I’ve had two female sociopaths, narcissists, or psychopaths — whichever they are, coming after me for almost 18 months. They are simply other tenants in my apartment building and I am their “chosen one.” We were never friends, in fact other than the abuse, they don’t know me and vice versa.
It’s been absolute mental torture to endure. They have slandered me, have had me ostracized here, lied about me, made countless police calls about me, tell others that I hurt dogs, rumor that I once “tried to strangle” a dog, that I stalk, follow, entrap, corner, harass, grab, and even was alleged to have “caused” one of them to have a fall from which she needed emergency back surgery. It had nothing to do with me.
They tell others that I “scream” at them, refuse to stay away from them, that I antagonize, yell, scream profanities, harass, call them vulgar names, and bash cars. They have deceived the landlord and their employees to the extent that I’m facing an eviction notice because of them.
Restraining order applications
Also, these two filed for Peace Bond (similar to restraining orders) applications against me and they are both lying to the judge in court. They say I bash cars, say things like “that dog should be dead,” that I deliberately “scare” people, try to scare dogs, make them “feel uncomfortable,” and that I wait around corners, follow people into their apartments, and all sorts of nonsense.
I recognize that some of my story is typical and it’s far less severe than some stories I’ve heard, read, or watched on screen, etc., but these are “just” your everyday, small-time sociopaths, not executives out for extortion and big money. I’m determined to get my story out there, to have my story heard, and to win in court over them.
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They’ve managed to fool many police officers, and that could end up earning me a criminal record, which I know the sociopaths would love. The more verbally aggressive of the two has screeched at me, out of the blue, so wildly and violently that I was traumatized for days afterwards. My whole body shook, I cried, lost sleep, and my stomach was tied up in knots.
I now have C-PTSD as a result of the long-term, repeated abuse, assaults, yelling and screaming and their vile accusations. I’m 72 years of age and they are about 28 and 37 or so. Both are female, one is an early childhood teacher (that’s frightening!), and the other is a welding student at a community college. Neither of them is married.
Police say they can’t do anything
They play cat and mouse with me regarding the police. Police claim there’s nothing they can do about a liar and I’ve told them I believe they are sociopaths and so is the younger one … who might well be a psychopath because she has those dead eyes and a fixed facial expression. One is more dominant/domineering and she does the most lying and police calling over nothing I’ve done. They haven’t been charged with any crime.
I filed against the landlord for not responding to me and thereby doing nothing which goes against the Residential Tenancies Act. The case is due to the landlord’s and other tenants’ “interference with my reasonable enjoyment of the premises.” I asked for accommodations based on age and disability directly because of the abuse, and they blatantly ignored me, which will be added to my human rights complaint.
The two sociopaths have (bogus) peace bond applications for which we have had court dates and an upcoming trial — for the first time in my entire life — to settle it and I plan to win. Police also advised that I could file for these peace bonds but a lawyer said that if they really are “crazy,” it might escalate them and place me in even more danger. So I haven’t applied for peace bonds myself, as yet. I’ll give it more thought.
Human Rights
I will be applying to the Human Rights Commission for differential treatment, mental health slurs, discrimination, ostracism, and injury to my dignity, feelings, and self-respect. I’ve been bullied and harassed, called foul names, and they’ve violated me with my age calling me “old as dirt,” “old as sh**,” and they’ve even made many slurs and told lies about my state of mind.
So, these two evil individuals have intentionally got me in “hot water” with my landlord, the police, and now the court, which I hope to win. And they’ve created a situation whereby I will be filing against the landlord for violating my Human Rights, essentially brought about due to the bullying and harassment which the landlord ignored.
It has created a horrible amount of mental anguish and despair for me over many months and my life is profoundly affected — all for no reason whatsoever. They are MONSTERS inside human bodies.
Standing up
I’m standing up to persecutory abuse. I’m not exaggerating OR imagining so don’t misunderstand me in saying persecutory; it is what it is. I can imagine guffaws and chuckles from people who think it’s funny, and to laugh about me as I’ve seen and reported. The property manager sets the tone and example for the mistreatment I’ve been facing.
I’m being blunt and honest since I know what he and the building manager said. They said those things since they are deceived by the women, and I think they are still unaware. It’s clear they believe I’m “mentally unwell” and they respond according to the resulting presumptions, that I deserve no better than disdain.
Legitimate stress
My recording doesn’t convey the voice and emotions of a woman that’s “nuts”, or as one describes me, a “f*****g psycho. Or “escalated” or who “should get help” — remarks from staff.
It’s a bona fide, legitimate stress reaction from ongoing social, emotional, and psychological abuse. It’s from being continually ignored by the landlord despite my asks, and having my own complaints about others turned against me. It’s about being set apart for differential treatment because a property manager stigmatizes me as inappropriate, abusive, threatening, disrespectful, uncivil, and then goes full-on discrimination by “ordering” — threatening me to deal with the landlord and employees “in writing only” and to have “no in-person communication with any landlord employee until further notice.”
It’s uninformed, shallow, insensitive, prejudiced, damaging, and abusive. It’s not an accurate reflection of who I really am. It’s libel, and it’s offensive.
The building manager has NO idea what I am about or what I stand for. He is severely misinformed, and has developed a deeply distorted point of view. I have a WHOLE life that others know nothing about, how could they?
The recording conveys NOT “mental illness,” it is emotional harm from having been exposed to mental and emotional abuse over time. Now, it’s nearly a year and a half of the women’s ongoing deliberate interference, and distorted, convoluted lies. It is a result of EXternal lunacy, not an INternal disorder.
Jean-Paul Sartre was right
If I were even almost capable of the long list of “misdeeds” they THINK I’ve done because “she said so,” then I’d be in prison or under psychiatric care. Which I am not, and I will never allow my sociopathic female neighbors to destroy my reputation to that point.
Hell really IS other people and Jean-Paul Sartre was completely right.
Thank God I have the intelligence to have been able figure this out.
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I’m so sorry you’re having to endure this. It sounds like you’re faced with a stereotypical “she said – she said” situation and without proof that’s where it shall remain. These interactions need to be video recorded to show to the police and the courts. To protect yourself from the neighbors saying, “you didn’t see what she did/said before the camera was on,’” you need to be very proactive to document interactions with the people who believe you’re the crazy one. If you have a cell phone with video camera recording abilities, turn it on before you walk out your door. Every time! Or, before you get out of your car to return to your apartment. Just in case you happen upon an interaction with any of these people. Including the apartment management staff who are succumbing to the stories about you.
If you can install something like a Ring camera or other device do so. You may even look into buying a body cam like many police agencies are now using and clip it to your clothing or on a lanyard around your neck. There are many different options available on line that aren’t too pricey. This will help you show your case to the landlord, the police, the courts, and any other persons that may address this that you are not the instigator of these situations.
Best of luck to you.