“A victim of crime shall be treated with fairness, compassion and respect by the criminal justice system.” So states the Crime Victims Constitutional Amendment, added to the state of New Jersey constitution in 1991.
New Jersey also has a 14-point Crime Victims Bill of Rights (NJS 52:4B-36), which expands upon the constitutional amendment. Among its provisions, crime victims and witnesses are entitled to:
- Be treated with dignity and compassion by the criminal justice system.
- Be informed about the criminal justice process.
- Have inconveniences associated with participation in the criminal justice process minimized to the fullest extent possible.
The Bill of Rights sounds good, but it hasn’t done much for Trish Rynn, formerly of Ocean City, New Jersey. She was scammed by a seasoned con artist, Dennis SanSeverino, and now feels she is being further victimized by the New Jersey courts. It is a classic case of Legal Abuse Syndrome.
Con artist pleads guilty
Dennis SanSeverino took Rynn’s home, cleaned out her inheritance and left her with credit card debt. Rynn went to the police, and the Cape May County Prosecutor’s office, to its credit, investigated. They determined that the money SanSeverino took from Rynn added up to $318,240. Although he was originally charged with theft by deception, a second-degree crime, he pleaded down to theft by illegal retention, a third-degree crime.
On August 26, 2006, SanSeverino was sentenced to five years probation and ordered to pay restitution of $275,000. Judge Carmen Alvarez ordered him to pay $1,000 per month for six months, and then increase payment to $2,000 per month. He was barred from entering casinos and ordered to get treatment for gambling addiction.
According to the Press of Atlantic City, SanSeverino’s lawyer requested lower payments, citing his client’s lack of employment. Judge Alvarez didn’t buy it. “I find his unemployment status to also be a con,” she said. “If you violate probation, there’s no question in my mind I will incarcerate you.”
But then SanSeverino was convicted of bouncing two $25,000 checks at an Atlantic City casino and sent to jail. He was sentenced to 270 days, but only served 66 days.
Still, it was enough for the judge to temporarily reduce the monthly restitution. She ordered SanSeverino to pay $6,000 by October 2007.
By the deadline, SanSeverino had paid $5,700, Trish Rynn says. A violation of probation hearing was scheduled for that month, and Rynn, confident that Judge Alvarez would take action, did not attend.
But Judge Alvarez was no longer on the case—she’d been promoted. There was a new judge, Raymond Batten, and the hearing was postponed. And somehow, the nature of the hearing was changed from a violation of probation to a request to reduce restitution.
Lovefraud publishes case study
The victim, Trish Rynn, was understandably upset. She believed SanSeverino was hiding money. After all, a few weeks before pleading guilty in Rynn’s case, the con artist had sold two homes, valued at $865,000, for $45,000. Then, two weeks after being released from jail, he bought them back for $1 each.
SanSeverino’s violation of probation hearing was rescheduled for February 7, 2008. Three days before it, Lovefraud published the True Lovefraud Story about Dennis SanSeverino. It detailed the money the con artist took from Trish Rynn, along with his real estate scams.
After publication of Lovefraud’s story, SanSeverino’s court date was postponed until February 15, 2008. Then the hearing was moved up to February 14, 2008. Rynn not notified—she only found out when she called to verify the date. By that time, it was too late for her to arrange to take the day off from work so she could testify. Rynn requested a postponement.
Hearing moved up again
The violation of probation hearing was rescheduled for March 28, 2008, then moved up to March 26, 2008. Again, Trish Rynn was not notified, and only found out when she called to check a week before the originally scheduled date. She immediately called Cape May County Assistant Prosecutor Meghan Hoerner, who prosecuted the original case against SanSeverino. According to Rynn, Hoerner said the date might change yet again, and that it might be heard by a different judge. The prosecutor promised to call Rynn with updated information. For days, Rynn heard nothing. Then Hoerner left a message the day before the hearing, which Rynn did not receive, stating that it was on.
But Rynn had already called the Cape May County Office of Victim Witness Advocacy at 4 p.m. on March 25, and had already learned that the hearing was indeed scheduled for the next day before a new judge. Rynn immediately called the new judge’s chambers and spoke to his assistant, asking for permission to be heard on the matter. Permission was granted.
