I recently finished reading Cults In Our Midst—The continuing fight against their hidden menace, by Dr. Margaret Thaler Singer. The book is not new—it was originally published in 1995, and the revised edition that I read was published in 2003. It is a comprehensive description of cults, which the author defines as:
a group that forms around a person who claims he or she has a special mission or knowledge, which will be shared with those who turn over most of their decision making to the self-appointed leader.
Before reading Cults In Our Midst, I’d read and watched TV programs about some cult leaders, and noticed the similarity between their behavior and the behavior of sociopaths. I developed the opinion that cult leaders were simply sociopaths who employed their natural “skills” of charisma, charm, deceit and manipulation to convince others to follow them, and do as they commanded, even when it ended in death, as in Jonestown and Waco.
I expected to see a similar view in this book, and was surprised not to find it. Singer was an experienced clinical psychologist, yet, in this book at least, she does not link cult leaders and personality disorders. Perhaps she didn’t conduct formal research on what the two have in common. But in reading the book, the connection seemed obvious to me.
Cultic relationship
Singer defines a cultic relationship as:
one in which a person intentionally induces others to become totally or nearly totally dependent on him or her for almost all major life decisions, and inculcates in these followers a belief that he or she has some special talent, gift, or knowledge.
She describes cult leaders as self-appointed, persuasive, determined, domineering and charismatic. The cults are authoritarian in structure, and have double sets of ethics—members are to be open and honest within the group, but deceive and manipulate everyone else. The overriding philosophy of cults is that the ends justify the means.
Gee, where have we heard that before?
Anyone is vulnerable
Singer points out that everyone is susceptible to these master manipulators. She writes that two-thirds of the people who joined cults came from normal, functioning families. Still, there are some situations that increase risk:
Any person who is in a vulnerable state, seeking companionship and a sense of meaning or in a period of transition or time of loss, is a good prospect for cult recruitment. ”¦ I have found two conditions make an individual especially vulnerable to cult recruiting: being depressed and being in between important affiliations.
By “between important affiliations,” Singer meant a person was not engaged in a meaningful personal relationship, job, educational training program, or some other life involvement.
Singer spends a lot of time explaining exactly how cults go about recruiting people. One of the prime methods she describes is something we are all familiar with—love bombing. The author explains this as flooding new recruits with “flattery, verbal seduction, affectionate but usually nonsexual touching, and lots of attention to their every remark.”
Again, sound familiar?
Learning to manipulate
So how do people become cult leaders? As I said, Singer never suggests that cult leaders are disordered people who are exhibiting their natural, disordered behavior.
Singer calls the perpetrators “con artists.” She says that their prime skills are persuasion and manipulation. She writes:
There is no end to the ways a person can learn to manipulate others, especially if that person has no conscience, feels no guilt over living off the labors and money of others, and is determined to lead.
She continues:
I believe that the successful cult leaders monitor, observe, and learn from what they try and, as needed revise and reformulate the folk art of persuasion.
So, reading this book, Singer seems to say that certain people simply decide that they are going to become cult leaders, and then figure out how to do it. She makes no mention of inborn personality traits or any type of personality disorder—even though her words are perfect descriptions of sociopaths.
Ostracized by her profession
During the 1980s, Singer was an expert witness on court cases involving mind control. She testified in the trial of Kenneth Bianchi, the “Hillside Strangler,” that he was not suffering from multiple personality disorder, as he claimed. On a TV show, Singer said that Bianchi was a psychopath. She also repeatedly testified against the Unification Church.
In 1983, the American Psychological Association (APA) asked Singer to chair a task force on Deceptive and Indirect Techniques of Persuasion and Control. Then, the APA rejected her report.
In fact, the APA filed a “friend of the court” brief in a case against the Unification Church. Dr. Singer and a colleague, Dr. Samuel Benson, had argued that the Unification Church recruiters “engage in systematic manipulation of the social influences surrounding the potential recruit to the extent that the recruit, in fact, loses the capacity to exercise his own free will and judgment.”
The APA stated that Singer’s theory of coercive persuasion was not a meaningful scientific concept, and her testimony in the case should not be allowed. The brief stated:
Specifically, the conclusions Drs. Singer and Benson assert cannot be said to be scientific in any meaningful sense (Point I.B.), and the methodologies generating those conclusions depart so far from methods generally accepted in the relevant professional communities that they are incapable of producing reliable or valid results (Point I.C.). Stripped of the legitimating lustre of a scientific pedigree, plaintiffs purported scientific claim of coercive persuasion is little more than a negative value judgment rendered by laypersons about the religious beliefs and practices of the Unification Church. (Point I.D.).
Read Brief Amicus Curiae of the American Psychological Association
Singer sued the APA, and lost. Afterwards, she reworked much of the rejected material on Deceptive and Indirect Techniques of Persuasion and Control into the book, Cults In Our Midst. Since the first edition of the book came out in 1995, powerful cults threatened and harassed Singer, and filed lawsuits against her. So the introduction to the revised edition explained that an account of one of the cults was deleted.
Dr. Margaret Thaler Singer died in 2003.
Cults In Our Midst is available on Amazon.com.
Oxy ~ Welllll, for as early a start as we got with syrup season, we only ended up with just under 200 gallons. With the onset of the very warm weather, it came to an abrupt end. Last year we were still boiling until almost the 1st of April and made twice that much. Not sure how much sap that is.
After a trip back to the trees, the old lady (that would be me) discovered they had tapped WAY too close to the holes from last year. The tree doesn’t get a chance to “heal” from the previous year and you don’t get nearly as much sap. Guess we won’t get all that fancy equipment paid off this year. These young folks think they know everything…..I call them pretend farmers. LOL
Glad your son is home safe and sound. I can imagine skinny dipping in a shallow creek, did someone have a camera?
