, if your physical relationship is unbelievable, it may be their excess testosterone.
For more on this topic, see Donna Andersen’s book, Red Flags of Love Fraud—10 signs you’re dating a sociopath.
Libra,
he only gets a job to reel you back in. It’s part of the roller coaster. Roller coasters have highs as well as lows, this is one of the highs because it raises your hopes. Expect a low just around the corner. He will dash you hopes.
Libra, I totally agree with Sky, this man is not going to become Mr. Responsible and start working and paying bills, he is a junkie and a liar. What is it with this “WE WILL SEE”? When are you going to grow a back bone and get the hell away from this man? What is it with the “hope” he is going to pay bills? If he pays A bill, it will be the only one and he won’t pay it NEXT MONTH. You can BANK ON THAT!
As long as you stay with him, and continue to contact him you are in the FOG and cannot see.
careful Ox, I have a patent on that.
Yea, I think Donna will find it INTERESTING to say the least!
Talk about meglomania (or how ever you spell it) in the web site linked by Erol. LOL
I’ll pay the fee to use “Oh, my~” , what is it to use it?
Well our duckies are giving me 3 eggs a day and I am having to make tons of potato salad…which thank goodness I had made cause I had a bunch of scout leaders roll in last night. They are gone to the camp today but will come back here hungry I bet.
I have found ther EASIEST way in the world to peel boiled eggs. I have a TEA spoon (long handled with a SMALLER than regular bowl) and I cut the eggs in half across the middle, not like you were making deviled eggs, but the other way, and I cut them by quuickly and forcefully hitting them with a SHARP heavy knife, it doesn’t make shell chips that way, then scoop them out of the shell and presto, they are done, a dozen peeled in a couple of minutes or less. I boiled some chicken eggs I had last night and they are not quite as easy to peel like that (the shell is thinner than the duck eggs) but it still works with them too.
I have a TON of potato salad for the onslaught of the hoards of HUNGRY young men! LOL I also get lots of hugs and attention! Cooking beans now for chili to go with the tater salad.
How is our toothless baby? Bless her little heart! I’d give her a can of Alpo if I was there.
meglomaniac – [ a physcopathological condition characterized by dilusional fantasies of wealth, power, or omnipotence ] dang I just keep adding to my list of physcosis…oh well, think I will boil me and Posey some eggs, nobody appreciates my humor without calling me names…
I was NOT calling YOU names dear….I was calling someone else that name….I’m a baaaaad girl! LOL
lmao , I cant crack a joke around here without gettin labeled…..
Hi Skylar & Co,
I Appreciate the Humour, however I’ve not got a Christ-complex …. eg Martin Luther King was Christlike, Gandhi was Christlike, Abraham Lincoln was Christlike, John Lennon was Christlike & Jesus of Nazareth was too, I’m simply Saying We Should ALL Be Christlike (ie Braver) & what to Expect for that from the puerile among Us ….
However, unless We Choose the same fate as “All” of the Aforementioned then We Must Raise “Public-Awareness” to the Behaviour-pattern of the Mentally-handicapped 3-Year-olds deMORALising Society on All Levels & terrorising Our Species into Extinction ….
eg We turned a blind-eye to Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin & George Bush & look what the “Lunatics” did as-soon-as Their IMMORAL “lies” went unopposed ….
Kind regards,
Erol
Skylar & Co. lmao
Erol,
your site comes across as a false-flag attack. If you are serious about your mission, you might want to tone down the drama.
I will explain the false-flag attack. It is a ploy, commonly used by psychopaths to slander their opponents. This is done by pretending to be a part of a community and then behaving in a way that stigmatizes the whole community. For example, police will often send undercover cops into protest crowds. The undercover cops will begin a violent attack on the police in order to create a justification to disperse and arrest the protesters.
If you want to be taken seriously, you would be well served to show more restraint in how much emotion you display in your message. The picture of the crucified man might want to go. Also the IRA connections. Spaths use dramatic affect to create emotions in their victims. We try to avoid that.