The two most recent Letters to Lovefraud both had the same theme: Sociopathic men who relentlessly pursued women, proclaiming their love, making glowing promises of a committed relationship. The men pushed for sex, and although the women resisted, eventually, believing they were involved in real romances, the women succumbed to the men’s physical desires. With that, both women were dumped.
Read the letters here:
I met him on Facebook, was used for sex and dumped the next day
I felt bonded, even though this made me nauseated
Both women were astounded at how they were unceremoniously booted. They had a hard time coming to grips with the idea that they’d been used and abused. How could a man say all those wonderful things and not mean them? How could a man who talked so eloquently about love be lying? How could a man paint such a beautiful picture of the future and then discard me? Was there something wrong with me? Wasn’t I sexy enough? Smart enough? Pretty enough?
Both women tried to get answers from the men. The men, however, never admitted the true reason that they did what they did:
They wanted to.
Core of a sociopath
Sometimes it’s hard for us to get our minds around how truly different sociopathic individuals are from the rest of us. This is understandable. After all, 96% to 99% of people are like us—capable of love and consideration.
But that 1% to 4% who are sociopaths—well, they might as well be aliens. These people:
- Feel no empathy at all towards other human beings
- Have no conscience
- Are interested only power, control and sex
This is the core of a sociopath—no empathy, no conscience and desiring only power, control and sex.
Implications
So what does this mean? It means sociopaths feel entitled to take what they want, regardless of how their actions may damage others. It means they get no satisfaction from connectedness with others, they only get satisfaction from winning. It means sociopaths view the world as predators and prey—they are the predators and everyone else is prey.
This is shocking. Mind-blowing. Impossible to understand.
So we cannot try to understand. We can only accept. This is how they are.
They do not want us as lovers, partners, friends or family members. They want power, control and sex.
learning – sound like a great project! have fun.
Buttons –
Im thrilled about the prospects of the coconut water! Cant wait to get to the health food store later today and try it. We’ve already switched my son to Almond Milk and he really likes it! Thankfully he is up to try new and different things, unlike my nephew who has the same meals everyday for past several years 🙂
What do you mean you “pull with coconut oil” ?
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Whew… I posted over One-step…thanks… and I thought I wasnt “in the know” about pulling with coconut oil and that I was going to embarrass myself by asking the question! All I can think is Buttons meant brush her teeth with coconut water! Cant wait to hear what it means tho! LOL
I use vanilla coconut milk on my cereal and it is yummy!
Where do you get oil except in suntan lotion- not sure I would brush my teeth with it??
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Learning, GOOD FOR YOU!!!! A Peace Garden – your own sanctuary. Remember to get yourself a hammock, too! 😀
One_step, “oil pulling” is a theorized protocol that ostensibly helps to remove fat-soluable toxins (heavy metals) via the vein beneath the tongue. Now, contrary to popular belief, veins and arteries are NOT made of cast iron and are semi-permeable, meaning smaller molecular matter passes in and out of the walls, including nutrient molecules as well as heavy metal molecules.
So, the protocol goes like this:
* Each morning before ANYTHING goes into the mouth (even water), take 1 teaspoon of cold-pressed seed or nut oil (sunflower, coconut, macadamia nut, etc.) and gently swish it around in the mouth for up-to 20 minutes
* 20 minutes is the amount of time that it takes the blood to completely cycle through the circulatory system – begin with 5 minutes and work your way up over a period of several days
* After swishing the oil, SPIT IT OUT and rinse the mouth with warm, seasalt water
* After rinsing, brush teeth with a non-flouride natural toothpaste or straight baking soda
Whenever I’ve used coconut oil for this protocol, it manages to whiten my teeth after a couple of weeks. I need to get back into this on a religious basis because I did notice a difference in my personal metabolism, as well as reduction in allergies.
whooooops…boy did I really mess up the coconut water/oil… I even went back and edited oil to water – lol. Because I thought Buttons originally wrote water, but I mistakenly wrote oil! Too funny… good laugh at myself today!!!! I was close tho — its in the realm of teeth brushing! Thanks Buttons! I have to go edit AGAIN!!! Love that feature!!! 🙂 rofl
oouuu buttons – i haven’t heard of this one! i do know how incredible it was to drink coconut water. i have some good coconut oil – i’ll try it. i have developed multiple chemical sensitivities and severe allergies – i’m game!
SILVER – how are you today sweetie?
i wanted to wait until you were here to say about anger: let ‘er rip!
hugs
one step
Hi,
I am good. I am thinking about going to New Zealand.
The rest of it is all a cluster you know what!
I still find it all hard to believe, but the facts just don’t give me any room not to .
Yeah, I’m disgusted with the PI and the attorney and the DA.
Like you said, its about who you vote for.
If they get into office and don’t serve, then they have to be voted out. Its an ongoing problem.
How are you?
silver – connect with pollyannanomore and rosie (not roasa) re your question about NZ.
have had a horrid few weeks of pain. entered a pain study and the protocol of tiny minute little exercises freaked my body out; and i still have no good shoes – so my whole body is flaming. fibro and arthritis together. typing is painful. have so much to do. can’t do it. hard. frustrated. scared.
i have a small script of big pain drugs. i’ve used more this year already than i did all of last year, which was 2 times as much as the year before. it’s still extremely moderate use – but damn, i am either not functional because the pain takes my body and mind, or because the meds take me out. took 4 hours after taking morphine the other night for the pain to subside. that blew me away.
besides that – i feel really messed up. part of it is the CFS…foggy brain, down, lonely. shoot can’t even articulate it. too much typing. (as geroge carlin says, ‘f*** OW ;))
i’ll get through it – but i am not feeling right.