A Lovefraud reader alerted us to an audio clip on YouTube called, How not to pick up chicks.
Here’s the story, according to the person who posted the audio:
“One of my friends from work and her friend were out one night in the SF Marina district and were hanging outside of the bars trying to find a cab. One of the girls, Olga, ends up meeting this guy Dmitri and they talk for at the most two minutes. She hands him her business card and says call me.”
Here’s what our Lovefraud reader wrote:
“You should be able to hear a telephone recorded message from Dimitri to Olga. It is so telling. Only Dimitri speaks, but for anyone needing/wanting a lesson in identifying red flags this couldn’t be more perfect. For those of us who have been victimized by this pathology, it is also a lesson in really listening to what is being said. For me, a former victim, it made the hair on the back of my neck stand on end.”
I literally howled listening to the tape. Here’s the link:
kim frederick
OMG, This guys words are professing one thing while his narrcistic wound is screaming another. He’s absolutely grovelling, while at the same time, flattering, insulting professing the Demitri cult of ME ME ME. It’s astonishing that these fools can’t hear themselves and have absolutely no sence of how repusive they are. Unbelievable.
Vision
I listened to that u tube about 5 months ago. I forgot about it and it is unbelievable.
I spread that one around to several girlfriends and my female clients….
Recently, a man I had just met “told” me to put his number in my cell phone and then call him right back so he would have my number…..Nahhhh
He didn’t politely ask for my number or give me his and ask me to call if I wanted to. He told me what to do……
In this case above, Dimitri is all out there…….with a loudspeaker…..about who he is……
The ones who aren’t so obvious….the ones who are more crafty…well……..I am learning how to “hear” the sociopath…..Listening closely to what is between the lines……his bait…..