Dr. Robert Hare, who did seminal work in identifying psychopaths, refers to them as “intraspecies predators.” This prompted questions from a Lovefraud reader who asked,
- If psychopaths are indeed natural predators (by implication, their design is part of nature’s plan to maintain some balance) then would we ever be able to weed them out of society?
- Do they have a purpose in the natural order of things?
In this article, I’m going to address the second question. Then, next week, I’ll suggest an answer to the first question.
I don’t know about a purpose, but there are researchers who believe psychopaths are around us today because they survived the natural selection process of human evolution.
These researchers call psychopathy “a nonpathological, reproductively viable, alternate life history strategy.” This theory is outlined in Coercive and Precocious Sexuality as a Fundamental Aspect of Psychopathy, a paper published in 2007 by Grant T. Harris, PhD; Marnie E. Rice, PhD; N. Zoe Hilton, PhD; Martin L. Lalumiere, PhD; and Vernon L. Quinsey, PhD.
Evolution
Let’s talk about the evolution idea first. The authors write that our distant ancestors probably formed stable groups, characterized by cooperation and adherence to rules, which enabled early mankind to survive and flourish. However, some humans survived through cheating and exploiting others—the alternative life strategy.
Grant et. al. write that from childhood, psychopathic personalities are fundamentally different from others, but the differences are not the result of a medical failure or injury. They point out that pregnancy difficulties can be related to schizophrenia and mental retardation, but not psychopathy. “While many adverse medical conditions and injuries lead to antisocial and violent behavior, our selectionist hypothesis suggests that they do not cause psychopathy,” they write.
The early psychopaths—cheaters then as now—put a lot of energy into acquiring sexual partners, and were willing to use deception and coercion to do it. As a result, they produced a lot of offspring. Even if early psychopaths died young because then, as now, they probably engaged in high-risk behavior, their liberal procreation was enough to get the hereditary train rolling.
Sex and criminal behavior
Psychopaths first have sex at a young age, have many partners, and are uncommitted in sexual relationships. Studies show that people who have this approach to sex also are more likely to engage in criminal and violent behavior.
Some people, called life course persistent offenders, Grant et. al. write, “begin aggressive and antisocial conduct at very young ages and persist at rates higher than any other offenders throughout the lifespan.”
People tend to think that their problem is poor social learning, that individuals who break laws against crime and violence also break social norms regarding sex. But research has also shown that delinquency and antisocial behavior are associated with early onset of puberty and sexual activity. Young people don’t learn, or decide, when to mature sexually. So why is there a connection between early onset of puberty and crime?
The study
Grant et. al. believe that “coercive and precocious sexuality” is not a result of the psychopathic personality, but a key to defining it. For the study described in the paper, the researchers predicted “early onset, high frequency and coercive sexuality would be a key, unique and diagnostic feature of psychopathy.”
The researchers studied the case histories of 512 male sex offenders. (Sex offenders were selected because their files generally contain detailed information about their sexual history.) They established the scores of the offenders on the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R). They also looked at the sexual histories of the offenders prior to age 15. A statistical analysis revealed correlations between early and frequent sexual behavior and sexual coercion with general antisocial behavior and elevated PCL-R scores.
“We propose that interpersonal sexual and nonsexual aggression are not best conceived of as the consequence of psychopathic personality traits, but as fundamental aspects of the condition itself,” the authors wrote.
Genetic history
The researchers’ expected that coercive and precocious sexuality were indicators of psychopathy because of their original hypothesis—psychopathy is an alternative life strategy.
“From a theoretical perspective, the present results lend some support to a selectionist hypothesis that psychopathy exists because it has been a heritable and reproductively viable condition during human evolution.”
Psychopaths, in other words, are not physically defective or medically ill. These researchers believe that they are just different, and, because they engaged in a lot of sex, were able to pass on their genes through the millennia.
Read the complete study:
Coercive and Precocious Sexuality as a Fundamental Aspect of Psychopathy
They are what they are
It’s shocking to think that there may be nothing medically wrong with these “intraspecies predators.” But in a way, the idea that psychopaths are pursuing an “alternate life history strategy” dovetails with what we often say here on Lovefraud. Psychopaths are what they are. They are cheaters and exploiters. They take advantage of others because that’s what they do.
Did nature intend this? I don’t know, but they survived.
While researching this story, I came across another paper with an interesting perspective on what to do about it, which I’ll discuss next week.
hello kathy,
i’m absorbing this post and letting it marinate inside for a bit.
my mind goes in one direction, my emotions go another.
it’s like i’m at war with myself.
i got a text message from my ex-friend, he still calls me brother, he sent me the seether song “Fake it” i’m not sure what to make of it. he said this is ‘our song’.
i know it’s just to toy with me. but when you thought you knew someone so well, you just can’t help but puzzle over it all some. he says i shouldn’t take things so personally. to stop being a (unmentionable).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gy8HPSIFXEM
i feel a little weak today. i’m going to lick my wounds tonite. tomorrow is another day. a better day i hope.
