Archive for May, 2016

Former Marine murders girlfriend, then sends email from her account so family thinks she is alive

Yvonne Baldelli, left, was murdered by Brian Brimager.

Yvonne Baldelli, left, was murdered by Brian Brimager.

Brian Karl Brimager, a former Marine from San Diego, California, was sentenced to 26 years in prison for murdering his girlfriend, chopping up her body, and hiding her remains. He also killed her dog.

The victim, Yvonne Baldelli, lived with Brimager in Panama at the time. He left and went back to California, where he married another girlfriend.

For two years, he kept up the ruse that Baldelli was alive by taking money from her bank account and sending emails to her family.

“Semper free!!!!!!’: The ‘cruel and depraved’ case of the murderous Marine veteran, on… Read more

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Catfishing – sociopathic behavior, or a phase?


catfishI was recently interviewed for an online magazine article called Confessions of a catfish. When I communicated with the author, Aris Apostolopoulos, I had no idea that he was going to admit that he, himself, once engaged in catfishing.

Quite a few Lovefraud readers have told me about their experiences being catfished. This means they met someone online who fabricated a complete false identity, including a fake name, fake history, fake friends and fake crises.

Target almost died

One woman contacted me in 2012, before the word “catfishing” had entered the lexicon, to tell me her story. She was involved with a person for almost three years, entirely on the phone and social media. Never met … Read more

The Five Step Exit – Dr. Amber Ault talks about how her Lovefraud CE online courses will help you decide what to do

If you’re involved in a toxic relationship, how do you get out? Or, if you’re a therapist treating a client who is in toxic relationship, how do you help them decide what to do? And if they decide to leave, how do you support them?

Amber Ault, Ph.D., MSW, offers practical and realistic advice in two webinars based on her book, ‘The Five Step Exit The skills you need to leave a narcissist, psychopath or other toxic partner and recover you happiness now.’

The Five Step Exit course offers you a structured model to help … Read more

Woman records her own murder by abusive boyfriend

Wesley Webb, right, and two of her children. (GoFundMe)

Wesley Webb, right, and two of her children. (GoFundMe)

Wesley Webb, 40, and her boyfriend, Keith Smith, 43, were arguing in the home they shared in Schuylkill Township, Pennsylvania. Webb turned on her cell phone to record his verbal abuse. Also recorded was the gunshot when Smith allegedly murdered her with a 12-gauge shotgun.

Smith then turned the weapon on himself, but survived a gunshot blast to his face.

Webb’s three children were in the house and called 911.

Slain mother-of-three who recorded her own murder at the hands of her abusive boyfriend, on


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Posted in: Cases, Laws and courts

Sociopaths Assume We’ll Use Old Frameworks To Process New Information

Husband Liar Sociopath

By O.N. Ward

Every week, a chapter of my book, “Husband, Liar, Sociopath: How He Lied, Why I Fell For It & The Painful Lessons Learned” (available via, just click on the title or book cover) will be published here on Lovefraud. To read prior chapters, please see the links at the bottom of the post.

Chapter 7: What’s In It For Me? Another Red Flag Missed

Against the vast, sparkling sea of emotionally and intellectually fulfilling time spent together studying, attending classes, working out, sharing dinners, and looking for jobs, the ripples that appeared in my relationship with Paul hardly registered. No person or relationship is perfect, so of course there would be disagreements, small … Read more

Press release: Lovefraud Continuing Education now offers online courses to save people from narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths and one of society’s biggest lies: “Everybody just wants to be loved”

Editor’s note: This week Lovefraud sent out the following press release about Lovefraud Continuing Education via PRNewswire. If you’re a journalist, take a look. If you know a journalist, please forward the link. Here’s the original, with video: Lovefraud Continuing Education press release.

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EGG HARBOR TWP, NJ Lovefraud Continuing Education ( now offers online courses to help people spot, escape and recover from narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths and other manipulators. Credit courses for mental health professionals also explain the truth of how people with exploitative personality disorders behave in relationships.

Those who have suffered emotional, psychological, physical, sexual and financial abuse in a relationship often seek counseling and discover that many therapists are not familiar with … Read more

Military wife fights the Ohio National Guard and U.S. Army for 10 YEARS for more than $500,000 in support and benefits after her husband abandoned her to deploy to Iraq and later parachuted to his death

  • Kathy Mills

    Kathleen Mills is president and CEO of the National Military Spouse Advocacy Organization. “Military spouses are at immense risk of being legally abandoned by their spouses,” she says.

    Chief Warrant Officer Herbert ‘Roger’ Mills wiped out the family’s accounts, filed for divorce and volunteered for Iraq at age 57 

  • Kathy Mills, a former teacher and Mary Kay director who won eight pink Cadillacs as a ‘Grand Achiever,’ was left destitute 
  • CW Mills took advantage of a law passed to protect service members so he could avoid divorce court
  • CW Mills cut his wife out of his $500,000 military death benefits before parachuting to his death
  • CW Mills wrote on the Ohio National Guard office white board that he
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Posted in: Cases, Donna Andersen

Bill Cosby admits giving drugs to teenagers; due in court today

Bill Cosby

Bill Cosby

Bill Cosby is due in court today after the Pennsylvania Supreme Court rejected an appeal to delay his trial. Cosby is charged with drugging and sexually assaulting Andrea Constand in his home outside of Philadelphia in 2004.

Cosby previously settled a civil suit filed by Constand. He contends that the district attorney at the time, Bruce L. Castor Jr., promised that Cosby would never face prosecution related to Constand’s allegations. The new district attorney, Kevin R. Steele, argues that no such agreement exists.

In depositions taken during the civil suit, Cosby admitted sex with a teenager, and said an agency sent him five or six young models a week around 2000.

Pa. Supreme Court won’t halt Read more

Mental health professionals: Here’s the training you never received about antisocial personality disorder, narcissism and psychopathy

“Crazy-making” that’s how people describe involvements with those who have narcissistic or antisocial personality disorders, psychopathy, and even borderline personality disorder.

After enduring deception, manipulation, bald-faced lies and gaslighting, people who are in these relationships often feel like they’re losing their minds. What they need most is someone who believes their stories and can tell them what is going on. So they go for counseling.

Unfortunately, many times they discover that the therapist really doesn’t understand what they are talking about.

Over the years, I’ve heard this from countless people who have been targeted by … Read more

Count the psychopaths in ‘Hell on Wheels’


Hell on Wheels

Thor Gundersen — “The Swede” — is the ultimate psychopath in “Hell on Wheels.”

Gunslingers, industrialists, cowboys and Indians, Yankees, rebels, carpetbaggers, immigrants, Mormons, freed slaves, settlers and whores Hell on Wheels, the AMC television show about building the transcontinental railway after the Civil War, has them all.

The final season begins next month. What will happen to the hero, Cullen Bohannon (Anson Mount), a former Confederate officer who became the construction “boss man”?

Hell on Wheels first aired in 2011, but my husband, Terry, and I found it later on Netflix. We are totally addicted. We can’t wait to see how all the story lines will play out.

What confrontations will Bohannon face before that … Read more

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