No more advocacy
For some reason, this seemed to infuriate Assistant Prosecutor Meghan Hoerner. The day of the hearing, right before Rynn was to leave for the two-hour drive to Cape May Court House, she received an irate phone call from Hoerner. Because Rynn had spoken to the judge, the assistant prosecutor said, the case would not be heard. It would be rescheduled—perhaps for April 30, 2008.
Furthermore, Rynn says Hoerner told her that she could no longer speak to the Office of Victim Witness Advocacy. She would be advised of the new court date by mail. Rynn was actually glad to hear this, because she’d never received any notification by mail.
The next day, Rynn called the Office of Victim Witness Advocacy to confirm the new hearing date. According to the its website, the services provided by office include “information on the status and disposition of the case in which you are involved.” But sure enough, the advocates refused to speak to her.
Notification did not arrive in the mail. And while the hearing date kept changing, Rynn was receiving a pittance of restitution from Dennis SanSeverino. Instead of paying $2,000 per month as originally ordered, the con artist was paying just $100—when he got around to paying at all.
Letter campaign
Disappointed and angry, Rynn sent a 12-page letter to the New Jersey Attorney General, the U.S. Attorney for New Jersey, the Cape May County Prosecutor, various New Jersey legislators, women’s advocacy organizations and media outlets. She told the entire story, including the fact that Assistant Cape May County Prosecutor Meghan Hoerner instructed the Office of Victim Witness Advocacy not to speak to her.
“The defendant, Dennis SanSeverino, has managed to play with our legal system because he can,” Rynn wrote. “And quite frankly, I no longer want to hear people within the system say that it is a ‘failed system’ and ‘it is what it is.’ That is having no integrity. Taking the loser’s way out—we need to fight for our rights! ”¦ While the prosecutor’s office gets their win and Dennis SanSeverino gets his win, the victim is the loser! That is just not acceptable to me and should be the same for all of you whom I am addressing here. For the whole of America! Our legal system has no integrity because the leaders within our system are out of integrity!”
Rynn got some responses. One northern New Jersey legislator called her and asked her why she didn’t get a lawyer. (Hello? Because she had no money!) A representative of New Jersey Senator Jeff Van Drew, who represents Cape May County, called and said the senator would send a letter to the attorney general on Rynn’s behalf. He would also look into sponsoring legislation.
Passing bad checks
In mid-April, Rynn checked blog comments related to the 2006 news story about Dennis SanSeverino’s sentencing. Much to her surprise, she found a comment from “MPM” in Sewell, New Jersey. “Dennis is a new tenant of mine and always behind in rent. Any suggestions?” MPM wrote.
Rynn posted information about SanSeverino’s upcoming violation of probation hearing. Then MPM wrote, “He also wrote a check with NSF – Fidelity Investments.”
The check had apparently been drawn on the investment account that SanSeverino had conned from Rynn. He’d wiped out the account years earlier, so it seemed that SanSeverino knowingly passed a bad check. Which is illegal.
Rynn called the Cape May County Prosecutor’s Office and asked to speak to the investigator who originally worked on the case. She wanted to inform him about the bad check. The investigator had previously told Rynn that SanSeverino was seen in the Harrah’s casino in Chester, Pennsylvania.
By going into the casino, SanSeverino violated the terms of his probation. And by passing a bad check, he committed a crime, which also violated his probation. Maybe this, Rynn thought while she waited on hold, would be enough to get SanSeverino put in jail.
The receptionist came back on the phone and said that, per instructions from Meghan Hoerner, the investigator would not speak to her.
The landlord, in the meantime, will be in court on May 1, 2008, to begin eviction proceedings against Dennis SanSeverino and the woman with whom he is living.
Nothing left to lose
So Rynn has continued to write letters. She sent them to the investigator, Judge Raymond Batten and yes, Meghan Hoerner.
“I don’t understand why they’re keeping information from me, not letting me speak to anyone and hiding court dates from me,” Rynn said to Lovefraud. “I should have a right to know. I think it’s just terrible.
“I care about what’s right, and I feel that the things I’ve pieced together make me sure something is wrong,” she continued. “I’m just going to tell it like it is and let the cards fall where they may. I have nothing to lose. I’ve lost already.”
