Dr. Robert Hare, who did seminal work in identifying psychopaths, refers to them as “intraspecies predators.” This prompted questions from a Lovefraud reader who asked,
- If psychopaths are indeed natural predators (by implication, their design is part of nature’s plan to maintain some balance) then would we ever be able to weed them out of society?
- Do they have a purpose in the natural order of things?
In this article, I’m going to address the second question. Then, next week, I’ll suggest an answer to the first question.
I don’t know about a purpose, but there are researchers who believe psychopaths are around us today because they survived the natural selection process of human evolution.
These researchers call psychopathy “a nonpathological, reproductively viable, alternate life history strategy.” This theory is outlined in Coercive and Precocious Sexuality as a Fundamental Aspect of Psychopathy, a paper published in 2007 by Grant T. Harris, PhD; Marnie E. Rice, PhD; N. Zoe Hilton, PhD; Martin L. Lalumiere, PhD; and Vernon L. Quinsey, PhD.
Evolution
Let’s talk about the evolution idea first. The authors write that our distant ancestors probably formed stable groups, characterized by cooperation and adherence to rules, which enabled early mankind to survive and flourish. However, some humans survived through cheating and exploiting others—the alternative life strategy.
Grant et. al. write that from childhood, psychopathic personalities are fundamentally different from others, but the differences are not the result of a medical failure or injury. They point out that pregnancy difficulties can be related to schizophrenia and mental retardation, but not psychopathy. “While many adverse medical conditions and injuries lead to antisocial and violent behavior, our selectionist hypothesis suggests that they do not cause psychopathy,” they write.
The early psychopaths—cheaters then as now—put a lot of energy into acquiring sexual partners, and were willing to use deception and coercion to do it. As a result, they produced a lot of offspring. Even if early psychopaths died young because then, as now, they probably engaged in high-risk behavior, their liberal procreation was enough to get the hereditary train rolling.
Sex and criminal behavior
Psychopaths first have sex at a young age, have many partners, and are uncommitted in sexual relationships. Studies show that people who have this approach to sex also are more likely to engage in criminal and violent behavior.
Some people, called life course persistent offenders, Grant et. al. write, “begin aggressive and antisocial conduct at very young ages and persist at rates higher than any other offenders throughout the lifespan.”
People tend to think that their problem is poor social learning, that individuals who break laws against crime and violence also break social norms regarding sex. But research has also shown that delinquency and antisocial behavior are associated with early onset of puberty and sexual activity. Young people don’t learn, or decide, when to mature sexually. So why is there a connection between early onset of puberty and crime?
The study
Grant et. al. believe that “coercive and precocious sexuality” is not a result of the psychopathic personality, but a key to defining it. For the study described in the paper, the researchers predicted “early onset, high frequency and coercive sexuality would be a key, unique and diagnostic feature of psychopathy.”
The researchers studied the case histories of 512 male sex offenders. (Sex offenders were selected because their files generally contain detailed information about their sexual history.) They established the scores of the offenders on the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R). They also looked at the sexual histories of the offenders prior to age 15. A statistical analysis revealed correlations between early and frequent sexual behavior and sexual coercion with general antisocial behavior and elevated PCL-R scores.
“We propose that interpersonal sexual and nonsexual aggression are not best conceived of as the consequence of psychopathic personality traits, but as fundamental aspects of the condition itself,” the authors wrote.
Genetic history
The researchers’ expected that coercive and precocious sexuality were indicators of psychopathy because of their original hypothesis—psychopathy is an alternative life strategy.
“From a theoretical perspective, the present results lend some support to a selectionist hypothesis that psychopathy exists because it has been a heritable and reproductively viable condition during human evolution.”
Psychopaths, in other words, are not physically defective or medically ill. These researchers believe that they are just different, and, because they engaged in a lot of sex, were able to pass on their genes through the millennia.
Read the complete study:
Coercive and Precocious Sexuality as a Fundamental Aspect of Psychopathy
They are what they are
It’s shocking to think that there may be nothing medically wrong with these “intraspecies predators.” But in a way, the idea that psychopaths are pursuing an “alternate life history strategy” dovetails with what we often say here on Lovefraud. Psychopaths are what they are. They are cheaters and exploiters. They take advantage of others because that’s what they do.
