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Fred Brito claims he’s “The Benevolent Con”

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July 22, 2007 //  by Donna Andersen//  24 Comments

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Last month Dr. Liane Leedom wrote an article called Fred Brito: A con artist profiled by Dateline. Dr. Leedom’s observations about the Dateline story were:

  • Fred fooled many people who should have known better
  • Fred fits the profile of a sociopath
  • Fred projects positive energy that is nearly euphoric
  • Fred has an enormous sense of entitlement
  • Fred sought the company of high-status individuals
  • Fred doesn’t appear to have a love life

Dr. Leedom’s comments about Fred strike me as being fairly mild. They aren’t the type of comments that a man who agreed to be interviewed by a national investigative television show, or someone who is running for state senator in New Mexico, should get worked up over.

But Fred didn’t like the Lovefraud story. He complained that in publishing it, Lovefraud did not talk to him and resorted to gossip.

Fred Brito’s story

So who is this guy? Here’s what it says on Fred’s website: “Fred Brito made some serious mistakes in his early life which led him to prison. When he was released and unable to find a job honestly due to his record, he fabricated his resume and was hired time and again. Fred Brito’s main focus was to work”¦not to steal. This sets him distinctly apart from other criminally minded con artists.”

Well, maybe. The Los Angeles Times printed a front-page expose of Fred Brito on August 28, 2005. It stated that Fred’s brushes with the law began in 1977, when he pled guilty to stealing $1,000 from a bank where he worked as a teller. He was given probation, broke his parole and fled to Canada, where he was arrested for numerous crimes. In 2002 he was charged with embezzling $600 from a law firm where he worked as an office manager.

But there are no laws against lying on a resume, and in the mid-1980s Fred started inventing identities and credentials. He claims to have been hired for a long list of senior management positions. He also got jobs as a court appointed psychiatrist at Los Angeles Superior Court Office of the Public Defender and as a Catholic priest in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona.

In 2005, using the name Federiqkoe DiBritto III, Fred was hired as executive director of development at UCLA’s David Geffen School of Medicine, a job that paid $100,000 per year. After a few months he was discovered, fired and arrested. Authorities found no evidence of criminal wrongdoing in his role at UCLA, so they didn’t send him back to jail. But the incident precipitated the LA Times expose about Fred Brito.

Officials at the American Red Cross in Pasadena, however, apparently didn’t read the story, even though was published 10 days after Fred began his new $60,000-a-year job there as a fundraiser. Fred eventually lost that job too.

Fred’s resume

So what is it about Fred’s resume that makes him so appealing? The four-page document claims he is a Ph.D. candidate at the Catholic American University of the Immaculate Conception, which doesn’t exist. Fred claims 24 years of experience with Caritas / Catholic Charities, which does exist, but undoubtedly doesn’t know anything about Fred.

His 14-page curriculum vitae includes a glowing recommendation from Harrison Winslow, who doesn’t exist. The CV lists a phone number for Winslow that goes Fred’s special cell phone. When it rings, Fred, as Winslow, strongly recommends himself for the job.

After all the media exposure, Fred seemed to lay low for awhile. But in 2006 he became Federico Gomez de Maria, and got a job as administrative director and fundraiser at the New Mexico Performing Arts Academy in Las Cruces, New Mexico. Blogger David Markland reported on March 8, 2007 that Brito admitted he was dismissed from the job for “not disclosing his full identity.” Brito then posted a comment stating that he legally changed his name from Fred Brito to Fred Gomez de Maria.

Fred fires back

Well, maybe. He certainly used the name Fred Brito when he contacted Lovefraud.

I posted a comment inviting Fred to tell his side of the story. In the meantime, “Shesaid,” a Lovefraud reader, posted the following: “Brito’s comment is just the ramblings of a lunatic – sociopaths will try to swoop in and distract with nonsense.” She also called Fred “a fake, phony liar, creep and criminal.”