Dennis SanSeverino’s violation of probation hearing is scheduled for Wednesday, April 30 at 1:30 p.m. in the Cape May County courthouse. At least, it is for now.
A request for comment sent via e-mail to the Cape May County Prosecutor, Robert Taylor, received no response.
Anneka,
You need a lawyer…You may have been depressed and with anxiety when your father died…This man needs to be investigated….it sounds like he may have gotten legal guardianship over your estate….I would get a lawyer first….call a criminal law firm and make sure it is a firm….because through my experience they are more organized and together and that is what you want….if they cannot help you ask them to refer you to a litigation attorney…..they should only take a % of what they win…..bring a strong friend with you if you need to! And go to 5-10 different attorneys if you have to….do not give up….get your answers….it is better to live knowing the truth! Believe me. To this day I have never been told what he did with the money he got from the sale of my house…..you think the investigators would tell me…no….I have to sue civilly…..and because there is no money left in his estate….they will not take it on a contingency basis (%) and I have to pay hourly….I just cannot afford it right now. I would love to have a proper judgement of what I truly lost which was closer to $800,000….because he doesn’t deserve to ever have anything in his name….and it would serve “some” justice…..to know he would always have to keep his money with someone else….because these people have to have control….when their money is in someone elses name they give up their control….plus what if that other person dies? where does the estate go then….maybe then I will get it….you just never know….this is God’s Land….I do alot of praying…but I don’t hope for money….I give it to my Father in heaven….and I have to be realistic about my life….It helps me to move on….I fight because it gives me my “life” back….I don’t count on the money….it took a long time for me to get to a place where I feel strong again….when I look back at the years that have gone by I see how much I have grown…you just have to keep doing for you….and part of gaining strength is to fight for your rights! And than do the daily things you need to do to be healthy again! I wish you all the luck and I will pray for you…when you hear the saying God helps those who help themselves…..that doesn’t mean helping yourself to other peoples estates….that means be proactive in your life….do not give up….be strong and expect justice….you may not get it all the time…the way you want to….but it does come! Because there is a higher court. I am a Reiki/massage therapist….I suggest you find someone who does Reiki in your area….find a master to work on you….we have a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies….reiki is God’s light that heals all of those bodies for us! It is truly amazing…a massage client of mine turned me on to it as she was healed of final stage breast cancer with only 4 months to live. She became a Reiki master and she is cancer free now! look it up on line
No matter what the suspected outcome of a case against a sociopath may be, I believe action needs to be taken. I was recently involved in a criminal case against an accomplished sociopath, with a number of arrests during his lifetime, but only a few convictions (which were not brought up in court!). He even has warrants for his arrest elsewhere, and this was not brought up in court either!
Of course he and his witness lied in expert fashion during their testimony and made every effort to make me look like a nut case. It must have worked, because the case was dismissed. The judge did look at him and say, “I know you’re not innocent in all of this, but the law requires proof beyond a reasonable doubt.” My question? If she KNEW he wasn’t innocent, was that not beyond a reasonable doubt? She didn’t say, “I THINK you’re not innocent!”
I plan on writing a letter to the judge, but I know he is now protected from being prosecuted for the crimes again. (fraud and larceny)
However, just knowing that he had to go through the arrest process, pay an attorney and then the chastisement from the judge is some small consolation. Still, I don’t know how his lies trumped my truth on the stand.
Since I know he doesn’t file tax returns, I’m sure that will catch up to him eventually.
Trish,
I went through so many lawyers, I lost track of them all, I phoned advice agencies all over the UK, all I got was a huge phone bill, even a PI came up empty.
Now his people treat nme in ways that would, if I told what they were, the people I told, would think I had a mental illness.
He once had me put into a mental home, by having me harassed without proof, evidence or witnesses, forcing me to display the symptoms of paranoid schizophrenia, which I never had, just temper tantrums, which I think we all have.
Hi again,
It’s easy to say “get a lawyer”, it is not that easy. (Hello? Because I have no money!)
I only get £1,000,00p per month, sterling, I have no idea of the equivalent in dollars, the idea being that I should create the impression that I am unable to cope on that, then I get put into care, or somewhere where I am looked after and under tight control, and he gets control of the estate, charming man, right? OH MAN, MAKES ME WANT TO PUKE RIGHT UP!!!!
