Jimmy Savile was one of the most well-know stars of British television. Everyone knew he was eccentric and many people apparently knew he was also a sexual predator who targeted young girls for decades.
Jimmy Savile scandal on BBC.co.uk.
‘If we blabbed on Jimmy, the family would have been left with nothing’: Savile’s abused great niece tells how paedophile DJ bought his relatives’ silence, on DailyMail.co.uk.
Britain’s Jimmy Savile abuse scandal: how could his crimes have gone unnoticed for so long? on WashingtonPost.com.
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KatyDid,
I am familiar with that outcome myself. The distortion campaign to ensure nothing I ever spoken of would be believed was very damaging to me. I would’ve rather not brought it up at all so I retained some control over the outcome. It’s a LIE that a child or adult should TELL. I see the ABUSE families in Family Court go through! It’s almost like a horrible voyeurist sick joke. The children and parent are treated as liars even with documented evidence and the whole bizarre ritualist affair tears their souls and what’s left of their lives apart.
People need to warn those who fall for the “tell someone” crap and let them KNOW the truth. You will be SHUNNED, CALLED A LIAR and if they cannot get you to shut up and your evidence is solid, they will finally BLAME YOU. That’s the reality unless it falls into the right hands. That’s as likely as winning the lotto in your state. Just my opinion and experience.
I see Dr. Phil publicly telling abuse victims to LEAVE, TELL SOMEONE for your childrens sake. I think “HOW IRRESPONSIBLE OF THIS MAN!!” He is so oblivious of reality someone should slap him. I wonder how many people have been killed following his advice. He started out touting CPS being a wonderful trustworthy organization. I notice he doesn’t do that anymore! He must’ve gotten schooled.
Eralyn,
I had a best friend. We were best friends b/c we knew each others pain. She was raped by her stepfather at age 12. Her next sister was raped on when she was 12. When the time came close for the next sister to be raped, we went to welfare and told.Their investigation consisted of asking her mom/stepfather if the girls were raped. No surprise that we were branded liars and homewreckers. This stepfather was lauded for marrying a mom with 6 daughters. My friend eventually married on her 16th birthday. Her sister was sent to girls state prison b/c stepfather said she was a druggie (she wasn’t). The rapes continued with EVERY GIRL. After the last daughter was raped, he left their mom for another younger woman, who you guessed it, had two daughters and last I knew, gave birth to another. All the younger sisters of my friend ended up drug addicts, suicide, tough little b’s. So sad we couldn’t get heard, b/c the social worker judged us. If they just asked the other sisters if they were terrified of him…. but no, welfare said they were too young to be questioned.
Dr Phil knows about alcoholics. He doesn’t know diddleysquat about sociopaths. He won’t go there. He’s dangerous b/c people listen and believe him, that there is good in everyone. Dr Phil withholds info that would save people from predators. As Oxy says, even Ted Bundy was a nice guy, when he wasn’t murdering someone. What Dr Phil fails to comprehend, is that even though people have SOME good in them, the good does not matter. When a wife is being beaten, the times when she is not being hit does not matter; it’s immaterial, just as it’s immaterial what a predator does when not raping children.
Louise,
That British accent. It does something to people. They assume quality, maybe b/c the accent seems to indicate someone so civilized? Except for cockneys of course. The worse is assumed of East Enders. OY!
Skylar,
I am impressed you are able to think LIKE spaths everywhere. I can predict spath2 and even spath1’s behaviors and outcomes. On the Balloon Boy, I wasn’t surprised he was in the closet where I think some people might even deny that as fact. I couldn’t have thought it though. With that said I obviously have some imbedded knowing of these types. When I watch a movie with my daughter, she doesn’t want me to open my mouth with my “guess” of what happens next as I am correct way more than not. Those are shows……. I just think Skylar, you have like a mathmatical mind of how they think and apply it to people where I have it by experience. You know the calculation of a problem and I seem to be missing some steps if that makes any sense.
KatyDid,
It makes me so angry how children are victimized! You and your best friend had an excellent plan but like we know it falls on what appears to be deaf ears. If they were so deaf though, why do they work so hard to destroy those who tell. They are listening and it’s not what they want to hear.
Dr. Phil is dangerous and the other one is Dr. Drew. I want to reach in the TV and slap both of them upside their heads! Wouldn’t it be great if we had a button at home and you could push the slap button! Then after enough people at home push slap, a big hand comes out of nowhere and smacks them right upside their dumb heads!! Lol !!! I would be so happy and they’d be doing more research!!! LOL
The comment made about Bundy, I have said to my mother. Somebody loved Bundy and saw good in him but look they FRIED HIS ARS! What does that tell ya? It’s like saying “your honor I only pluck a young child off their bike one day per year!! Look at the other 364 days!” “F” that! Better yet………..Don’t!!
Eralyn,
before I found out about spaths, a lot of people didn’t make sense to me. When I met evil people, I couldn’t understand their motivations because I didn’t know they were evil. I didn’t know what evil looked like. Their actions and words bothered me but I just brushed it off to people being kinda nutty or dumb. It didn’t affect me very much.
Movies were entertaining and always surprising, I couldn’t foresee what would happen next but it didn’t matter because it was just a movie.
As soon as the guy in the sushi bar explained spaths to me, my focus became riveted on learning everything I could. The patterns began to crystalize. Now I can see it everywhere, the need for drama, dominance, control, and the way they work in groups, how they recognize each other, the utter selfish entitlement that boggles the normal human mind. The malice. The envy and the bypassed shame that they try to slime us with.
When I finally saw all these things, I felt like the whole world had turned upside down. This stuff had been all around me my whole life and I had not seen any of it.
Well, actually, I had seen some of it, but I had misinterpreted it for things that made sense TO ME.
