John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.
He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.
A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.
Risks vs. rewards
WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:
The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”
Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.
Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.
More power, more adultery
Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.
Time also described forthcoming research:
A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.
Type T Personality
Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?
In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.
Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985. In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.
At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:
Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.
Incomplete explanations
All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.
Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.
But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.
eb,
I don’t know either, but when a man gets on CNN and does an interview with Wolf Blitzer and LIES to him and the American people the way he did? Um, he could be just a tad bit spathy 🙂
Just a guess.
LL
What is with these jerks sending pics of p’s? What woman is impressed and says oh boy, i wanna meet him now that I’ve seen his wille? the logic is totally over my head.
LL I have been questioned before as to whether I am a spath. I think we all have at one time or another. I am to the point where it does not bother me anymore. We are all PTSD and we get triggered. Took me a while to realize that goes on at LF.
Thanks for your explanation LL You rock 🙂
Hens, bawhahahha Wish I could say I love mine too!! But I don’t have one…yet…ROTFL with LL 🙂
Katy,
Well, I have yet to hear women that received them complaining…that is until they find out about one another 🙂
LL
RE: Rep. Weiner (snort lol) Well another one bites the dust. I watch CNN on occasion but I cannot stomach how that former Gov. Spitzer dude ended up with his own show. What a crock!!
LL,
Oh, I thought that’s how he got reported. B/c someone objected to receiving his “package”.
I’m with KD. That sounds like a really crazee thing to do. I’d rather see his face first then decide if I want to see his willie…. 🙂
Katy,
I’m not really sure about that. From what I understand there was not objection to the package they received, at least one of them anyway.
AR. you’d be surprised how many men enjoy sending pics of their willies. I’m not kidding.
LL
I notice all these guys have to do is say they are now reformed. That’s what Spitzer says. That’s what my husband now says. My husband was excused for a lot but when the magnitude of his behavior became public, he pulled back, got himself a woman who HELPED him be true to his morals. and now everyone forgives him b/c they love a redeemed man.
however, no one notices that he’s still immoral/unethical/lying/scamming in his divorce and STILL continues his shunning/abandonment of his daughter (oops the only other one who KNOWS what life was truly like in the HOME), and btw still cheating on his NEW woman who SAVED him (b/c as we all know, a good woman heals a bad man. He was only bad towards his wife b/c she was NOT a good woman.)
I predict that Arnold will come back having “redeemed” himself.
Katy,
How do you know all of this about your ex?
Knowing he’s still indulging his snarky behaviors….do you not feel somewhat validated in what you hear?
I think spaths eventually give themselves enough rope to hang themselves with. They can’t stay true to not only one woman, but one belief system either.
LL