Lovefraud recently received an e-mail from a reader telling us about discussion on another Internet forum called PsychForums. Here’s what he wrote:
Found an interesting set of postings. On PsychForums. “Craving for Antisocial Behavior.” With postings between four psychopaths. Arguing for various positions With general agreement that society has infringed on them. And so deserves the revenge. Sounding like people are viewed similarly to enemy combatants. And deserve what they get.
Alternate view is that people’s revulsion against psychopaths is understandable. That people don’t want bad things to happen to them. So don’t be a fool and don’t get caught or cry unfair. There are plenty of ways to enjoy life without having to risk jail to get it.
Seems to sum up the psychopath side of the story fairly well.
If you want to know how these psychopaths think, read their discussion:
PsychForums: “Craving for Antisocial Behavior”
Odette that’s the first defense for sure.. later I guess it’s more the knowledge we build, and of course a healthy dose of skepticism.
jeepers i found it difficult to read mostly because i couldnt even UNDERSTAND it……it was the most disconnected connection of words….i really found it hard to connect the thoughts
You know I’ve noticed with sociopaths it is really difficult to understand what their trying to say..
Just like the Unibomber’s insane manifesto…( I took a look at it after I realised my X was a sociopath) Grandiose language, but the ideas made very little sense…
My X wrote me a manifesto of his own…full of defensiveness and twisted justifications for his sick actions…
wow. you got a manifesto. my ex-s/p/n would never give me a card or a note … nothing to be used as ‘evidence’.
no pictures allowed. no voice mails. no emails.
makes me wonder just now many OW there were! my guess is four.
Stormee, Ted Kaczynski, the unabomber, was diagnosed by federeal forensic psychiatrist Sally Johnson as a paranoid schizophrenic, which is probably why his manifesto is confusing.
yeah ..his manifesto was a product of his lack of self control (impulsiveness) that is another classic sociopathic trait… I gave it to the police along with his sick text messages (to myself and my teenage daughter) and his insane voice messages…. He was told to leave me alone or he would be charged with stalking, which would cause him to lose his job as a firefighter… (This was not the first time a woman had to go to the police about him)
It has been 2 months of NC… I still get pissed about him not being brought to justice…. Typical sociopath, slipped threw the cracks like a cockroach…
Here is a test to see if you can think like a sociopath. See if you can answer this question:
A woman meets a man at her mother’s funeral. He is her dream man, wonderful in every way. They talk for hours, but she forgot to get his phone number.
The next day she killed her sister. Why?
Jen2008,
I’ve read that a sociopath often has a collection of mental disorders along with “anti-social disorder” …
Can’t figure out the riddle, Stargazer…
I’m off to watch the debates (McWar strikes me as an arrogant narcissist, anyone else notice that?)
Peace out…
living with one taught me well……id guess killed the sis so thered be another funeral
Hey, NWV, good to see you back! Yep, that’s the answer to the riddle. And it is SOOOOO PSYCHOPATHIC.
I didn’t even turn on the debate as I knew it would pi$$ me off. I guess that is the “bury my head in the sand” defense against all the crap that is going on in our country! I think they are at BEST Ns, and many of them are psychopaths! I have been reading a really good book about the way cultures and societies and countries collapse becasue the rulers do what is best for themselves personally regardless of what it does to their country or culture. Always been that way, and looks like it always will be. Can’t do anything about it, so might as well not sweat and stew over it. I’ve got enough to do with the things that I can do something about.
The Unibomber was “out of touch with reality” which the psychopaths are not. The unibomber thought he was doing “good” (although we didn’t). If you “hear voices” coming from the TV or the wall or whereever, that tell you to bomb the local school and you do it, you are NOT held responsible by law, you are “not guilty by reason of mental defect”–you are “legally insane.” You are NOT in touch with reality.
That is NOT the case with the Ps. The Ps ARE in touch with reality, they KNOW WHAT IS “RIGHT AND WRONG” BY SOCIETY’S DEFINITION, they just do not accept it. When they commit a crime, the law holds them responsible because they DO know it is wrong to bomb a school, or kill a person, or rob a bank.
The “missing piece” is a conscience. It also seems to me that there is no “spirituality” there, and that they have no real meaning in life. How awful it must be to have no other desires in life, no apsirations above sex, power, money, control, etc. all the things that are “temporary” or that can be “easily lost”–to have no LOVE, care, concern, just to brag about what a “Billy Bad Ass” you are to people that you don’t even care about, but somehow you want their admiration.
My P bio father made no bones about how he despised the rest of the human race, what pieces of chit he thought they were, and yet, and yet, he CRAVED their admiration. He wanted them to admire him, to envy him. The only people who did admire him, who cared about him, he despised them even more for doing so. There was no way for him to have any satisfaction or peace at all. He was always an angry, hate-filled person trying to prove to the people he despised that he was better than they were.
They are like stage actors, they require an audience. Without an audience to their evil, they don’t exist. They aren’t real.