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- 10 reasons why sociopaths’ lies seem so believable
- Should I warn the next victim?
- A cult of two – you and the sociopath
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Tips for co-parenting with a sociopath
- 5 warning signs that your online love is a scammer
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: I was dismissed with a shrug
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: The most important one-liner you will ever hear
- What if you decide to stay with your sociopathic spouse?
- 9 questions from an 8th grade student about how sociopaths think
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: How I got away from the sociopath
- 7 negative symptoms of sociopaths: What they don’t do
- Terrorized by two sociopathic female neighbors
- 7 reasons why sociopaths are hot in bed
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Female sociopath shares her experience of growing up with one and using what she learned
- 4 psychological and biological reasons why you can’t accept your partner is a sociopath
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: The dangers of friendship with a female predator
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: I lied to myself as I became close to him again
- 10 examples of the scapegoat’s isolation in the narcissistic family
- Typical sociopath manipulation strategies that I always hear about
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Looking into the eyes of a con man
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Tangled in his twisted web
- 9 reasons why sociopaths blow your mind
- 6 strategies to find the strength to choose yourself
- 7 reasons why psychopaths, antisocials and narcissists will not change
- New Year’s Resolutions for Recovering from a Sociopath
- Why I wrote ‘Defying Silence’
- 10 reasons to roll your eyes at sociopaths
- 7 reasons not to seek closure from a sociopath
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: I wanted him to be the guy of my dreams, but he’s nothing but a fraud
- 10 translations of ‘I love you,’ when spoken by a sociopath
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: What Would You Do?
- 13 very early warning signs that your new partner may be a controller
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: The long grift
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Lost and really need help
- 5 reasons why you can hook up with multiple sociopaths
- 10 Reasons why sociopaths really are losers
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: This was all about him and all about what he needed
- When the parents of your sociopathic ex want to see their grandchildren
- 10 reasons why psychopaths get away with it
- 6 reasons why sociopaths seem so romantic – but they’re all fake
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: When The Player becomes The Played
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: I felt bonded, even though this made me nauseated
- Hamas terrorists: Psychopaths or brainwashed
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: He was snatched from me, even though he wasn’t real
- 7 reasons not to have sex with a sociopath
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- He stole all the assets, abandoned his child, and kept his parenting rights
- Psychopaths as puppet masters
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Our relationship had three distinct phases
- To recover from the sociopath, be selfish
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: I fell for it a million times
- If a sociopath cries at movies, does it mean he has feelings?
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Houseless, wifeless and kid-less
- Games sociopaths play
- My controlling sister is a sociopath
- To recover from the sociopath, allow yourself to feel the pain
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Not one thing about him was real
- Announcing the True Lovefraud Stories podcast
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Boundaries, zero tolerance, closure, moving on
- Advice for dealing with sociopaths: Don’t take it personally
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Hyper vigilance and PTSD
- Lovefraud’s 3 Rules of Dating
- Letters to Lovefraud: The coldest man I’ve ever known
- To escape a sociopath, trust your perceptions
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Female psychopath turned into a snarling, spitting monster
- How knowing the truth about sociopaths changes everything
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Child of an undiagnosed sociopath
- Understanding trauma, the brain on PTSD, and real options for recovery
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: It did not feel right, but I dismissed my discomfort
- Child abuse is America’s biggest public health crisis, and if you had a sociopathic parent, it could explain what happened to you
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Pulled in by the child in the sociopath
- Is there any way to successfully deliver a warning message that the new conquest will actually hear?
- How psychopathic parents create complex trauma in their children
- With sociopaths, words and actions can both be lies
- The narcissist and the ‘Drama Triangle’
- What happens to your brain with PTSD, and a promising technique to fix it
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Listen to the gift of fear
- Classic sociopathic control strategy: Accusing you of cheating
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: My ex-wife, the sociopath
- The top 5 brazen lies your psychopathic partner tells you
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Psychopathic boss —pure malignant evil
- Why betrayal by a sociopath hurts so much
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Sociopaths can fool anyone
- Why falling for a sociopath doesn’t mean you’re stupid
- LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: My journal entry about susceptibility to the sociopath
- Smear campaign set me up as the abusive parent
- Games psychopaths play – flaunting other women (and men)
- Why are you distraught about the lying, cheating sociopath’s silent treatment?
- A classic Lovefraud story: I married a sociopath
- Here’s the worst lie a partner can tell you and what to do about it
- After the sociopath, I still feel numb – what can I do?
- When sociopaths threaten suicide
- A doctor twice ends up in the psych ward because of her sociopathic ex
- What is narcissistic supply?
- Early warning sign that a baby could grow up to be a psychopath
- Understanding why the sociopath is just like your parent
- Her husband was engaged in theft, embezzlement and laundering money
- The cheating golf pro
- Sociopathy is not illegal, so how do we deal with wrongdoing?
- The ulterior motives in good times with the sociopath
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