I also have text, taken from instant messages, chat rooms and from phone calls he had with someone else, but I thought that putting them here, would be too long winded and borng.
I am well aware this might sound strange to you, but I am surrounded by the executor’s people, and they have taken to waking me up, after a short time of sleep.
This morning, in fact, I timed it, they let me sleep for just over an hour, before waking me up suddenly, pulling me out of a dream as well.
I think they feel that some sort of resolution is near, and they do this, so that even the slightest irritation from them, will be blown up by me, into over-exaggerated and outlandish proportions, basically, so that I would be unable to do anything about it personally.
I feel I must tell you the truth of what is going on here.
Anneka,
My God….I don’t know how the law works in the U.K. If you are being deprived of sleep….they may be doing this to make you appear unstable….this is horrific…..If they were truly caring for you they would not be torturing you! MY family is Irish and many live in the U.K. And I know that they are very old school thinking. Mental Health care is so misunderstood…..Therapy for depression and anxiety is so important to the patient. Just like mending a broken leg! My therapist once said to me that usually the person in the family receiving therapy is usually the healthiest!
You have to stand up for yourself…..Depression and anxiety are normal reactions to a parents death….when you were put into care were you diagnosed with anything? And what? Get all your medical papers together! Tell your doctors that these people you say are depriving you of sleep and make sure he puts that info in your medical file. If you are able to care for yourself than tell him you can. Tell him you want these people away from you…for your own health. Depriving sleep is not a part of your medical therapy….I can understand if you are depressed, someone trying to wake you up after a good 8 hours of sleep….but not anything other than that! Do the norm and go to bed at a reasonable time and get up at a reasonable time….
Remember I don’t know about your mental health….you haven’t disclosed that…..I’m not asking you to….but be aware and honest with yourself…..go on line and read about these things….help yourself as much as you can….take your medication…..I’m sure the doctors are trying to help you! But you have to help yourself too! If you fight these people they are going to make your life miserable! It seems like they have control….because of your health….but you need to get your health and control back by actually “being healthy”. Go get some Reiki sessions…call around to people who are training….tell them your situtation….you can get it done free….as new students have to practice….let them practice on you! It is wonderful and healing! we consist of more than just the physical body…there is an emotional a mental and a spiritual body….It seems to me you need healing….And as far as the legal part of all of this….do not talk to any of those people about it! But when you do get stronger…..you may want to go to your prosecutors office and tell your story to them….and be very organized….collect all your information….in the U.S. I think that would be considered a “Theft by deception”…..but the difficult part of this is that he may have gotten a legal diagnosis of your mental health and he may be your legal guardian….and he may be a “bad guy”…..but your in a bad situation…..and you need to get strong! Remember that we are all being something at all times….whether it be….loving, caring, joyful, relaxed, healthy, Great, powerful…or the negatives..angry, upset, crazy, vengeful…etc…..I learned this from a coarse I took….you can chose what you want to be in life…..so when you find yourself being one of negatives…. at that moment ask yourself what’s going on….take full responsibility for yourself…..so if you are being angry because someone upset you than take a stand for yourself and your health…and tell yourself that you are the possibility of just the opposite of what your anger is about! For instance you may be angry because someone is playing head games with you…and you don’t like it…..so my reaction is to get angry….(that is what they expect from you)…so stop for a minute and say to yourself how could I “be” here…..you could be great and powerful and transforming…..and stand as that….and guess what….you rise above other peoples negativities and you walk away and when you truly stand in that space…you are healthy!
I am very sorry for what you are going through….and I want to believe in your health…..but you are in tough situation….and this guy may have set you up…..and he certainly doesnt care much if he is having you woken up every hour for no reason! You need to write this all in a diary…even if it is on this blog! Write me back…I hope I am some help to you.
Oh Trish,
As soon as I saw your reply, my eyes filled with tears and I cried unrestrainedly, I wanted to reach through my monitor and hug the air out of you for believing me.