Well, Fred really didn’t like that. He went on the attack against Shesaid, saying that our reader needs counseling. “You stated some severe accusations, as if you know me well,” Fred wrote. “It is a pity that you have never met me personally. If you had, you may have come away with a very different point of view.”

Fred’s comments were held in the moderation queue by the Lovefraud Blog software because he included his e-mail address and his website addresses. He invited us to contact him and find out what he is really all about. I have now released Fred’s comments. You can read them under the nickname “The Benevolent Con.”

WARNING: His attacks are direct and personal. Please DO NOT REPLY with the same type of comments. I am releasing them to illustrate a favorite tactic of sociopaths—the vitriolic offensive against people who don’t believe them.

Fred won’t talk

I sent Fred another e-mail requesting an opportunity to speak with him. Here is his reply:

I am not sure… as you will note… you have a bunch of crazies on your site. I admit… I have made some mistakes… but I have found that your site is very defensive and it appears that there are a lot of SCORNED Women on your site.

Any contribution that I would make would only add fuel to THEIR fire. I did not see that you interjected any moderation of your site. You allow people to rant and rave… and I have already had enough of that.

So I am not sure… what your desire is or your angle… But I don’t think your site is very therapeutic.

I did speak to Fred briefly on the telephone. He did not agree to be interviewed.

Fred says vote for me

But Fred claims we will soon see him on TV again, on 60 Minutes. He also says he is coming out with a book called The Master of Deception, and will be the subject of a movie by the same name.

And, last month Fred announced his candidacy for state senator in New Mexico. His press release asked, “What could stop Fred Brito from continuing to make history as the first ex-offender to be elected to public office?” Fred’s answer: “Absolutely Nothing!”

Yesterday, Fred posted on his blog that his publicist quit.

Perhaps Fred thinks his platform of “giving people a second chance” is enough to get him elected. But if I were in New Mexico, I don’t think I’d vote for Fred.

For a timeline of Fred Brito’s activities, see Fred Brito: Back In the Saddle Again, by David Markland.

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  1. munchichi2007

    July 26, 2007 at 4:12 am

    What sort of law enforcement analyst can’t do even basic math?

    “his last felony conviction was in June 2002 in Los Angeles Superior Court. That mean that he is seven years “clean.” ”

    June 2002 was five years ago. Not seven.

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  2. shesaid

    July 26, 2007 at 11:41 am

    Ha ha…making up fake people and posting to defend himself. How sad, sad and lonely.

    Why are so many clearly mentally ill people not institutionalized? I wonder what kind of law we could get made to be able to have sociopaths committed to mental hospitals? Why do we have to wait until they, say, shoot at the president to impress Jodi Foster?

    For some reason all I can think of when I picture Brito is the BTK killer dancing around in ladies’ pantyhose. Do you remember how proud of himself BTK was up in front of a courtroom telling everyone in detail how he murdered all those people?

    There’s just no reasoning with or rehabilitating people with certain mental illnesses.

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  3. movingon

    July 26, 2007 at 8:04 pm

    Pathetic. Simply pathetic. And I don’t mean in a “we should have compassion for him way.”

    By the way, Brito, “Benevolent con” is an oxymoron.

    “The best thing that we can do is stop writing or talking about him. This does more to kill his ego than anything. He is a publicity hound.” Yes, but only for good publicity. Anything else and the publicity hound turns into a rabid dog. Like most slimy things, he shrivels up when a bright light is shined on him.

    Books? Movie deal? It’s been done, and much better. See Frank W. Abaganale, (Catch Me If You Can, 2002) who Brito likes to compare himself to. Only, Frank has been clean for 25 years, and works pro bono for the FBI. Brito’s just a con man who keeps getting caught. Makes it harder to work the con, so now he thinks he can con the public. Pathetic. Oh, his website, comparing him to Mr. Abaganale? It says he can be hired for seminars to teach how to catch crooks. Yeah, like we’re really gonna trust this guy!

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  4. munchichi2007

    July 27, 2007 at 6:58 pm

    Wait a sec – is Brito now impersonating a police officer?
    Why yes, he is!
    Donna, you should forward this to the Las Cruces PD. They probably have more prolific, slicker, con men to go after than this gnat. But it wouldn’t hurt.

