Lovefraud readers have forwarded a rash of sordid stories about adults in positions of trust over children who turned out to be molesters and child porn addicts. They should all be prosecuted, along with those who covered up their actions.
Records show Boy Scouts failed to report abuser, on USAToday.com.
Stacy Schuler, Ex-Ohio teacher, convicted of having sex with 5 students, on HuffingtonPost.com.
How child-porn case led to Hershey School, on Philly.com.
Roman Catholic church’s paedophile investigator jailed for possessing thousands of child porn images, on DailyMail.co.uk.
And then there is a child beater and a serial killer:
Judge so furious at abusive mother who left her baby severely disabled he has to take break from court so he does not ‘jail her through anger,’ on Dailymail.co.uk.
Is this the worst UK child killer? Robert Black is cnvicted of murder of a fourth schoolgirl ”¦ and linked to 13 other unsolved deaths, on DailyMail.co.uk.
Finally there’s Dog the Bounty Hunter, taking action. Maybe we need more bounty hunters.
Dog the Bounty Hunter gains custody of grandson on YouTube.com.
Duane ‘Dog’ the Bounty Hunter awarded temporary custody of grandson after chilling alleged abuse tape released, on FoxNews.com.
‘I am going to hurt them’: What Dog the Bounty Hunter’s son-in-law threatens to neighbours in new recording as son beating row escalates, on DailyMail.co.uk.
MiLo, I agree with you 100%—I don’t have cable so I don’t even have access to most of the “reality” shows, though I see some of them as I flip channels like the “survivor” ones etc. but I flip through as fast as I CAN! YUK!
I think actually they are like the bad car wrecks you see on the side of the road as you drive by, you are just compelled to “look”—but REAL? Nah, they are anything except REAL…they are all staged for the camera. The ones I worry about though are the PEOPLE WHO WATCH THEM….and think they are “real.” Or the people who watch wrestling, boxing, cage fighting, dog fights, chicken fights, etc.
Can Anyone Please advise me on how to prove my husband
is abusing my kids, molesting my 4 year old daughter since she was 3 when I split from him, and hurting my 3 year old son since he was 2…they come home with genital rashes and irritation on my daughter which never happens when she is with me, and bruises which I have taken them to the Dr’s to document, no one will connect the dots!!! The DCF will not help, they are on his side and being conned by him, he does not care about my kids he just wants to use them to hurt me since destroying my life in every way he could has not done me in!!! He has stolen my home,my vehicle, my credit and left me for broke, yet I still am fighting… he has been teaching my toddlers taht I am a Bitch, they have used the “C” word, give the middle finger, my daughter is very angry and he is now trying to tell the kids to say I hit them with a broom, it goes on & on, I could go on & on about the horrific things he has done to me & my kids never mind the horrific things he had done the whole time I was pregnant behind my back and to my oldest daughter who was his first victim in my world anyway, he started in on her I found after the split as she was threatened of absolutely horrible things taht would happen to her if she told me. I am trying to get rid of my second attorney as I have also been the victim of terrible representation and a horrible judge I no money left to go through with the divorce and the judge seems to be falling for his charm and fake crying, pretending to just be concerned about my children. The police recently went to his house at my request to check on the lil ones and he was out cold, they could not wake him, the kids let the police in and they could not wake him fro over a half hour…The DCF & police were conned into thinking he was tired from work, but it was actually because he was out smocking Crack the night before & probably on pills…No one has a problem with the kids not being supervised…The sad things is watching themselves, they are safer than with him!!! I really need help trying to protect these kids before it’s absolutely too late, I am letting my babies down by not protecting them from harm,it’s awful!!! Please Anyone???
Dear SOSmomSOS,
Contact the state attorney General’s office in your state….as well as the district attorney in your county if you haven’t already done so. GO back to the doctor, they are MANDATED REPORTERS in most states….
I know it is crazy-making but try your best to be CALM APPEARING even if you are not. The being excited makes you appear crazy, and believe me my story is weird and crazy sounding and no one but one sheriff believed me so keep on til you can find a believer! God bless you and your children and keep you all safe. (((hugs)))
SOSmomSOS,
What a terrible ordeal for you to be going through. I am so sorry.
Document everything. Like Ox Drover states, go back to the doctor and ask for him to report the bruises and genital rashes. Calmly tell him your fears and possibly bring your older daughter with you to tell her story of abuse.
Can you go to the police station and get a copy of the police report of the time they found him asleep. Ask to talk to a supervisor at DCF, mention the police report. Do an intake and ask that drug testing be done, preferably hair analysis testing because it can go back a longer period of time. Someone SHOULD have a problem with children this age not being supervised, keep talking “calmly” until you find someone that does.
Bless you and good luck.
GREAT Advice MiLo,
The hair analysis drug test will go back MONTHS and if there is drug abuse then that will help.
KEEP HARPING ON THAT AND VOLUNTEER TO GET A DRUG TEST YOURSELF…also, I suggest that whatever in your life might be amiss, whether it is smoking cigarettes or whatever bad habits you have, that for NOW YOU LAY THEM DOWN….they WILL be used against you.
If you are fighting against someone like this you have got to be SQUEEKY CLEAN YOURSELF, which means like Caesar’s wife you must be “above reproach,” so get some counseling if you can, (it might actually help you as well) go to “positive parenting” classes, or anything that will make you “look good” to the CPS. This is a WAR you are fighting so get some help as quickly as you can, more troops on the battlefield!
Seem’s like everynight on the news another toddler has been killed by a parent, step parent, boy friend, mother..and then there is always ( in most cases ) a history of domestic abuse or child welfare service’s being involved..I go to other city’s and state’s and on that local news it the same thing.
Is it like this everywhere?
Actually Hens,
I think it used to never make the news. Yes, it happens way too often and it’s everywhere… and horrid to see.
But I am glad to see that it’s not hidden anymore, that kids aren’t quite the throwaways they used to be. That parent is on record the rest of their lives and that actually helps to nail them if the abuse does not stop. TOWANDA for paper trails!
If ya wonder why abuse cases get trivialized by the courts, watch this child abuse court JUDGE:
http://news.yahoo.com/dad-caught-video-beating-daughter-needs-help-070228201.html
This is NOT a naughty daughter getting a spanking. This is a parent with a rage problem venting it on a dependent child. NO ADULT would tolerate this level of physical violence and not bring charges of assault. This man is beating her with a leather belt at the full level of his physical strength. Stopping to get his strength back, and then coming back and doing it again. THIS “spanking”??? AT SIXTEEN YEARS? For downloading (illegally)? (and really, THAT’s her offense? Pretty tame in this world.) Anyone else have a more appropriate punishment?
What’s sickening is he has NO remorse, still considers it NORMAL. And he is the JUDGE for justice for children in abuse cases. I pitty those children depending on HIM to stop their abuse.
Yep, saw that…couldn’t even watch it on YouTube…it was bad 🙁 I watched about one minute and that was it…
It happens because people just have kids without ever thinking about what it really takes to raise one. So many women have fantasies about being a mom, but they have no idea what they are getting into. People need to be realistic. Plus, you have all the children who are only accidents anyway and weren’t really wanted just because the two people couldn’t stay out of bed! UGGGH…just makes me crazy. No one has any self control anymore.