John Edwards has joined the parade. The former North Carolina senator and presidential candidate was indicted last week for using campaign contributions to keep his mistress and their baby in hiding during his 2008 run for the White House.
He follows former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, who admitted fathering a child with a member of his household staff, and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, who had to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund after he allegedly tried to rape a hotel maid in New York City.
A lot of people are asking, why do they do it? Why are these rich, powerful men willing to chance ruining everything they have achieved for momentary pleasure? Psychology researchers have come up with several answers.
Risks vs. rewards
WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina, interviewed Scott Huettel, associate professor of neuroscience at Duke University, about the Edwards case. Huettel studies how the brain weighs risks and rewards. According to WRAL:
The brain, he says, asks this question when making a decision: “Is what I’m going to receive from this better than what I have now?”
Short-term gains often win, while long-term consequences are discounted, Huettel said.
Factors such as wealth and power do not often correlate with a higher cost on risk, Huettel added. In other words, those who have the most are often willing to risk the most.
More power, more adultery
Time Magazine took this argument further. Not only do powerful men tend to assess risk differently than the rest of us, but they are also surrounded by enablers who have an interest in keeping the powerful person in power, and help cover up the indiscretions.
Time also described forthcoming research:
A study set to be published in Psychological Science found that the higher men or women rose in a business hierarchy, the more likely they were to consider or commit adultery. With power comes both opportunity and confidence, the authors argue, and with confidence comes a sense of sexual entitlement.
Type T Personality
Then there’s Frank Farley, a psychologist and professor at Temple University, and former president of the American Psychological Association. He’s come up with what the calls the “Type T Personality.” In response to the Schwarzenegger story, he recently wrote an opinion piece in the Los Angeles Times entitled, What makes politicians stray?
In my view the factor most responsible for philandering in public officials is a predisposition for risk-taking, which also happens to be an essential quality for politicians. My label for it is the “Type T personality,” with the “T” standing for thrill.
Farley has been discussing his theory of thrill seeking for quite awhile. He was quoted in a Time Magazine article back in 1985. In 2006, Farley was interviewed about his theory when Ben Roethlisberger, the Super Bowl quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, went riding a motorcycle without a helmet, was hit by a car and suffered serious head injuries.
At that time, the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette wrote:
Dr. Farley divides risk takers into Type T positives — inventors, entrepreneurs, explorers — and Type T negatives — compulsive gamblers, criminals, people who engage in unsafe sex.
Incomplete explanations
All of these theories strike me as partially accurate, but incomplete, explanations for the sexual misbehavior of powerful men. Yes, the brain may find rewards now more appealing than consequences later, but certainly more is involved in behavior that has the potential to blow up everything an individual has worked for. A sense of sexual entitlement doesn’t explain this level of arrogant risk, and neither does the thrill factor.
Measuring psychopathy, however, may very well explain what is going on. Components of psychopathy include superficial charm, egocentricity, need for stimulation, deceit, lack of remorse, impulsivity, irresponsibility and promiscuity. Certainly all of these traits are factors in the egregious illicit affairs of powerful men.
But then we’d have to start using the “P” word in reference to politicians and titans of the business world. I’ll bet that a lot of people don’t want to do that.
Seriously though,
I feel so sorry for his new wife. How embarrassing this all is for her.
UGH!
I wonder how he’ll use to her help with his “redemption”
Barf.
LL
Yeah, and I read where it said they will NOT separate over this. I think she needs to separate from him just for a minute even if she doesn’t want to divorce him, but that’s just my opinion.
Joannie John Edwards is a power hungry NARCISSIST……AND SO IS ARNOLD i dont know slick willie…
Hens, Edwards is a spath. His wife is dying and he’s cheating on her. That speaks of NO EMPATHY at all and yet he’s able to come across as human. Only a spath does that.
Same with arnold. He cheated on the woman who defended him from accusers. Narcissists are not that two-faced. Narcissists think they are above it all and IT SHOWS. Spaths feel the same way but they know better and they hide it: the better to eat you with, my dear.
well whatever – I am calling them both Narcospaths – I hope Edwards get’s locked up with a 350lb bi-sexual named SirBubba…..
