John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.
He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.
A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.
Risks vs. rewards
WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:
The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”
Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.
Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.
More power, more adultery
Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.
Time also described forthcoming research:
A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.
Type T Personality
Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?
In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.
Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985. In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.
At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:
Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.
Incomplete explanations
All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.
Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.
But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.
LL does that have to do with them not feeling powerful so they have to prove their willie or is is because they are exhibitionists. What is it about those men that do that? Maybe they are pervs, spaths?
Katy,
But isn’t that typical of spaths? They’re human chameleons. They just morph into something else and ouila! Reformed, redeemed!
Barf.
LL
Haha! My X spath also loved to send texts of his p!! The OW told me he sent one to her. What a jerk. He must be really proud of it. Big sigh.
I watched that interview that Weiner gave DENYING he had done it…yep, must be an spath. Anyone that can lie like that isn’t Mister Rogers…
AR,
It’s a power thing for them. ANYTHING having to do with sexual deviancy has a tint of “spath” to it.
but it’s power. They do it because they CAN and they don’t bother to think they’ll be caught. And when they do they lie
Oh and then of course, they seek redemption as quickly as possible, all fake of course. I’m always amazed at how fast their redemptions take place LOL
Typical.
LL
KD seems to me YOU know what he is up to and that is enuf for you to stay away from him. I agree with LL he is going to hang himself.
This notion of redemption is so cock-eyed (no pun, haha) 🙂 . There are all kinds of people in prisons who are now claiming they saw the light and they are the same cons they always were just with a new con: redemption.
He’ll get his KD..his new woman is just another cog in his artillery. You deserve someone very special!! 🙂
LL
How do I know? Since I am going through a divorce, my husband has to provide financial doc including bank statements and invoices. Hotels, plane tickets, car rentals show up. It’s a small town, 900 people. I actually know her, her kids, where she works. I know more about her than she knows about me. And during tax season she does NOT go on a vacation. That and the fact that the other woman boasted to her cousin about their trip on Facebook. This NEW woman has put her reputation on the line to stand up for my “redeemed” husband. I stay silent. I’m not giving her any heads up until my divorce is final. She knows some of what he did to me so it’s not like she didn’t get warned.
gotta go guys. I sure have enjoyed hanging out with you. Can’t wait for Oxy to get back. She’s gonna boink me good!! 🙂
well sue me but I wouldnt mind seeing the lewd photos he sent – btw I am a single gay male with no social life..
Anybody think Wiener’s denial sounded like Bart Simpson (or like slick willie)? Look in that camera and say “I didn’t do it. Nobody can say I did. I was framed.” GULP.
Hens. Maybe that was the problem. Package not special. Looked like a sock rolled up.