Now I can accept that some people will never make sense but that doesn’t mean they aren’t the way they are.
I’m not sure I can say that it is a mathematical process that helps me to “get” what they are. After I escaped the poster child for psychopathy, I realized that I know many many spaths. So it is experience that allows me to see the patterns. But even if you don’t know very many spaths personally, you can always watch the news, watch our political process and watch the financial sector news. It’s all the same drama. over and over again. Since the beginning of the human race.
As far as balloon boy’s dad, I could see in his behavior how much he needed attention from the media. That was the first red flag.
Eralyn,
I wanted to add that I think the reason I couldn’t see evil was because of fear. I didn’t WANT to see it.
Shortly after I first met spath, we were sitting in his apartment watching the evening news. The green river killer was still on the loose and the task force was following up leads on suspicious people and vehicles. The news reported that they were looking for an older blue (I think GMC) truck with a beige canopy and a primer spot on the passenger door. It was EXACTLY my spath’s truck! I froze in fear, pretended not to notice any connection and stared at the tv. I then told myself it was a coincidence. The next day spath sold his truck.
Well obviously he was not the GR killer but he is someone who picks up prostitutes and does something to scare them or he kills them or something.
Some 20 years later, I remember he called me and said that he had picked up a young girl who asked for a ride. He said she had no SHOES and he felt so sorry for her. Then he said that she wouldn’t say where they were going and finally he asked her to get out of the car but she wouldn’t and began to attack him, hitting and kicking him. He said, that he finally managed to get her out of the car but not before she kicked the windshield and broke it.
Of course, I tried to comfort him and tell him she was probably a prostitute and he should be more careful who he gives rides to. But thinking back, I realized something: he always drives a Geo where the passenger door latch is broken and YOU CAN’T GET OUT. He’s had 3 different Geo’s all with the same latch mechanism problem.
Then there was the bleach incident. His car stinks all the time so he finally decided to clean it. He took all the carpet and seats out and pressure washed it all with bleach solution. Removing evidence perhaps?
So, my point is, that there were many hints. But after I closed my eyes to the first one, I just kept going further and further down that slippery slope until I just COULDN’T open my eyes because the reality was more horrible than anything I could imagine.
Skylar,
I have also mistaken these people as “dorks” or “goofy” like the pastor of the church psycho was so in to. Pastor seemed to me (I had very little experience with churches) like a guy who loved to hear himself. Was overzealous in his bible teachings that seemed more evangelic and shouting sessions that made me laugh for his embarrassment. LOL He ends up being a minion for the psycho when the child custody case came about and helped psycho harm my life in an attempt to discredit me. He was investigated by his regulatory board after I filed a complaint against his psychology license and in the investigation, the “pastor/psychologist” did many fraudulent acts AND cared less for the damage he was attempting to do to a mom and child. He didn’t look so “goofy” anymore and looked more sinister. I also found out the Assembly of God civilly sued him.
That was one of my worst misjudgements of spath I think.
I was posting with 20years on the DSM article page and we were discussing my eyes slamming OPEN about government and corruption within it. How I cannot get rid of the knowledge I now have. She totally knows what I am talking about and she seems to have experienced people who may attempt to look inside say the “house of representatives” but after they are given knowledge they don’t want, like it’s all corrupt, they go away rationalizing it so as not to upset their own apple cart of life. Or they are like me and their eyes are SLAMMED OPEN which is exactly how I feel. I believe it’s the same bunch of crap with different actors on the stage……
Can’t scrub that brain to get it clean again once you know…
Skylar,
Your spath sounds like a serial “something”…….. The Geo having the same passenger side broken lock is very disturbing.
I cannot believe how many people would just like to think we are stars in our own “make believe lifetime movie” instead of being willing to entertain it’s truley happening. It offends my sensibilities to no end when someone who supposedly knows me would rather believe that then my truth. I once received a bar of “drama queen” soap and I wanted to shove it up the ars of the person who thought there was any humor in that. I still haven’t decided if this is a spath but she sure fits much criteria of one. It first hurt me but then it pissed me off.
Eralyn,
I know he kills men by sabotaging aircraft, but I can’t be sure what all he has done to women. I know he used date rape drugs because i found the bottle in my cabin, just a few weeks ago. And I know that his ex gf committed suicide and that he drove her to it. And i know that he had plans to kill me and make it look like suicide.
Oh wait, there was a woman pilot that I’m sure he sabotaged her plane. She and her husband were building a mansion on the island and spath began to fly his helicopter there to visit, very frequently. Then he would come home and talk about them all the time. About how in love they were and what a wonderful relationship they had. Then she and her niece were flying from the airport that spath kept his helicopter at and their engine quit and they died.
Then my spath neighbor, whom I now know is his minion, called me up. She said, “did you HEAR? Did you hear about xxx’s plane crashing? I used to BABYSIT her niece! Did you know them? blah blah blah.”
I have no idea why she would call me up and ask me if I knew someone whose plane had crashed. It was totally out of the blue, and no I didn’t know them, I never actually met them.
I think he is an equal opportunity murderer, but it’s possible that he just likes to abuse prostitutes, knowing that they lead miserable lives he probably lets them live.
The people I know he killed were wealthy, and decent people.
The drama queen soap was a projection or a “tell” IMO. You do not seem like a drama queen to me, judging from your posts, despite the drama that you’ve been subjected to. I wish you HAD shoved it up the ars of that person. They were trying to slime you and that’s what a spath does.
Yes I read your discussion with 20years and it made me feel so depressed that family court is filled with evil. But it makes sense too. Spaths are drama addicts. They grew up with drama in their families. When they go looking for more drama, family court is the familiar place to go play that game. And what better way to make sure they get to play than to be part of the court system?