ROTFLMAO!!!
it couldn’t happen to a nicer guy!
hi my peeps. feeling dowwwwn. and disconnected from lf. i have written some longish posts here recently and gotten not a peep back. i know it’s because i am posting outside of whatever groove is going, and that i am here at ood hours, but it makes me want to cry.
and i just want to cry. period. i feel like things have just really piled up emotionally. i am feeling really dispirited around work. the new Executive Director has some kind of cognitive dysfunction of something (this is the guy who says he is a healed narc) and i am beyond anger (um, into rage) at the bs i see coming down the pipe. i did tell a board member of some of his gaffs last week. i think this guy had potential menace written all over him and i don’t think i can deal with it. the idea of cleaning up after him, or trying to divert his disasters or having my orgs. reputation messed with because of him pisses me right off. i was a caretaker for so long. now, now i would rather twist the chicken’s neck that clean up one piece of shit. (omg, that sounds like an oxyism – save me jayzus!)
so, i realize i will just keep notes, and maybe i can get him sacked with evidence.
i don’t even want to try, the whole thing looks like such a mess. i need positivity around me – just one person to be positive. and i feed on it. i am still not able create all my own; especially in the face of negativity. i feel like a cranky kid who should be in bed. i fear that tomorrow will feel no better.
in general i have been doing better – but there is a real trap in that for me – because i am projecting better and wanting to do more – but i can’t keep up with the things i want to/ do initiate….so i have to back off again. i need to do what i can and not take on more. I had a reallt nice day away yesterday and was at a conference today – and of course, stuff has piled up.
i was kinda hoping i would have a colleague – not someone who is going to fuck things up/ for me. i have taken on a side project also – and that guy hasn’t sent a contract as requested three weeks ago – so i just sent his partner an email saying i would give no more feedback until there was a memorandum of understanding – i can’t/ don’t want to deal with these people who think they can get something from me for nothing…even if the intention is to solidify things and be str8t up – i want CLEAR contracts before i give one more ounce of my brain power away. people are fucking irritating.
Onesteppers – Ya know what? You need to have a good cry. Sometimes I get triggered by a movie or something and the tears and sob’s just start, and I go with it, it mite just last a minute or two but I dont hold back, I think it is letting out some toxins or feeling’s I cant explain, so have a good cry.,, but I care about you…as for job I dont know what to say but sorry….
One Joy,
You know that a bunch of us love the heck out of you, It’s tough to be totally connected to so many people on the blog, all the time. It can be overwhelming.
we all do need someone to vent to and lean on. But that seems to be a scarce commodity these days. It seems like everyone runs out of patience with us or they act like, OK, I’ve done enough for you, it’s your turn to do for me. I can understand the sharing, but sometimes we aren’t quite finished venting. What people don’t realize is that if they would just let us get some relief, we could AND WOULD give back 100x what we’ve received because that is our nature. But we need our batteries recharged too.
There probably aren’t as many spaths as i sense are lurking in the bushes, but the number of selfish people is off the charts.
So, that said, please, take the weight of the world off your shoulders for the evening. kick your feet up and feel grateful thoughts because you, are you. You are a self-sufficient adult who has compassion and is on a unique journey of learning and self-discovery. even if you do live in interesting times.
I, for one, can’t wait to find out how we will turn out, One Joy!
one/joy:
I am so sorry if you have felt neglected. It’s not good especially when we are already feeling down.
I don’t know if this will make you feel better, but my two cents as far as work is this…it’s crap! I was in the corporate world for many years and always hated it. It was never “me.” Always fighting all the red tape, the rules, the bureaucracy. After 12 years at this huge company I was working for I had enough. I was already fed up with all the BS I had to put up with all the time and then the spath stuff came along and it did me in. So now I have been unemployed 10 months and finally thought, you know, I think I am ready to get a little part time job just for some extra money whatever so I get this job a few weeks ago and I am already seeing tons of red flags! Because I am so aware of things now, I can see that this is not great. I am thinking about quitting, but don’t want to give up so easily. They are asking me to do all kind of things I wasn’t hired to do, today I got a parking ticket because I had to park on the street instead of in the parking garage, I think the owner and the manager are dating, etc., etc.
Anyway, I say all this to let you know, I GET IT!!! It all is CRAP. I wish none of us had to work and put up with all this. I just don’t want to deal with it anymore and I can tell you don’t want to either. It’s daunting, it’s draining, it’s stressful. I don’t know what else to say, but know that we are all here for you, OK? 🙂