• Menu
  • Skip to right header navigation
  • Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Lovefraud | Escape sociopaths – narcissists in relationships

How to recognize and recover from everyday sociopaths - narcissists

  • Search
  • Cart
  • My Account
  • Contact
  • Register
  • Log in
  • Search
  • Cart
  • My Account
  • Contact
  • Register
  • Log in
  • About
  • Talk to Donna
  • Videos
  • Store
  • Blog
  • News
  • Podcasts
  • Webinars
  • About
  • Talk to Donna
  • Videos
  • Store
  • Blog
  • News
  • Podcasts
  • Webinars

People will complain about drums, but not domestic violence

You are here: Home / Sociopaths and family / People will complain about drums, but not domestic violence

December 10, 2010 //  by Donna Andersen//  39 Comments

Tweet
Share
Pin
Share
0 Shares

A guy playing the drums in a Johannesburg townhouse complex drew complaints within minutes. The blood-curdling screams of domestic violence drew no reaction.

This was all shockingly documented in an online video released by a South African advocacy group, People Opposing Women Abuse (POWA).

Read Video test of domestic abuse awareness in South Africa gets more than 500,000 hits in DailyMail.co.uk.

Link supplied by a Lovefraud reader.

Category: Sociopaths and family

Previous Post: « It sometimes pays to act like a psychopath … sometimes not
Next Post: How to clarify your thinking about disordered personalities »

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Ox Drover

    December 21, 2010 at 2:05 pm

    Dear Hedidn’tbreakme,

    GOOD FOR YOU!!!!

    Resolve! Resolve!!! RE-SOLVE!!!!=SOLVE your problems.

    Log in to Reply
  2. pollyannanomore

    December 21, 2010 at 8:54 pm

    Awesome Hedidn’t – what a ploy to pull

    “Here feel – I have blood running through my veins so I’m not a psychopath.”

    WHAT A LOAD OF NONSENSE!!!! Psychopaths breathe and pump blood too – they just don;t hurt.

    My ex pulled that line as well “I hurt too – I just don’t show it like you do.”

    YEAH RIGHT! You don;t know what hurt is buddy! God help his next target – she has no idea what lies ahead.

    Log in to Reply
  3. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 21, 2010 at 9:48 pm

    Polly,
    God help his next target ”“ she has no idea what lies ahead.

    AMEN to that one!!!! I’v heard all the same kind of crap that everyone had posted. They stop at nothing to keep us in their “fantasy” land that I call the spider web. They wear the mask so well!

    Hedidntbreakme:
    Like posted above…DO NOT let hin know your dreams and what you want out of a partner! That was my mistake… I sang like a canary to him, when he asked me what i wanted, he was a friend of 12 yrs, didn’t know what he was up to!! BOY did I find out!
    Soimnotthecrazee1!

    Log in to Reply
  4. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    December 21, 2010 at 9:51 pm

    hedidn’tbreak me – i misread your line: “put your hands in my hands, i feel & I hurt too”

    at first i thought you said: “put your hands in my PANTS, i feel & I hurt too”-

    THAT made a lot more sense. 🙂

    Log in to Reply
  5. pollyannanomore

    December 21, 2010 at 9:54 pm

    One step bahahahahaha! I needed that today 🙂

    Put your hands in my pants !!!!!

    Log in to Reply
  6. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    December 21, 2010 at 10:20 pm

    🙂
    god love the laughing lovefraud posse!

    a couple of people made me laugh here today, also. it helps.

    i am so in the shit polly – the job has gone sideways in a really big way. i am holding it together and realize tonight, that i actually have the power in the situation. I CAN LEAVE. and tonight i decided that if it comes to that, i will do that. it’s not easy to find work here, but it would be impossible for them to replace me and get someone else up to speed fast enough.given that one of my biggest issues is time lines.

    i still feel very unnerved, but i feel the steal in my spine, too.

    Log in to Reply
  7. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 21, 2010 at 10:24 pm

    One,
    I see your sense of humor is coming out again tonight! I love it!!! LOLOLOLOL Where is EB with another bear story to laugh at? She would be the icing on the cake right now!! LOLOL
    ntcrze

    Log in to Reply
  8. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    December 21, 2010 at 10:51 pm

    umm, actually, that wold be the nog on the nozen, soimnotthecrazee1

    Log in to Reply
  9. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 21, 2010 at 11:25 pm

    One,
    Ok!!! LOLOLOL

    Log in to Reply
  10. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    December 21, 2010 at 11:32 pm

    you know, i can’t actually hear you laugh, but it makes me really happy to see your lol’s and !!!’s. 🙂

    Log in to Reply
« Older Comments
Newer Comments »

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

Primary Sidebar

Shortcuts to Lovefraud information

Shortcuts to the Lovefraud information you're looking for:

Explaining everyday sociopaths

Is your partner a sociopath?

How to leave or divorce a sociopath

Recovery from a sociopath

Senior Sociopaths

Love Fraud - Donna Andersen's story

Share your story and help change the world

Lovefraud Blog categories

  • Explaining sociopaths
    • Female sociopaths
    • Scientific research
    • Workplace sociopaths
    • Book reviews
  • Seduced by a sociopath
    • Targeted Teens and 20s
  • Sociopaths and family
    • Law and court
  • Recovery from a sociopath
    • Spiritual and energetic recovery
    • For children of sociopaths
    • For parents of sociopaths
  • Letters to Lovefraud and Spath Tales
    • Media sociopaths
  • Lovefraud Continuing Education

Footer

Inside Lovefraud

  • Author profiles
  • Blog categories
  • Post archives by year
  • Media coverage
  • Press releases
  • Visitor agreement

Your Lovefraud

  • Register for Lovefraud.com
  • Sign up for the Lovefraud Newsletter
  • How to comment
  • Guidelines for comments
  • Become a Lovefraud CE Affiliate
  • Lovefraud Affiliate Dashboard
  • Contact Lovefraud
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Meta

  • Register
  • Log in
  • Entries feed
  • Comments feed
  • WordPress.org

Copyright © 2025 Lovefraud | Escape sociopaths - narcissists in relationships · All Rights Reserved · Powered by Mai Theme