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More on powerful men behaving badly

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June 6, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  278 Comments

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John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.

He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.

A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.

Risks vs. rewards

WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:

The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”

Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.

Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.

More power, more adultery

Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.

Time also described forthcoming research:

A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.

Type T Personality

Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?

In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.

Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985.  In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.

At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:

Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.

Incomplete explanations

All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.

Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.

But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.

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  1. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    June 6, 2011 at 11:04 pm

    hens – noooo, not the same as the ex!

    i had a long correspondence with her until my email was hacked, so it has been quite awhile since i connected with her. she is very hurt hens – very guarded. but i am less fearful about the spath now; she can suck my d…. (oops, sorry if i offended anyone…), and talking more openly with the dupe, and encouraging her to do so would be easier now.

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  2. lesson learned

    June 6, 2011 at 11:05 pm

    ((((((((((((((( One J )))))))))))))))))))))

    that’s all GOOD STUFF! I hear what you’re saying but I’m not able to verbalize that I understand other than that, well, I understand chica!!! YAY!!!

    You’re NOT alone one J. We are here for you. If you need my email or want to exchange, please put in a request.

    I’d be happy to be there for you as often as I can!

    LL

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  3. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    June 6, 2011 at 11:10 pm

    sky – HAHAHA! i read your post as ‘One joy, it might make you feel better to get into *A* fight with other people on your side. That would be a connection and a bond like no other.’ (yah, trauma bonded!!! snort!) bwahahahaaa.

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  4. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    June 6, 2011 at 11:12 pm

    little eb – it’s all so new – learning what these people are and how to avoid them and take them down when/ if we can. it will get easier. i know it will.

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  5. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    June 6, 2011 at 11:15 pm

    LL_ thank you for the offer, but since my email was hacked ( i suspect by the spath) i haven’t set one up that is safe. a friend who i had emailed with when i was hacked emailed me at my safe address, so i don’t trust that one either, now.

    at one point i had about 6 email accounts going tracking the spath, and for lf. finally i had to close everything, as it made me crazed; i am not ready to open that can of worms yet, as much as i would like to correspond with you. 🙂

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  6. Louise

    June 6, 2011 at 11:20 pm

    one/joy:

    Yep, how to avoid them…that’s the most important thing. And taking them down…I am still contemplating that. I can do it; I am just not sure I want to. Not sure WHY I am hesitating.

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  7. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    June 6, 2011 at 11:24 pm

    little eb – trust your hesitation. you’ll know soon enough what you need to do. maybe some ‘stars need to align properly’, or maybe they never will. trust it.

    my favourite saying: Spaths, can’t live with them, can’t kill them will impunity.’

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  8. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    June 6, 2011 at 11:26 pm

    i have to get up in a few hours…thank you little eb, LL, Sky, and Hens for spending time with me, your good wishes, wise notes, and just being here for/ with me. xxxxx peace out.

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  9. skylar

    June 6, 2011 at 11:28 pm

    gnite One Joy, I’m fading fast myself.

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  10. hens

    June 6, 2011 at 11:30 pm

    pumpkin time for me is coming earlier…gnite

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