Lovefraud recently received an e-mail from a reader telling us about discussion on another Internet forum called PsychForums. Here’s what he wrote:
Found an interesting set of postings. On PsychForums. “Craving for Antisocial Behavior.” With postings between four psychopaths. Arguing for various positions With general agreement that society has infringed on them. And so deserves the revenge. Sounding like people are viewed similarly to enemy combatants. And deserve what they get.
Alternate view is that people’s revulsion against psychopaths is understandable. That people don’t want bad things to happen to them. So don’t be a fool and don’t get caught or cry unfair. There are plenty of ways to enjoy life without having to risk jail to get it.
Seems to sum up the psychopath side of the story fairly well.
If you want to know how these psychopaths think, read their discussion:
PsychForums: “Craving for Antisocial Behavior”
WARNING the first few lines that I read were really disturbing. I couldn’t read anymore.
Wow. Just wow.
Here is a quote from one of the bloggers:
“Steal? No. Murder? No. Do I have the urge to murder? Yes; it’s all in check though. I lie and deceive everyday, because I don’t see the harm in it. If it’s done right, nobody can call you on it. Words like “lie” and “deceive” are based on ideas of morality, which I don’t have any moralistic stance on anything. I lie if presented the opportunity – if it’s socially acceptable.”
This quote speaks for itself. I have nothing to say.
Stargazer: Cowards lie. Righteous folks speak the truth.
It is easy to take the cowards way through life.
Notice no matter how difficult something is in life, righteous people get up, brush themselves off and go forward.
Where do the cowards go? Around and around and around and around. Oh, yeah, up and down to … roller coaster rides.
If anyone did to them what they do to others … then you’d see a psycho cry?
It’s like they are missing a piece–a very important piece–that would make them human. They know they are not quite like other humans and they don’t fit in. And they have their own logic, which they all seem to relate to. “If it feels good, do it”. It’s also interesting the projections they have on other people. They think we think murder is wrong only because we don’t want it to happen to us. They don’t get that we actually feel compassion when others are hurt. They are missing a whole dimension to their personality–the dimension of real emotion. I find it very fascinating and something I couldn’t even begin to relate to. I’m trying to imagine putting myself in the shoes of someone who thinks like this. How would I see the world if people’s feelings didn’t matter and if I thought morals were silly constructs that serve no purpose. I cannot even imagine a world like this.
I’ve also been reading about different personality disorders in a book called Bioenergetics. He talks about the body armoring of the different disorders and how their body types even develop in predictable ways. The premise is that if the energy blockages can be released in a safe way, the person can be more grounded in reality. As a massage therapist (and former psych major) I find this all very interesting. The only thing I found myself agreeing with in those blogs is that ASPD’s should be studied so a cure can be found.
wow… That’s some twisted,creepy shit on that psycho-site…
Can’t stand reading it….
That Bionergetics book sounds interesting. I just finished “The Sociopath Nest Door” and tonight I began “Snakes in Suits”…
Stormee,
I’m curious how you like those 2 books. Ironically, I’m wearing one of my snakes (boa constrictors) around my neck right now. He is the sweetest, most docile animal you could ever ask for. 🙂
Regarding the Bioenergetics book, I have always been very interested in energy, how it gets bound up in the body, and how certain blockages cause disorders. I have been firm believer for a long time that curing any mental illness involves physically grounding the body. That means releasing blocked energy.
According to the book, the sociopath has a rigid band of energy across the waist, dividing the body energetically into two separate halves. In the sadistic type, the energy rises up toward the head and leaves the lower have of the body with a weak connection to the ground. That is why a lot of these people look top heavy (my stepfather was one of these people, and had the classic body type). The energy is displaced upward because they are so preoccupied with ego and control. I’m not sure about the body type of the seductive kind of sociopath. But for sure, if the two halves of the body are disconnected, they can use and abuse sex without having any feelings about it. There are also bands of energy around the neck and pelvis. Theoretically, if these bands of tension could be released and the energy safely grounded, the person could actually recover from their condition.
Hope I haven’t bored anyone too much. I find this stuff fascinating.
StarG: There’s no room in their lives for love or concern about others … the BIG GREED fills their waking hours. And, I do think they dream … it’s all misty green with $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.
Peace.
I wonder if anyone monitors those blogs and keeps tabs on these P’s. They probably commit crimes and blog about them. Do they get caught from the blogs?
Hey Stargazer,
my X sociopath was definetly concerned with EGO and control… He had tons of sexual energy too, which I’ve learned is another classic sociopathic quaility…
In fact he could really be “America’s Next Top Sociopath” if anyone ever creates a reality show about sociopaths competing for who has the most classic characteristics!!! LOL
The “Sociopath Next Door” was interesting and the “Snakes in Suits” seems to be good so far..
I would much rather hang out with your boa constrictor than any of those human snakes…
Good night to all and God bless…
Stargazer
before I go to bed, that was an interesting question you had about the P blogs… I wonder also if they are compelled to BRAG about their sick antics and/or crimes on those blogs..
To everyone, Good night and Peace out…