• Menu
  • Skip to right header navigation
  • Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Lovefraud | Escape sociopaths – narcissists in relationships

How to recognize and recover from everyday sociopaths - narcissists

  • Search
  • Cart
  • My Account
  • Contact
  • Register
  • Log in
  • Search
  • Cart
  • My Account
  • Contact
  • Register
  • Log in
  • About
  • Talk to Donna
  • Videos
  • Store
  • Blog
  • News
  • Podcasts
  • Webinars
  • About
  • Talk to Donna
  • Videos
  • Store
  • Blog
  • News
  • Podcasts
  • Webinars

More on powerful men behaving badly

You are here: Home / Media sociopaths / More on powerful men behaving badly

June 6, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  278 Comments

Tweet
Share
Pin
Share
0 Shares

John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.

He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.

A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.

Risks vs. rewards

WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:

The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”

Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.

Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.

More power, more adultery

Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.

Time also described forthcoming research:

A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.

Type T Personality

Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?

In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.

Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985.  In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.

At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:

Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.

Incomplete explanations

All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.

Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.

But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.

Category: Media sociopaths

Previous Post: « Powerful men and sexual impropriety
Next Post: Psychopath and narcissist love quizzes »

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Hope to heal

    July 22, 2011 at 12:48 am

    Bravo EB ~ great way to git ‘er done!! 😉

    Log in to Reply
  2. ErinBrock

    July 22, 2011 at 12:53 am

    🙂

    Log in to Reply
  3. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    July 22, 2011 at 1:20 am

    COULD YOU GET THEM TO COME PEE ON MY DISHES, FLOORS AND WINDOWS…IN THAT ORDER????

    Log in to Reply
  4. super chic

    July 22, 2011 at 2:15 am

    😀

    Log in to Reply
  5. ErinBrock

    July 22, 2011 at 2:38 am

    One…….I’ll ask! 🙂
    I’m still laughing!
    Just got home from picking up the gardening tools for them to dig tomorrow…..just in case they show up early.

    I’ll forever laugh each year when my bulbs (of which i enjoy so much!) come up……I’ll be reminded of the (hopefully) LAST time anyone Pee’d in my yard……and I BUSTED THEM -FINALLY! I’ll have the dafodills to show for it! 🙂

    Log in to Reply
  6. Back_from_the_edge

    July 22, 2011 at 5:40 am

    hahahahahaha too funny EB! I love it….then one/joy: don’t be stingey….when they are done at YOUR place, send them to mine! 😉

    Thanks for that late night smile, EB…way too funny!!!!
    YAY for EB!!!!!

    🙂

    Duped

    Log in to Reply
  7. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    July 22, 2011 at 11:51 am

    Duped and EB – i think the correct community service would be that they help us all out! miscreants.

    EB, i know you are younger than i am but you are getting your crone groove on! wish we all had it when we were ‘maidens’. There was a small group of wine dipped cigarello (blech) smoking dudes at the water the other day – they were sitting on the highest rock, and the wind was coming from that direction – no way no how could i get away from the smell – even when i was in the water.

    I said to the woman who brings her kids at the same often i am there: if i were 10 years older I would go over and flick them in the water – and i didn’t mean the cigarellos. i need to find me a group of old women to hang out with to get mo ‘crojo’ on.

    Log in to Reply
  8. Ox Drover

    July 22, 2011 at 1:23 pm

    Dear Oner,

    There i s a really cute book called “Crones don’t whine” you need to get a copy! I am a CRONE and proud of it. I am at that age where I can use my “old lady” persona to get folks to help me out, or I can use it to KICK ARSE! Which ever is appropriate at the time! LOL hee hee Crones are SNEAKY too!

    Log in to Reply
  9. ErinBrock

    July 22, 2011 at 10:01 pm

    Mr. Peebody Cowboy just left! He was a real nice kid…..very apologetic and dug ALL my daffodills right on up and asked if there was any other help I needed!
    We chatted and laughed about it……he said he took a rashion of shiat from his friends all night and today they razzed him about when he was coming over to do his gardening service. 🙂

    So…..I thanked him for following through on our deal, he thanked me again for not pressing charges as indecent exposure would require him to register as a sex offender….I told him I wasn’t interested in’getting ‘him in trouble over this…..just proving a point really. I would hate to have him go through THAT unnecessary mess….that would definately be UNJUST!
    (Especially when spaths are getting away with all they do!)
    This kid didn’t deserve that.

    So……we goterdone!!!!
    And we will BOTH remember this episode!
    🙂

    Log in to Reply
  10. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    July 22, 2011 at 10:51 pm

    🙂 such a great outcome. he learned about respect today.

    Log in to Reply
« Older Comments
Newer Comments »

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

Primary Sidebar

Shortcuts to Lovefraud information

Shortcuts to the Lovefraud information you're looking for:

Explaining everyday sociopaths

Is your partner a sociopath?

How to leave or divorce a sociopath

Recovery from a sociopath

Senior Sociopaths

Love Fraud - Donna Andersen's story

Share your story and help change the world

Lovefraud Blog categories

  • Explaining sociopaths
    • Female sociopaths
    • Scientific research
    • Workplace sociopaths
    • Book reviews
  • Seduced by a sociopath
    • Targeted Teens and 20s
  • Sociopaths and family
    • Law and court
  • Recovery from a sociopath
    • Spiritual and energetic recovery
    • For children of sociopaths
    • For parents of sociopaths
  • Letters to Lovefraud and Spath Tales
    • Media sociopaths
  • Lovefraud Continuing Education

Footer

Inside Lovefraud

  • Author profiles
  • Blog categories
  • Post archives by year
  • Media coverage
  • Press releases
  • Visitor agreement

Your Lovefraud

  • Register for Lovefraud.com
  • Sign up for the Lovefraud Newsletter
  • How to comment
  • Guidelines for comments
  • Become a Lovefraud CE Affiliate
  • Lovefraud Affiliate Dashboard
  • Contact Lovefraud
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Meta

  • Register
  • Log in
  • Entries feed
  • Comments feed
  • WordPress.org

Copyright © 2025 Lovefraud | Escape sociopaths - narcissists in relationships · All Rights Reserved · Powered by Mai Theme