We had 78 degrees today, unheard of for Ohio and it has been warm for a week now. I’m sure not complaining, I love spring. I already feel like a new person.
Grand’s mood has also improved tremendously. He and the neighbor boys have been back at the lake fishing everyday and the fish are really biting. Nothing like a pocketfull of worms to cheer a little boy up.
Take care
Mijlo, Well we are being flooded out now, thank goodness we live on a hill, but our entire state is under storm warnings and horrible rains. Had significant damage from straight line winds in the county seat, over 150 homes severely damaged.
Nah, no cameras it was still dark anyway, but it is a funny story none the less. I can just see about 15-20 of them neck’ed as jay birds trying to get into 2 ft of water! LOL (head shaking here) I think there had been some drinking involved too.
My spiced apple cider, a drink called “apple pie” won 2nd out of 41 entries in the “jug contest” which I thought was pretty cool, and another drink I sent won third. Son D took the prize money and bought raffle tickets for a knife and won a really high quality one of a kind hand made damascus blade knife worth several hundred dollars so he was happy! He said this event was the best run of the 10 or so yearly events that we have been to.
Well, sorry your syrup harvest was down, but that’s the way farming goes…first your money, then your clothes! LOL My piggies are starting to really get big and I have in an order for more for the end of april to start them out. Also my friend that I gave my last pure bred highland calf to, he wanted to break him out as a single ox, has had health problems and is giving him back to me, so I will have another Ox on the place. Son D is really happy about that as he said “I miss having the steers” He is only about 5 or 6 months old now, but already broken out nicely so will just need some polishing and to get used to us.
Went back to where they are putting in the natural gas pipe line and almost choked on my tongue, what a MESS….so called the land agent and talked to him, he’s coming out Friday (if the rains stop or the Ark floats one or the other) to look at it…but a neighbor just won a law suit against the pipe line company for the mess they left on hsi place so maybe they will be better and fix it. I’m hoping so. Dealing with them is like dealing with a crooked wall street banker. LOL LIARS ALL.
Oxy,
send some apple pie my way!
congrats on your cider drinks winning. I had no idea your talents encompassed making prize winning beverages!
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Okay….I’m not so sure that all cult leaders are psychopaths or sociopaths. I personally know people from the Jim Jones catastrophy and believe me – drugs had more to do with that than anything. Drugs can take people to completely different levels of psychosis- but lets not get the two confused. Psychopaths & sociopaths- the real ones- have something wrong at birth, brain defects, chemical defects etc..Lets get the full story on how Jonestown really went down before we jump to too may conclusions. It doesnt do any of us any good on learning about these people unless we see the truth and facts of what really happened. Thoughts?
Thanks, Sky, the first time I drank apple pie I fell in love with it, but it had so much “ever clear” in it I got knee walking before I realized it….I make mine with very little alcohol, so you can drink quite a bit and still not “over dose”—-I told son D that if I had known there was a jug competition that I would have made some “carrot cake” which tastes just like carrot cake and frosting, but it has considerably more alcohol than MY apple pie, so can’t drink much of it.
He said the winning jug had some sort of “peach pie” type drink in it and he said it was WONDERFUL. But anyway, I was pretty pleased with 2nd place among that group of folks! When the jugs go round the camp fire after all the public leaves, mine is always one of the most popular.
Ironschool 7, I’m not really clear on what your point is above, could you clarify please?
Might I point out that the term “cult” has come to mean something evil which is problem especially with the media. Motorcycle clubs were called “gangs” which came from a California attorney general who wrote about motorcycle clubs (how he gained his information is a mystery to many). The media picked up on it and it has been “gang” for decades.
Also Jonestown has nothing in common with Waco. Waco was perpetrated by the ATF 100%. Mr. Koresh could have been arrested during any one of his trips into town. However our power hungry feds choose to act any way they please as they have come to think their own brainwash tactics are working. I would not hesitate then to call the ATF a “cult”! Plus their display of barbarian actions wholly sickens me to this day.
The powers that be though as pointed out on this blog can run roughshod over anyone they please.
The author of the book “Cults in our Midst” addresses the difference between cults and legitimate religion. Essentially the cults are based on deception. The cult leader may be talking about God, spirituality, the Bible, but what is really going on is that he or she is amassing power over the members, and usually their prime job is to raise money so that the cult leader can live as he or she pleases.
Heart (I don’t like Blackheart either) – if you want to send your story without identifying people, that is fine. Developing the “True Lovefraud Stories,” in which people are identified, requires a lot of verification, so I’m not producing those at the moment.
Bob – Jonestown and Waco are the same in the actions of the cult leaders. Jim Jones and David Koresh controlled the lives of the members, and that control is what led to the disasters.
I see what you all above are saying & agree with a lot of it- however in my opinion, and being so close to the Jonestown tragedy, I think we have missed how much drugs played in to it and possibly other tragedies like it. If you look at the history of Jim Jones & Larry Layton- I do not feel they started out as wanting to be cult leaders or were socio/psychopaths. I think the drugs slowly but surely took them to a delusional path with a horibble terrible ending- but I do not think they started out that way. As I understand, psychopaths & sociopaths are either born that way, have massive head injuries along the way or have had an upbringing that alters thier thoght process. I think Jones & Layton were jacked up so heavily on drugs for so long it altered thier minds. Layton was definetly brainwashed by Jones. But is that a sociopath? Psychopath? I’m not so sure. So what I’m saying is that not all cult leaders are pschopaths/sociopaths & we need to look further in to things before we label. I see on this sight where people label someone as a psych/sociopath because of the experience they have had with lying etc…and I think thier are others reasons for that behavior that they were not born with etc…like a psycho/sociopath.
Love the feedback!