If I use this like my own blogger, I think the founder would have some choice words to say to me, none of them polite, either, but anyway, I have my very own blogger, if you are interested, I have created it to record my thoughts, feelings, ideas, theories, guesses and hypotheses, it is on this url :- http://annekas-blog.blogspot.com/ , whether this will come through as a hyperlink, I have no idea, I have never done this before, but even a copy-and-paste url would do.
“You have to stand up for yourself”..Depression and anxiety are normal reactions to a parents death”.when you were put into care were you diagnosed with anything? And what”
The executor wanted me in care IMMEDIATELY after I had watched my father die, so I had no chance whatsoever to grieve for my father, I instantly had to go on red alert, to keep my freedom and independence, only a medium would understand this, but, had I not gotten a dream message from my late father, I would never have known a thing, and I am grateful for this.
I was put into the mental homer in 1993, and there they diagnosed me with paranoid schizophrenia, I take NO MEDICATION WHATSOEVER, beyond chemist bought items.
“If you are able to care for yourself than tell him you can. Tell him you want these people away from you”for your own health.”
Easier said than done, Trish, he jolly well KNOWS I am normal and sane, but he does not want anyone else to know this, for this would remove his power!
I’m sorry you are upset…..I do feel for you….I was not diagnosed with anything as serious as you….I have situational depression anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder due to the seriousness of the situation. I was never in a care facility.
So Paranoid Schizophrenia is very different…and you do need medical attention. I also understand that you have socialized medicine in the U.K. and my question is were you diagnosed before your fathers death or after and was it in your fathers will that this man was to be your legal guardian. I’m trying to help you sort things out a bit. In this country the state would have taken your estate and you medical bills would be paid throught that.
I cannot help you. except to tell you to put things into order so you can go to the proper channels for help…the law! Maybe he is doing the wrong thing with your estate only the law can investigate this….just keep talking to your doctor about getting healthy first! I’m sorry for all your pain.
“and you do need medical attention.”
No, Trish, I am so very sorry, but those people had me harassed in a specific way, to force me to CREATE TH4E IMPRESSION that I have this, when it never existed to begin with.
“was it in your fathers will that this man was to be your legal guardian.”
A legal guardian here is only for people suffering some form of mental handicap, I do not have this, as I have satisfied the social work department the executor forced me through, that I could live independently.
Here is some text, taken from instant messages with the executor, he is using the name SHADOW OF FINGER I am using the name JENNY HAYDEN :-
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SHADOW OF FINGER: hahahahaha JEN me old mate
SHADOW OF FINGER: i gonna get you even better soon
SHADOW OF FINGER: see you end up in the nuthouse hahahahaha (so that he can take my parents money away from me, without any opposition whatsoever)
Jenny Hayden: WHAT IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN
SHADOW OF FINGER: it means you will only be liked when i let you (This should indicate that if it was NOT for this person, I would be liked)
Jenny Hayden: MR M. (HIS REAL NAME, STUART MCILWRAITH)WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT(A WILD STAB IN THE DARK)
SHADOW OF FINGER: hahahahaha
Jenny Hayden: SO IT IS YOU THEN(CONFIRMED)
SHADOW OF FINGER: JEN your getting clever but you will have nothing hahahaha
SHADOW OF FINGER: hahahaha
SHADOW OF FINGER: JEN i will send you mad
Jenny Hayden: I WILL SEE YOU DESTROYED FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO MY FAMILY(HE CONNED MY FATHER, BY PRETENDING TO BE HIS MATE, THEN, AS SOON AS HE WAS DEAD, I WAS TREATED LIKE DIRT)
SHADOW OF FINGER: hahahahaha
SHADOW OF FINGER: JEN soon……..soon……there coming to take you away haha
Jenny Hayden: PAID FOR WITH MY OWN MONEY
SHADOW OF FINGER: JEN goodbye
Jenny Hayden: YOU ARE USING MY MONEY FOR YOUR OWN THINGS, THIS IS ILLEGAL
SHADOW OF FINGER: prove it hahahahaha(HE DOES NOT DENY THIS)
SHADOW OF FINGER: hahahahhaah my money my MONEY hahaha
Jenny Hayden: YOU CONNED MY FATHER, BUT YOU WILL NOT CON ME INTO ANYTHING, YOU MONSTER
