Lovefraud recently received an e-mail from a reader telling us about discussion on another Internet forum called PsychForums. Here’s what he wrote:
Found an interesting set of postings. On PsychForums. “Craving for Antisocial Behavior.” With postings between four psychopaths. Arguing for various positions With general agreement that society has infringed on them. And so deserves the revenge. Sounding like people are viewed similarly to enemy combatants. And deserve what they get.
Alternate view is that people’s revulsion against psychopaths is understandable. That people don’t want bad things to happen to them. So don’t be a fool and don’t get caught or cry unfair. There are plenty of ways to enjoy life without having to risk jail to get it.
Seems to sum up the psychopath side of the story fairly well.
If you want to know how these psychopaths think, read their discussion:
PsychForums: “Craving for Antisocial Behavior”
Funny when I think about it, but my first husband never had much interest in other women at all. He was all about money, scamming money, making money, scheming to scam and make money.
my x was addicted to his blackberry…aka crackberry. all he did was talk or text all day long. from the time he got up to the time he was in bed. even at night his text was going off. he was never attentive. everything was about that phone. there was never a night where it was just us. he always had to text.
Blondie – One night I put my X (P’s) cell phone in the microwave for 4 seconds – works like a charm!!@.......!@.......
blondie: ROFL!!! wow, i wish i thought of that.
my ex was constantly on the phone too. some nights i would make him turn it off and he would get panicky. as though i had taken his oxygen away.
of course, his obsession was his importance and popularity. if his phone wasn’t ringing constantly, i guess he felt … less than.
he would use one cell phone and he had a blackberry that he had on his belt which he told me was ”not activated.”
guess that was the BAT phone!
the bat phone…lollollol……so why would someone carry a phone that was not activated….i HAVE to carry mine for medical on- call purposes….and he carries an inactivated one?????? lololololol…my morning good heartly healthy laugh…tks and yes his phone was integral to his well-being or so it seemed lolololololol
LIG~ I completly agree with you..i think if his phone was not ringing he was not popular and felt incomplete.
i think their cell phones are a part of their sexual addiction
new world: it looked good on his belt, that’s why he had it.
but i think it WAS activated, but he wasn’t about to give me the number. my guess is that his new gf gave it to him so they could have private communication.
he was capable of incredible deception. i never even questioned it.
Dear Ginger,
The having a “good day”thing is a day by day thing, and at first there willbeone here and one there with some downer days between. But it seems to me that at first it is hard to TRUST that tomorrow will be a good day but when you start to TRUST YOURSELF and take it “one day at a time” without expectations or worries about tomorrow, and start to think about the past less, the good days start to roll one after another.
Today had been an especially good day for me, and yesterday was great too. Not doing anything really special, just having a good day. Simple things and enjoying those simple things from the wonderful weather to the look on my son’s face today. I went to the local auction last night (and you never know what will be there) and I bought a big bunch of boxes of electronic and computer components for nearly nothing and my son D has been like a 5 year old on Christmas morning all day! Just watching his enjoyment of something simple in a gift made me want to dance.
Had an unexpected visit from a cousin and enjoyed that. LIFE is good and I am not going to let the past ruin my todays. One at a time, I’m gonna make them good.
When I go to bed at night I tell myself, “Im going to sleep well and tomorrow will be a good day.” When I get up, I tell myself “today is going to be a wonderful day” and you know, it IS because I have taken my power back from the soul-suckers, and they can’t hurt me any more. I WON’T LET THEM. TOWANDA!
My first husband never made secret calls. The reason he kept a lot of business decisions from me is because he knew I would flip out (because they were crazy and way too risky). He would always inform me of them after the fact, when it was too late for me to do anything about it. The only other time I was informed was when he made a mess too big for him to clean up. Then I had ALLLLLL the facts dumped in my lap and was expected to somehow get us out of the current financial crisis. The last two years I kept everything separate from him as much as possible, and it was easier, but we were always in a crisis because of the constant moving and changing jobs.. one year he held fourteen different jobs plus his business.