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  5. hardlesson

    August 8, 2007 at 11:30 pm

    I smelled a rat as well. WAY TO GO DONNA. Its been an amazing and painful education we’ve had to endure. And it seems that others “psycho-senses” are also more sensitive due to their education. As Dr. Leedom has said we need to band together lobby for law reform etc. At the very least educate people in posistions of power to recognize them as we do. My sociopath also posed as a police officer(even had a gun and real badge) and was a woman. So, I guess that would make me a “Man Scorned”

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  6. not Fred

    September 17, 2007 at 6:56 pm

    I’ll try to be brief; the less I talk about Fred, the better. Dr Phil made a promise to Fred that “if” his book(s) get published, that Fred could come back on the show as a “respected” guest and promote his book(s). Obviously Dr Phil has no intentions of letting the worm back on his show. By this, I mean that Dr Phil has made it his personal mission to stop Fred from getting anywhere with the book(s) deal, or a movie deal. He will use everything in his power to squash the bug.

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  7. not Fred

    September 18, 2007 at 4:23 pm

    You know, I may have attacked Fred Brito before really reflecting on what it is that he’s really doing. There is no entity more sinister and corrupt than the US Gov’t. The CIA’s first crop of secret agents were recruited Nazi Officers guilty of war crimes; but the CIA swept that under the rug. The dark side of the US Gov’t spends $500 Billion per year on Black Projects, which the public (tax payers) are not aware of. The so called professionals in the country; judges, lawyers, politicians, city mayors, police, FBI and all branches of the Military are all corrupt, but we don’t see all of what’s going on. Believe me, I’m no ignorant nut; I’ve done years of researching. Fred Brito is a convicted fellon; is that supposed to be a death sentence? Because if he is not able to get any respectable job because of his rap-sheet, he must then seek other avenues. What are his options? Homelessness, fighting with other homeless for cans and bottles in garbage bins? Or going on Welfare, with not enough money to get anything that an average person takes for granted? Fred is a survivor, and he’s using all his talents to get respectable work, without breaking any laws. I applaud him for figuring out ways to survive and possibly go forward, in a society that’s built to drive fellons back to prison.

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  8. Fighter

    September 20, 2007 at 6:23 am

    Just saw Brito on Dr. Phil. Still spouting off lie, diversion and b.s.

    He hasn’t changed one single bit. He needs to be in a cage away from normal people.

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  9. freddrickbrito

    September 21, 2007 at 6:31 pm

    FINALLY SOMEONE HERE IS LISTENING. THANKS, “NOT FRED” YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT.

    AS FOR DR. PHIL. GOOD LORD….. AND THEY SAY THAT “I” AM A MASTER CON MAN. DR. PHIL IS IN FACT “THE ULTIMATE CON” BAR NONE!

    CHECK OUT MY BLOG TO LEARN

    THE REAL TRUTH BEHIND THE FRED BRITO
    APPEARANCE ON THE DR. PHIL SHOW.

    http://howtocatchacon.blogspot.com

    Yes, this is the REAL Fred Brito. If you don’t believe me.. email or call me:

    Fred Brito
    TheBenevolentCon@mac.com
    505.993.3030

    PS: Those of you that call me, curse me out… then hang up. You are only showing your stupidity and lack of maturity. If you REALLY want to debate the issue… I am all ears!

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  10. munchichi2007

    September 29, 2007 at 12:15 am

    Hey Fred.
    Not only are you a piss poor con artist, but you’re also a plagiarist?

    Whats up with this post at Helium?
    http://www.helium.com/tm/232290/california-houses-disproportionate-share

    I’m pretty sure this was written by Harry J. Holzer, Steven Raphael, and Michael A. Stoll.

    Is this something else you lied to Dr. Phil about?

    And why lie about this? Ex-Convicts are not only kept from getting jobs, but they can’t write original material?

    Face it, Fred, you’re a pathological liar.

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