SHADOW OF FINGER: aye lassy a monster i am and i will have your wee ass soon bonnie lassie
SHADOW OF FINGER: a skint little bitch thats all you will ever be
Jenny Hayden: I HAVE MONEY
SHADOW OF FINGER: and how much more in legal fees will you have to pay JEN hey how much more hahahaha
SHADOW OF FINGER: one day i will own all as i own you
Jenny Hayden: YOU DO NOT OWN ME, NO ONE HUMAN OWNS ANOTHER
SHADOW OF FINGER: haha they all hate you
Jenny Hayden: NOT ALL OF THEM
SHADOW OF FINGER: they all will soon when they see what you sent me hahaha
Jenny Hayden: SHOW ME, YOU CON-MAN
SHADOW OF FINGER: JEN i have ways of dealing with you
SHADOW OF FINGER: hahaha you will see it soon
(And I did, here it is, I was, in fact, offline completely when this was being done, this drove me right off AOL permanently, I now use it just to go online, and use Internet Explorer afterwards)
(Here, I am using the name GENTLE GAL UK)
Saddo Vivo wacko: Viv what you put in ya nut case files today eh
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, i am not a nut case
Saddo Vivo wacko: O you are inocent again eh
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, i do not decieve
Saddo Vivo wacko: O yes u r
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, i never decieve people
Saddo Vivo wacko: U lieing little fruit cake of corse u do viv
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, I AM NOT A NUT CASE, LEAVE
GentleGalUK: ME ALONE
Saddo Vivo wacko: U can even lie to ya self nut case
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, LEAVE ME ALONE
Saddo Vivo wacko: No Viv me gonna keep having a go at ya ya nut bag
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, leave me alone
GentleGalUK: I NEVER FOOL ANYONE
GentleGalUK: I AM HONEST
GentleGalUK: I TELL THE TRUTH
GentleGalUK: Saddo Vivo wacko, LOOK LEAVE ME ALONE OKAY
Saddo Vivo wacko: NO VIV YOU FREAK
viv what you said to ***** was outta order
your sick nasty old trout
what did she say
she told ***** that she didnt deserve her baby thats why it died that she was a bad mother
Sick of viv: you f***ing b**ch viv ***** is a very close friend of mine how dare you who do you think you are
she did it to someone in another AOL chat room 2 years ago as well then denied it
Sick of viv: YOU ARE THE MOST HATED PERSON THAT I KNOW
Sick of viv: NO THERE IS ONLY ONE PERSON IN HERE TO BLAME AND THATS YOU VIV
(I was offline at the time, watching one of the STAR TREK movies, ‘The Search for Spock’, at this time)
SHADOW OF FINGER: I MADE U FAMOUS
SHADOW OF FINGER: EVERYONE HATES U BECAUSE OF ME
SHADOW OF FINGER: IM TWISTED MIND REMEMBER
SHADOW OF FINGER: AND FINGER OF DEATH
SHADOW OF FINGER: AND I HAVE ONLY JUST STARTED
SHADOW OF FINGER: DO U REMEMBER WHEN I STICHED U UP WITH (another aol member)
SHADOW OF FINGER: PRETENDING TO BE YOU
SHADOW OF FINGER: THATS HOW GOOD I AM
SHADOW OF FINGER: PEOPLE STILL THINK ITS YOU
Jenny Hayden: what you want to tell me
SHADOW OF FINGER: i am the one responsible for your downfall
Jenny Hayden: what do you mean
SHADOW OF FINGER: i know everything about you
Jenny Hayden: what do you mean
SHADOW OF FINGER: everyday i am you making them hate you
SHADOW OF FINGER: jen you are just an unfortunate victim in my little game
Jenny Hayden: EXPLAIN
SHADOW OF FINGER: and as long as you are there the game goes on
Jenny Hayden: EXPLAIN
SHADOW OF FINGER: jen you cant copy and paste there is two thousand computors in this office they will never tRACE WHICH ONE I AM ACTUALLY USING (I have added the end of this sentence in upper case, as the original was truncated, by the chat room system)
SHADOW OF FINGER: they cant cos (this refers to an AOL Conditions Of Service violation) it there is to much money involved
(This is also the executor to my parents estate, as he himself will indicate)
SHADOWOFAFINGER: Jenny, no love, am just trying to get you to see sense
SHADOWOFAFINGER: and realise that you have an illness
Jenny Hayden: I DO HAVE AN ILLNESS, BUT IT IS NOT WITH ME
Jenny Hayden: IT HAS A NAME TOO, BUT NOT A LONG LATIN ONE (GRRRRRRRRR, HOW CAN HE NOT GET THAT GREAT BIG HINT)
SHADOWOFAFINGER: Jenny, you just need to spend a few weeks in the hospital love, then with any luck you will be able to lead a normalish life
Jenny Hayden: I SEE, TO KEEP YOU SAFE FROM ANY LEGAL ACTION I MIGHT TAKE AGAINST YOU, I GET IT
SHADOWOFAFINGER: Jenny now why would you want to take legal action against me when i am looking after your best interests
Jenny Hayden: NO, TO KEEP YOU SAFE FROM ME
SHADOWOFAFINGER: But im not in any danger from you jenny, is that what you really think?
