John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.
He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.
A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.
Risks vs. rewards
WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:
The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”
Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.
Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.
More power, more adultery
Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.
Time also described forthcoming research:
A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.
Type T Personality
Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?
In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.
Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985. In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.
At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:
Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.
Incomplete explanations
All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.
Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.
But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.
You guys were naughty last night! I should have been here to make you all behave! LOL
Yea, I went to bed early, after nearly a week of no sleep I was exhausted for sure!
See what happens when I am not around with the skillet to keep you guys in line!
I think Weiner is TOASTED for sure with all the stuff that is coming out now.
What I think is SOOOOO FUNNY is that Bill Clinton performed the marriage ceremony and Mrs. Weiner went to HILLARY for counseling over all this. LOL Yea, I am gonna come out and say I think Weiner is showing a bunch of psychopathic traits! I feel sorry for his wife.
Oxy:
They were naughty, but it was funny!!
By the way, I am the former little eb. Not sure if you knew I changed names.
Oxy,
I hope you were able to read certain developements. It has been revealed, you possibly have a MIL. LL was mothering Hens, telling him to go to bed and getting quite bossy. I think she needs to step up and be more motherly, send him home baked choc chip cookies. Maybe she’ll get onto him about paying some back duckie support?
Katy
Ya’ll I’m feelin paranoid about something and I don’t know what to do!
What’s going on Nolarn?
H2H-thanks for responding-I need an opinion. I have been doing great with NC with the lady next door who I’ve had this crush on. I have talked to people on here about whether she is spath or schizoid or both. Usually when I gray rock her, she starts trying to get attention from me. This time she hasn’t, which is good, and I haven’t seen/talked to her in two weeks.
Here’s the deal. I have been waiting FOREVER for the notice for the date of my unemployment hearing. I was getting nervous about missing it. I talked to a gal from one of my bills yesterday(that I haven’t been paying). She called to get an update on my situation and she said something that made me nervous. She asked if I could call to find something out because what if something happened and I didn’t receive the notice and then missed the appeal. I called the number this morning and left a message. The lady called me back and I couldn’t get to the phone in time. She left a message saying that all the info I needed to know about my hearing was on the notice that I received. I DIDN’T EVER RECEIVE A NOTICE. I got the date and time of the appeal by calling the automated number and entering my SSN. I am waiting for them to call me back for info. Here’s where my paranoid comes in–what if Little Miss Stick Up Her Butt next door got my notice in her mail and declined to give it to me? Ever since I applied for UE benefits, I have always received their mail in a very timely manner. I have had ZERO problems with the post office since I moved here, yet the most important/significant piece of mail has not arrived.
Nolarn ~ Well, it is possible that she received your mail.
On the other hand, USPS is not infallible, and they do lose things at times. Since pretty much everything is done by machine these days, things get chewed up or lost in the system.
Have you noticed any other pieces of mail missing? If so, you might consider having the PO hold your mail for you to pick up. That way, if your neighbor is somehow involved, she would not have access.
H2H-I just got off the phone with my legal representation and he expected more notice about the appeal and he has a surgical procedure scheduled that day. He either has to have a coworker handle it or postpone it. He is going to call the appeals people back, since they won’t return my call. He is going to find out when it was mailed. I don’t even want to contact her to see if she saw it because she will will think that I’m accusing her of taking it, because she has an attitude problem and she can be mean. She is VERY defensive to other people-even though she has never been that way with me. I know that she can be vindictive too-she told me.
ElizabethBennett ~ wow, new name, how did you choose it?
Your legal rep should be able to get things going for you. I agree with you on not contacting your neighbor. No need to start anything up with her when you can get things taken care of otherwise. Good luck!
H2H-I was starting to get worried about spath’s wife showing up on LF. If she does, it would be totally easy for her to figure out who I am-in 5 minutes, if she read my posts and saw the name. I was watching Pride and Prejudice again last night and I remembered how much I love the character Elizabeth Bennett from the book. The only thing is that people may try to shorten it to EB which will be confused with Erin Brock. Thank GOD little eb changed her name, or there’d be three eb’s.
I just got a call and it’s ok. Th appeal notice wasn’t mailed til today-so neighbor lady doesn’t have it. Now I can maintain my NC without any issues. I can’t believe I had a crush on her anyway. She may be beautiful but she is NOT my type and I know something’s wrong with her. Only now-I stopped trying to analyze her and pretend she doesn’t exist-til this morning anyway. Back to gray rock!