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More on powerful men behaving badly

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June 6, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  278 Comments

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John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.

He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.

A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.

Risks vs. rewards

WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:

The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”

Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.

Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.

More power, more adultery

Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.

Time also described forthcoming research:

A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.

Type T Personality

Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?

In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.

Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985.  In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.

At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:

Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.

Incomplete explanations

All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.

Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.

But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.

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  1. adamsrib

    June 6, 2011 at 5:38 pm

    LL amen!!! Deflecting from the issue YES!! That is why I made it a point to clarify my position so there is NO MISUNDERSTANDING.

    I said TO ME Obama comes off as arrogant because he is the PRESIDENT. Powerful men often come off that way IMO. My first statement is “I like him. I voted for him”. I made it a point to make sure that it is NOT ME using the term “uppity”. As a Latina I have had that term used on me and I HATE IT!

    Wow so much jumping to conclusions, not carefully reading the posts, having knee jerk reactions leads to disunity on this blog. Please let’s slow down, carefully read a post, thoughtfully give a reply. Please.

    I was simply clarifying my position SO WE CAN GET BACK TO THE SUBJECT.

    Love ya LL you are so helpful to me!! 🙂

    Namaste

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  2. adamsrib

    June 6, 2011 at 5:42 pm

    you are bomb KD!!! LOVE YA!! 🙂

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  3. Louise

    June 6, 2011 at 5:42 pm

    Rep. Anthony Weiner apologized for falsely claiming that his Twitter account had been hacked after a lewd photo showed up over Memorial Day weekend.
    The New York Democrat admitted to having engaged in “several inappropriate relationships” with women he met online though never in person, but said he was not resigning.

    I just knew this guy was lying!!!

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  4. lesson learned

    June 6, 2011 at 5:44 pm

    AR,

    This may help you further in understanding. Sometimes inflammatory words can lead to assumptions. Spaths do that too. 🙂

    It creates drama, thus directing us away from the subject at hand to the person throwing out the labels and inflammatory statements.

    I don’t mean to say that this was your intention, only to say that it could be read that way, thus the reason for my post 🙂

    LL

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  5. hens

    June 6, 2011 at 5:45 pm

    i luv my weiner ~!

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  6. lesson learned

    June 6, 2011 at 5:45 pm

    eb

    Actually, that’s very sad. He’s just newly married.

    I feel so sorry for his wife.

    LL

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  7. lesson learned

    June 6, 2011 at 5:46 pm

    Hens

    ROFLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUCH A DICHOTOMY! LOL! OMG I THINK I”M SPLITTING! LOL

    I LOVE MY WIENER TOO! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

    LL

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  8. Louise

    June 6, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    mefree:

    Good for you!! I feel for you!!! A lot of us are the opposite on here it seems…American women with British men. I will pray for you!!!!!

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  9. Louise

    June 6, 2011 at 5:48 pm

    LL:

    I know, very sad. We don’t know if he’s an spath, but just one more man in politics and the power. I did not know he was newly married. Yes, I feel sorry for his wife 🙁

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  10. adamsrib

    June 6, 2011 at 5:51 pm

    Hens you r right about politics and religion but sometimes it helps to know that just because we don’t agree we can still be friends and respect each other. I love LL and KD and Constantine ((((group hug)))) 🙂 and this thread has helped us to know each other better. But I get what you are saying….bye Hens… 🙂

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