SHADOWOFAFINGER: guess that goes to show how ill you really are
Jenny Hayden: NO I AM NOT, IT IS YOU, UP TO ILLEGAL ACTIVITIES
SHADOWOFAFINGER: I am the executor of your parents estate jenny, now why and how would i get up to illegal activities
Jenny Hayden: I KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND I KNOW YOU ARE
SHADOWOFAFINGER: Yes jenny you do know who i am
SHADOWOFAFINGER: but you are suffering from a terrible illness, and are not thinking straight love
SHADOWOFAFINGER: why cant you just admit it
SHADOWOFAFINGER: so when are you going to confess then jenny and admit to yourself that you are ill
Jenny Hayden: i am not pal, brb
SHADOWOFAFINGER: well jenny, when will you admit to yourself that you are ill
SHADOWOFAFINGER: and let me help you
Jenny Hayden: yeah right
SHADOWOFAFINGER: is that a confession then love
Jenny Hayden: no it is not
SHADOWOFAFINGER: oh dear sorry folks, but it looks like you going to have to put up with her for longer, she wont accept she is ill (Almost the same as the ’FAMILY DOCTOR’, “She does not understand that she is unwell”)
SHADOW OF FINGER: Jenny Hayden i am back i and i want you
Jenny Hayden: I KNOW YOU YOU BAD MAN
SHADOW OF FINGER: yes you know me
Jenny Hayden: I KNOW WHO YOU ARE SHADOW
SHADOW OF FINGER: i mess with your head once
Jenny Hayden: OH YEAH
SHADOW OF FINGER: yes and i know you jen very well
Jenny Hayden: i know who you are, what the hell do you want
SHADOW OF FINGER: i want you jen the time has come
Jenny Hayden: oh yeah, think again buddy
SHADOW OF FINGER: i want all of you
Jenny Hayden: get knotted
SHADOW OF FINGER: all the money everything your dear daddy left you
SHADOW OF FINGER: i will have it all
SORRY FOR BORING THE OTHER READERSHIP, BUT I NEEDED TO PROVE THAT I AM NOT THE ONE WHO NEEDS THERAPY!!!!
I am not against you…..when I talk about having therapy…..I care….O.K.
remember when I said it is old school thinking in Ireland and England…well it is because they think only “crazy” people go for therapy…buy the truth i therapy is so helpful for all people…..we have to stop putting such a negative connotation with it….some of the more informative blogs on this site are written by Doctors….please do not lower the healing aspects of therapy. Maybe you are not a paranoid schizophrenic….but you will not be able to prove it until you get another opinion by another professional. There is a reality here you need to be aware of! I’m trying to help you…but you have to know that I cannot even be sure because it’s not clear enough….that is why I am telling you to start documenting everything and putting it in files….put a story board together like a time line so you can get your facts across to the right people. Yes these sociopaths are good and they do try to make you look like the crazy, unstable person. The guy who robbed me had another fiance he robbed and he made her and her family believe she was delusional and she was in therapy over this….I don’t doubt this was done to you….I just want you to get strong and together….rise above the emotion….this is war now! Don’t engage in anymore of the BS with these people….you know what is right do it!