Did nature intend this? I don’t know, but they survived.
While researching this story, I came across another paper with an interesting perspective on what to do about it, which I’ll discuss next week.
Mike, I love to see those pictures. My e-mail address is on the author’s page.
I know what you mean about the emotions. They’re noisy too. My son, who may be Aspergers, has taught me to speak what I feel calmly, rather than emoting it, because it’s so “loud” to him. And it’s actually good for me to find the calm words, rather than act out with a lot of body language.
I felt for you when I read you’re earlier post about the bullying. That’s what a relationship with a sociopath is like, in many ways, except played out in longer time. But it’s doubly hard for a child in school. Hard to find a way to stand up for yourself. Hard to find anyone you can trust to help you. Some people just implode. I’m glad you didn’t.
Yes, some of our posts are pretty raw. Des calls us everyday people, but we sometimes call ourselves empaths. We have lots of social feelings and we express them a lot. On this site, we are also very free in our speech with each other. We say things in ways that wouldn’t be safe for us to say to just any person out in the everyday world.
And Erin herself is a warrior queen. (Forgive me Erin for talking about you in third person.) She has won court battles with sociopaths, and she gives us information and inspiration about standing up for ourselves and fighting back.
You wrote about yourself, about deciding to be who you are and succeed in that. That sounds good. Are you a
reader? I have a book I recommend to anyone who is trying to understand people and themselves, and how to communicate effectively, especially in the business environment. It’s called “Strategy of the Dolphin.”
It has a lot of models of human types, and human development in it. But the first one is about sharks and carps. Sharks are addicted to winning. Carps are addicted to being loved. If carps and sharks interact, you know who the food is. And then they talk about a third kind, the dolphin. (I always think about this when your child is mentioned.)
The dolphin, unlike the shark and carp, adapts to the requirements of circumstances. Under normal circumstances, the dolphin prefers to be carp-like — social and affectionate. But if a shark shows up, the dolphin easy moves into shark mode. If a shark tries to take a bite out of the dolphin, the dolphin takes a bite right back. Not to fight, but just to clarify for the shark that it’s not a carp. That’s called tit for tat. The theory is that the shark will swim off to find something easier to eat.
There’s a lot more in the book. Especially a model of human development that has been incredibly helpful to me. Lots of diagrams too. I thought you might like this since you intend to be a successful autistic person in the everyday world. It might help to have a mental model that can help you read everyday people. Where they are emotionally, what is most important to them, and how to talk with them.
That way you don’t have to compromise who you are to be effective with them. Everyday people are all about validation. Well, I guess everyone is. But if we think you understand us, you’re halfway home.
I think you can find used copies of this book very cheaply on Amazon. I believe it’s been out of print for a while, but you can still find it there.
It’s been nice meeting you. I’m off to bed now.
Kathy
Mike:
I want to thank you and Des for sharing your journies with us…..
I have been touched reading your posts.
How ironic is it, that I too, feel overwhelmed by both of your experiences and have not responded because I don’t know what to say…..NOT often I am speechless!! 🙂
When I read your posting about your childhood, it resonates with me and one of my sons experiences….He was dignosed ADHD and it not flourishing in school…..his father has set up kids to bully him in exchange for drugs and honor to the S father. It’s sick, as kids have a hard time in life as teens as is….and to live with all he has just exasterbates issues.
He too is quite in tune with sociopathic behaviors…..but for him( unlike your childhood)….today….it does have a name.
My heart sinks when I hear bullying stories from anyone….I want to call in Uncle Bubba and counter control and bully back for justice!!! But, as I have said…..those people will never get ahead in life….and it’s a deep rooted shame and evil that provokes them to pick on innocent people.
I know very little about autism. As I have been studying Cluster B’s for the past several years….This may be why I have also not posted….but I do find your posts intriguing and I will be looking more into autism and issues surrounding what you have lived and continue.
I admire you both for jumping over the hurdles of living in a group and venturing out into a family unit. It takes courage to go against the norm of society and for that……I commend you both!!!
