I wrote an article not long ago about settling on a name for the personality disorder that we spend our time here talking about. I suggested using “sociopath” as a general term for exploitative people. Many of us have taken to shortening this term to “spath.”
Well, a Lovefraud reader “Justdreamin” informs us that “spath” is taken. She saw it on a flower pot, and sent us the photos.
It turns out that “spath” is a shortened version of “spathiphyllum,” which is the botanical name for the peace lilly, a common houseplant.
We might have to come up with a new name. If I were a beautiful peace lily, I wouldn’t want to share a name with the nasty predators.
Oh My – Had satelite tv hooked up today, the installer was not only drop dead handsome he reminded me of the X so much, his mannerism’s, magnetism’s, masculinism’s, on and on I could go. He was prolly 30, had is puppy with him out in the van. Was so polite and charming. When he got through installing the satilite he asked if there was anything else he could do, I said no, he said are you sure? and winked at me and said Ok Boss…..I am gonna take a cold shower……..
Hi all 😉
In a bit of a time crunch ( and not sure if I’m posting under appropriate blog post)… but had some strange insights last night I wanted to see if any body had any thoughts or experience with this…
Well first off… I really have been wondering about the spiritual significance of “the sociopath”. Mostly… all of my being, although at times hard to remember and practice, really believes that EVERY aspect of the universe serves as a purpose for our growth as souls.
So what about the spaths??… how can something so devastingly horrible really be here for a purpose…and how did they get to be part of the universal make-up in the begininng??
I think it was in LOVEFRAUD… that she said that Sylvia Brown said they are dark souls that just never for a second thought about going to the light… just instant reincarnation as EVIL!!
Then… in “ADVESARIES WALK AMONG US” (John LIvingston) has beliefs that extremely dark evil humans (those seemingly unable to be rehabilitated) have just pure hard core demonic possesion.
Then theres the whole environment and not properly developed brain thing..?
Ok… hope I’m not skipping around too much here…but I believe the world to be built on duality… light/dark love/hate sun/moon (million examples) sooo… if one believes in angels walking the earth… so with keeping in line with the duality concept… there must be dark beings (possibly one we cant see and those we can …”SPATH”).
My “IN NO CONTACT SPATH” is out of town across the country this whole week. My QUESTION IS…??? Well… (i’m a bartender) last night… I had this guy walk in… i was 15ft… away from him…he was clean cut… but my intuition clicked in an my newly enhanced freako/ possible spath radar went off and before he even got to the bar “I just KNEW he was extremely OFF”… anyways, I am a loving soul… and cordial and nice too all people… but I wanted NO part of this guy… and gave him the absolute minumum.. but still coming across as nice. He was just in for 2 glasses of wine and waitng for take out… ( having strange…”me Focused” interaction and conversation w? my boss) anyways… when he left… he went into this way too centered on me thing again with my boss saying “I WOULD HAVE HER FIRED IN AN INTANT”. This stuff never happens to me… yes Im human… and not perfect… but Im also a Reiki Master.. and am always trying to exude positive energy out to universe. SO….. my question is… bc spathy is out of town… and we are in no contact… could there be this possible like invisble but somehow like connected link between these dark souls… to where they like somehow summons other dark spirits when they themselves are not around just to cause havoc, pain and be menacing…
Okay… sorry if this is lenghthy,, and quick jumping thought process… but… I really am wondering if anybody has ever had any thoughts or similar experiences?????
Peace..love..and blessings……….
Wow, Hens. You should have got his phone number!
Dear Mandorla,
Nah, I don’t think so but good for you picking up on this guy’s “negative energy” and listening to YOUR GUT! I’m not sure why we can start to spot them, but like an antelope who has been almost clawed down by the lion, we start to recognize the predators when they are in the area….maybe it is the way they walk, maybe the tilt of the head, I’m not sure, but s omehow they show AGGRESSIVENESS. We pick up on that, and I think if we are NOT aggressive, they pick up on that too.
KEEP UP YOUR P-DAR!!!
Oh Kim – I did but my gaydar wasn’t going off so I beeter not make an old fool of myself..He kept getting text’s and I asked if that was his girlfriend? and he said ‘one of them’ he also said his puppy was a ‘chick magnet’ so – anyway it is frickin uncanny how much he looked and acted like M…..not good.
Kim I am sorry your feeling down and blue today – I wish we could go drink some Ice tea and talk…….ps…I didnt ask him for his number it is on my caller ID – i would never call him anyway….oh my I am in a funk now – where is Star? I am feeling so old and undesirable..
Kim we have to just decide we are going to be happy, trying to be happy doesnt work, I think everyones preception of happy is different..I refuse to be miserable, I have to many good things in my life, my wieners, home, kids, good employers etc…I could be more involved with social event and community if I wanted..i just dont want to work hard at trying to be somebody I am not…I have kinda accepted who I am, just the way I am….the only reason I would change is to please someone else, I have done too much of that..so what if my life isn’t like some other people’s?..srry for rambling
OX… Thx ;)… after I posted… I was thinking more about and yes probably a pretty crazy concept ( although, I’m not giving up on it entirely..lol) Could just be I’m paranoid!!! wtheck!?! 😉 But yes… you are right… it’s the aggression… thats exactly what I picked up from him… while being 15 feet away… and NOT even hearing his voice… it was the aura of aggression, control, commanding your attention, the power and dominance… “my way or now way”… SOOO GROSS…!!! Okay…Ox…thx again for your thoughts… peace and blessings once again… we can never have enough… lol… 😉
TYPO…. “MY WAY OR NO WAY” …ugh
hens…
did i read that right? a young stud does work at your house and then upon leaving says he’s going to take a cold shower and you now feel old and undesirable???
you’re not undesired by me…but i’m the wrong sex… hhummphhh. and not young, and not studly ‘cept in the dark when the door is barely cracked open, as long as my mouth isn’t hangin open in a snore, and that part of my leg doesn’t show those veins, and the viewer is impaired drunk or stoned, etc etc etc.
Katy & Hens,
No, Katy, the guy wasn’t gay—but that doesn’t mean that hens can’t LUST AFTER HIM….I see my son D’s studly-do-right adult scout leaders 21-40 and even get to hug them, but they have NO IDEA WHAT IS GOING ON INSIDE MY HEAD….LOL Just cause we’re old and there’s snow on the roof doesn’t mean there not a fire in the stove! LOL I even tell them how great they are looking and they just have nooooooo idea what I’m a thankin’ LOL It’s okay to lust, just not hit on’ em and get rejected….as long as you just lust a bit no one but you needs to know. LOL
oh yes Oxy, I get it now. I’ve seen hottsies too. Some of those mil boys, phenom shape and so polite and manly. I just keep my teeth together. Drool not so obvious that way.