Mike.
Autisticsouls:
What Kathy wrote is wonderful (THANKS KATHY!). And it is so very true….
You are in a position to teach. We are NOT all the same, and we DO NOT all think, see or view the same either.
RE: your ex friend…..I would suggest a continuation of being an EX friend and ignore what this person is trying to control you with. “our song’ means….he’s the fake in the ‘relationship…….
Take it for what it is….mean and nasty and controlling and ignore this person.
Your emotions will have alot to do with your day to day ‘health’…..so protect your emotions and allow yourself to be strong and not downtrodden!
Have a nice weekend…..
Mike, I’m sorry you’re having a hard day.
I just want to respond to your last post.
I suspect that you’re ex-friend isn’t toying with you, as much as trying to solve a problem for himself. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s in trouble at work, because you left.
However, being a guy who has no compassion for other people’s feelings and who thinks it’s perfectly normal to pretend to be what he’s not, he’s urging you to be the same. For him, it would be a wonderful solution if you decided that you were being stupid to have your feelings, and showed up smiling telling everyone it was your fault for being too sensitive. In fact, it would be a double win. Because he’d get out of trouble, and he would have the pleasure of knowing that he controlled your behavior and got you to do what he wanted.
All that is about him, him, him.
And he’d like it if you wanted to please him, and spent a lot of time thinking about his opinions, and even got upset when he made fun of you. He’s that kind of guy. It’s all about him.
The only way to fight this kind of person is to make it about you. We have a little saying here that sometime you have to be a sociopath to deal with a sociopath. And we don’t mean that you turn into a terrible person. But you do turn into a completely self-centered and unfeeling person in dealing with them. Because it’s the only way to deal with them.
You will never get what you want from them, unless you’re prepared to pay three times what it’s worth. But you can have a satisfying life if you stop caring about them or trying to get anything from them, and just focus on things that give you satisfaction. This is your life. It’s about you.
With nicer people, you can be nicer.
So do yourself a favor and ignore the text. Don’t worry about what it meant. Don’t try to figure out if there is anything there for you to learn. Just classify it as coming from an untrustworthy source, and assume it’s a lie. Whatever it is, it’s a lie. Light a mental match and burn it.
But don’t erase it. Because ther day may come when you need it for evidence. With sociopaths, it’s always a good idea to keep records. You never know when they’ll come in handy.
I hope you have a nice and restful evening.
Kathy
And thanks, Erin, for the kind words. I’m feeling a little out there myself today. Had a “new” old issue come up this week, a real doozy. One of those denial-cracks out of nowhere that explains ten different layers of stuff and I can’t even see the bottom of. I’m at the handwringing stage of looking at myself and going, no, no, I really wasn’t like this. If you give me a minute, I can fix this if I just do this or that. Hopefully it doesn’t take me too longer for the conveyor belt to drop me into anger, so I can figure out WTF.
I HATE early-stage processing. Hate the hating myself part. Hate the feeling stupid part. Hate the feeling victimized by myself part. Whine, whine.
I’m ready, Lord. Please show me something to be angry about.
kathy,
having your intelligence, openess to risk, and own complex nature used against you is worth being angered for.
props,
one step
Thanks, sweetie. You couldn’t have said a better thing. Yanked that conveyor belt right over to the correct furnace.
Have you considered becoming a therapist?
Kathy
only for cats.
🙂
Funny woman.
Seems like tough work. Though I could imagine it more easily the other way around.
The long inquiring stare…
Hehehehehe……………
🙂
Mike,
I read an article here about an excellent way to deal with behaviors such as your “friend’s” behavior. It’s one line:
“What do you mean by that?” It puts the responsibility back on them to explain their behavior. I have been practicing with this line mostly on another internet site I belong to. The internet is the perfect place to practice these things because people can sometimes be so nasty hiding behind the anonymity of their keyboard. I find that when I have used this line, one of two things happen: The person disappears (presumably not wanting to answer for their bad behavior) or they actually explain what they meant and we reach an understanding. If their explanation is still rude to me, I will say something like: “You seem to be uncomfortable with the way I am.” Again, this puts the responsibility squarely back on them.
I have a co-worker I’ve known for 7 years, and I’m starting to see that she is often judgmental toward me (I’m just figuring this out.) I told her the other day that I disagreed with the way our supervisor did something. Her response was, “Oh but Sherri if you were there, you would have agreed with it.” I argued, “No, I disagree with it philosophically.” She continued to argue with me. Finally I just said something like, “You seem to need me to have the same opinions you do.” She didn’t have a response for that, but I felt much better afterward, because prior to that, she had totally invalidated me. I was starting to feel angry until I just basically handed her narcissism back to her.
I read about a similar technique in a book called “Safe People”. It said if you have to deal with a narcissist like my friend above, you can learn to just deflect their statements back to them. Example: They say, “You were wrong for doing such and such. ” You say, “Hmmm. You are judging me for doing such and such.” That way you will not take in the negative energy, but rather, give it back to them.
I don’t know if this will make sense to anyone.