I want to tell you….and appologise if my posts you find upsetting. I am a say it like it is kinda gal…..I was stiffled for so long that I refuse to hold it in now…..LF is a ‘safe’ environment for me and I believe if anyone can take anything from my life…..well…..don’t keep it secret EB.
I can be very blunt in regards to the S. and my experiences.
It’s been a painful 28 years and to know my kids suffer and I can’t ‘change’ that is hard.
It’s my style and I mean no offense to anyone. I am passionate about standing up for what is right and protecting ourselves and kids…..
As kathleen wrote, I was successful in my fight to save assets and protect my kids from their abusive father, through the legal system and I came out of the fight on top.
I will not allow myself to be run down another minute and I fought like hell!!! The experience had brought out the fiesty in me.
I know I am no different than anyone else, and I live the empowerment of kicking a S’s ass in court…..I believe, if one wishes to do it….it can be done…..but there is a ‘recipe’ of sorts.
That’s my journey and wishes for anyone wishing to change things…..find the strength and empower yourself….and once you enter the ring…..you don’t exit until the fight is over!
My kids and I will be okay, it’s a time to heal a journey to ‘us’.
I wish you and Des and your little dolphin well and thank you for continuing to share your journey.
XXOO
EB
Kathy:
“We say things in ways that wouldn’t be safe for us to say to just any person out in the everyday world. ”
Oh….so I shouldn’t be talking like this out in the ‘world’ too??
OOOPS!
Somebody shut me up!!
Luv ya darling!
Hey Erin – We can delete ourselves now. So shut yourself up….hugz 🙂 gnite
DEE L E T E…….
goodnight darlen!
O Lord, did I stick my foot in my mouth again? Sweetie, you can say whatever you want, and I’ll cheer you on.
I shoulda joined the navy!!!!
One step,
Did you mean Lena Olin, who was in The Unbearable Lightness of Being? Or is there one named Nina Olen?
I get to go in to work an hour late today because I have a late meeting tonight. I wouldn’t mind this office job if it weren’t for all the pretender people as autisticsouls would say (thanks, autisticsouls–I love that expression). One of my bosses is such a pretender person. She acts very excited to see me, but when I am warm and authentic with her, she then puts up a wall and becomes very phony, which is insulting. I honestly don’t know why people just can’t be real and take down the facades. Then we could all form real relationships at work and that would help us get our jobs done more easily. It seems so much of my energy at work is spent managing my reactions to defensive and judgmental people at work. Fortunately, there are some very nice people there, too, and they make it easier to be there. My other bosses are very kind and warm-hearted people. I sometimes find I am just ignoring certain people, not even making eye contact with them when I pass them in the halls, because over time they have just been so nasty. It is really out of my character to behave like that, and so I don’t like what I become when I’m around these people. But it’s just hard to be around them and have an office near them. I’ve worked in many different work environments, and people seem to be the same everywhere.
erinbrock, don’t ever censure yourself. i prefer authenticity and genuineness over everything else.
you are very in touch with your emotions, i am uncomfortable of my own and block them out. i disassociate and dissconnect from them too much it’s part of my condition. but i am trying to compensate things. no man is an island. and i am a father. we go to attachment parenting class because i was afraid my child would lack nurturing. so i learned to hold her alot, i hated touching, was uncomfortable with it. i didn’t have sex until i was 24 because the whole concept of it repulsed me. but i got over it some.
Babies need to be held alot. so i wore my kid around alot. after a bit you get used to it. and i can hug and kiss people now. not everyone though. i’ve got to prepare myself for something like that.
i think the best way to describe me is if you have ever watched Star Trek, you as a neurotypical human can best be described in relations to Star Trek as Captain Kirk, the human, I as an Aspie, an indivdual diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome, can be described as Spock the Vulcan, Vulcan’s have a tendency to being emotionally detached and logical.
The psychopaths can best be described as Romulans. the Romulans are manipulative, cunning, and opportunistic.
the Vulcan Principal is:
“Logic is the cement of our civilization with which we ascend from chaos using reason as our guide…”
I wish i lived on Vulcan, or that it was actually real.
Mike
Star – yes, you are correct. i type too fast and invert things. 🙂 i don’t remember her in the incredible lightness of being, and my point of reference for inclusion i the spathslayer movie is based on her work in Romeo is Bleeding.