John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.
He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.
A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.
Risks vs. rewards
WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:
The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”
Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.
Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.
More power, more adultery
Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.
Time also described forthcoming research:
A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.
Type T Personality
Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?
In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.
Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985. In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.
At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:
Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.
Incomplete explanations
All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.
Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.
But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.
Lizzy!!
You sound SO MUCH BETTER!! GOOD THINGS GOING ON? YES? YAY!
LOTS of growth on this blog and it’s SO GOOD to see!!
LL
Katy,
Was this recently? I”ve not kept up with Sr. Spathiness, but some legal charges, FINALLY?
That man is as spathy as they GET!
Does anyone know if he’s still with the OW?
I felt so sorry for Elizabeth Edwards. I truly hope that she is resting in peace and that God is just blessing that woman’s HEART!
What a nightmare! And she handled it, in my humbled opinion, with so much grace and class, even while he SLIMED her!
LL
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh Lizzy
Nevermind, I’ve read up the posts now. UGH!
LL
THE MUGSHOT LINK, I think.
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebritynews/news/john-edwards-smiles-in-mugshot-2011156
Ugh! What a site! Can’t stand this “man”
Yea, he does seem to try to “pose” and make it look like a glamor shot or a passport photo.
I wish more of these guys would be outed….as old Ross Perot said, “if a man’s wife can’t trust him, how can we trust him?”
The fact that he got his aid to lie and say the kid was HIS shows that Johnny boy would do whatever he had to do to cover up.
YOu know though, with there being so many available kinds of birth control, I can’t see that the woman didn’t have the baby deliberately though as a “hook” to hold him with….makes me think she may be as bad as he is. Poor kid.
damn, wish my drivers license photo looked HALF that good.
I picked up a magazine this morning. An article about Kate Hudson’s experience with a singer, Matthew Bellamy, caught my eye. I read about how he betrayed his pregnant g/f Sophia and she warned Kate about him. Evidently, he betrayed Sophia by kicking her to the curb for Kate.
He had all of the “red flags” at the start of the r/s..lovebombing, endless texts, lies…etc.
I got to thinking how common this is and that women (and men) really need to be taught about relationships, at a young age. We need to have “life skills” courses in our high schools about relationships. In this day and age, where technology is providing a “heaven” for the predators out there…making it easier to “lovebomb”, and meet new “prey”, we need to teach our new generation to identify predators, abusers, and sociopaths.
What we have all experienced, is happenning more than we know. Even celebrities and the wealthy are susceptible to con artists…maybe even more.
The article made me think about our ‘new age’ and how difficult relationships are, and how noone is immune to the “evil” in our world…not even the rich and famous.
I am teaching my girls the best I know how, about relationships….friendships, romantic, and marriage.
I am teaching them to depend on themselves in life, and to find their passion and run with it…and to be wise in their dealings with “people”.
No wonder …the older I get, the more I enjoy being with my two dogs and two cats…lol. Animals are loyal. People cannot be trusted unconditionally.
Just food for thought.
one/joy:
Hahahahaha…me, too!!
tobehappy:
Thank you for bringing this up about Kate Hudson. Another charming Brit her fiance is!! Boy, they can really do a number on us. And now SHE is pregnant! I pray he does not do the same to her. I was not aware he did that to his former girlfriend.
Hmmmm, we have talked about this before on LF on how we need to teach the girls/boys coming up how to detect these people and how to deal with them. You have given me an idea…I really may look into starting some type of mentoring program to equip young people with this or older people for that matter. Anyone who doesn’t want to be duped!!